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LEGENDS are in short supply at Chelsea at the moment, but they have a solid vice-captain and leader in Ben Chilwell. So much so that at 27 he is one of their oldest players – and with that comes the task of leaving his young teammates in no doubt about the job requirements at Stamford […]

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LEGENDS are in short supply at Chelsea at the moment, but they have a solid vice-captain and leader in Ben Chilwell.

So much so that at 27 he is one of their oldest players – and with that comes the task of leaving his young teammates in no doubt about the job requirements at Stamford Bridge.

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Ben Chilwell says he is enjoying his role as leaderCredit: Getty
After John Terry called on him to become an

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After John Terry called on him to become an “elder statesman.”Credit: PA:Press Association

‘Captain, Leader, Legend’ is a phrase synonymous with Chelsea’s iconic former skipper John Terry. And a banner with that simple message hangs permanently on the ground.

Terry was the epitome of what was once a football factory for trophies, now finding silverware harder to come by.

It says so much about the modern Chelsea that Chilwell signed less than four years ago but is now regarded as an elder statesman and one of the few players with a trophy to his name.

And even with almost three years until his 30th birthday and not a gray sideburn in his well-trimmed beard, the left-back admits he is starting to feel like a father figure.

Chilwell said: ‘There are times when I feel really old. Even in the gym before we start the sessions, all the younger guys are messing around.

“I used to be there messing around and sometimes I sit there and feel a little too tired to get involved. I would like to, but I don’t have the energy for it.

“Those are the moments when I might feel: yes, maybe I’m a bit more mature than I was a few years ago. I would still love to be one of the kids, but I just don’t have the energy to participate 24/7.

“When I joined Chelsea I came in as one of the younger players and in recent years that has changed to one of the older players.

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He is now one of the few players in the Chelsea dressing room to have won a trophy

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He is now one of the few players in the Chelsea dressing room to have won a trophyCredit: Getty

“I still like to see myself as a young player, still trying to grow and learn. But I’ve taken on the role as one of the more experienced players and as one of the few players here to have won trophies, it’s important for me to try and emphasize how important it is at the club to all new players why silverware is so important. so important.

“I think it’s such a young team now that I’m one of the more experienced players. It’s definitely something that I’ve welcomed and try to incorporate as much as possible.

I played under Jose Mourinho when Chelsea had seven national captains in the starting line-up. I know what really made him special

“When you come to the club there is a lot of noise from outside that Chelsea are winning and have won a lot of trophies in the past.

‘That’s not something we should push into the boys. It is more the levels and the standards that are required. Once we do that, with the talent we have, the trophies will follow.”

Only Raheem Sterling, 29, and 39-year-old Thiago Silva are older than Chilwell in Chelsea’s squad.

Slowly and unsteadily, Chelsea’s young team is finding its feet. Two steps forward and one step back.

But there is tangible progress under boss Mauricio Pochettino. If that wasn’t the case, they wouldn’t be playing in their first cup final for almost two years tomorrow.

They have not had more than three wins on the trot this season.

Just over three weeks ago they were beaten 4-1 by tomorrow’s opponent, Liverpool.

But earlier this month they beat Aston Villa – one of the best teams of the season – 3-1.

Pochettino is in the process of putting things in order, but his predecessor Frank Lampard last season, Chelsea’s record goalscorer who won trophies there for 13 years, noted that the ferocious competitive streak in the dressing room since his time had evaporated.

I would still love to be one of the kids, but I just don’t have the energy to participate 24/7.

Ben Chillwell

Chilwell said: “I understand why he said that but it wasn’t intentional or something we wanted to happen but a lot of circumstances contributed to that last season.

“When I joined, we had a lot of leaders here. We knew the standards. As a new player I knew what was expected in training or in a match.

As a senior player I have to take on the role of setting the standards every day. There are no easy matches in the Premier League now. 38 tough matches and the cups.

“You can’t have training weeks where you get through the week and show up on the weekend. You can’t get away with that in this country.

“It is important that myself and the other leaders, young or old, take the lead. We’ve seen a lot of young guys step up this year. Maintaining the expected level at Chelsea. This is important.”

In his own way, Pochettino is reviving the silenced sense of competition within the camp – with a recent example from last weekend to underline it.

The defender attended London Fashion Week prior to the cup final

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The defender attended London Fashion Week prior to the cup finalCredit: Getty
The club has not won a trophy since their 2021 Champions League victory

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The club has not won a trophy since their 2021 Champions League victoryCredit: Reuters

Chilwell said: “Um, the game against Man City when I didn’t play the ball over the top against Raheem Sterling. The ground was full and I could still hear him from the sidelines.

“He is a very demanding manager, and that is of course what you want. There will be training and competitions where you personally think you have done well and then he pulls you in and tells you what you could have done better.

“Then there will be other games where maybe you thought you weren’t doing so well, and he was. It’s actually a balance.

“No one is ahead when they have a few good games, and when things don’t go our way he keeps the spirits high.

“There is a responsibility. It’s not just about dressing it up and making it look better than it is. He keeps spirits high and lets you know if you’re not meeting the standard.

“He knows the players he can get out and he knows the ones he needs to put an arm around. That is the mark of a good manager.

“Not everyone has the same personality – some need to dig out and some need an arm around the shoulder

“If I’m not good in training or not at the level I expect the manager to talk to me, whether it’s just him and me or in front of someone. I am fine

Chelsea's vice-captain has praised his relationship with Mauricio Pochettino

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Chelsea’s vice-captain has praised his relationship with Mauricio PochettinoCredit: Getty

“I don’t get excited about it, I only expect it when I’m not at my level in training or in competitions.

“I wouldn’t want to get away with it. I’m not happy about it, but I accept it.”

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This article is part of Overlookeda series of obituaries about notable people whose deaths, beginning in 1851, were not reported in The Times. When Cordell Jackson’s long and mostly obscure musical career briefly intersected with American pop culture in the early 1990s (coinciding with her appearance on a popular beer brand) advertisementin which she showed […]

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This article is part of Overlookeda series of obituaries about notable people whose deaths, beginning in 1851, were not reported in The Times.

When Cordell Jackson’s long and mostly obscure musical career briefly intersected with American pop culture in the early 1990s (coinciding with her appearance on a popular beer brand) advertisementin which she showed guitarist Brian Setzer a few tricks), it was almost as if she had stepped out of a dream: Grandma, resplendent in a shiny ball gown and bouffant, peeking through her old lady glasses as she furiously rocked a bright red electric guitar, amplifier on 10.

Even though we had never seen or heard Jackson before, she seemed to reside in the dusty trinkets of our country’s collective unconscious: Cordell Jackson, one of rock ‘n’ roll’s forgotten pioneers, had already made more than a six months of music. century.

Cordell Miller was born on July 15, 1923, to William and Stella Miller in Pontotoc, Miss., a small town once known as a hideout for Jesse James’ band of outlaws in the 19th century. She became interested in making music at an early age and learned to play the banjo, piano, double bass and harmonica.

At age 12, she was in her father’s string band, the Pontotoc Ridge Runners. “When I picked up the guitar, I saw it in their eyes: ‘Little girls don’t play guitar’” she later recalled. “I looked straight at them and said, ‘I Doing.'”

Jackson always claimed that she was rocking long before the men who would make rock ‘n’ roll famous. “If what I’m doing now is rock ‘n’ roll or rockabilly or whatever,” she told The Tulsa World newspaper in 1992, “then I did it when Elvis was a year old. That’s just a fact. ”

Or, as she told Cornfed magazine: “Whatever song it was, I always creamed it, so to speak. I play fast. I always turned it up.”

In 1943, she married William Jackson, moved to Memphis and tried to make her way in the male-dominated music scene. She eventually befriended and recorded demos with producer Sam Phillips, who would later found Sun Records. But she grew impatient with Phillips, who saw her gender as an obstacle, and created Moon Records, become one of the first women in America to record and produce their own music (some say the first) and securing its place in history.

“Cordell was immune to ‘no’. It was almost like that was her art,” country singer and songwriter Laura Cantrell said by phone. “A lot of artists are told ‘no’, that what we want to do isn’t possible, but Cordell was absolutely determined to become an artist. That was not typical for a woman, especially in the South.”

Recording sessions for Moon Records were held in Jackson’s living room, where she engineered, produced and released music by regional artists such as Allen Page, Earl Patterson and Johnny Tate. Although Jackson initially focused mainly on production, she would eventually release some of her own performances, including 1958’s “Rock and Roll Christmas” and “Beboppers’ Christmas.”

But neither she nor her group of artists made much of an impression, and in the 1960s and 1970s Jackson went through an itinerant series of other types of work: at a printing house; as an interior designer at a real estate agency; as a DJ on the all-female Memphis station WHER; operating a thrift store. It wasn’t until the early 1980s, when she chanced upon musician, performance artist and filmmaker Tav Falco, that things really changed for her.

The two first met at a Western Sizzlin steakhouse in Memphis, at a benefit for longtime Sun Records gofer Don Ezell. “Every guitar player in Memphis was there,” Falco said in a video interview. This included Jackson, who approached him after starting his band, the Panther Burns (featuring Alex Chilton), cover one of her original songs, ‘Dateless Night’. The two became fast friends. He invited her to appear on bills with him and his band, and she accepted, despite the fact that at almost 60 years old she had yet to play her first professional live performance.

This marked the beginning of the surprising second act of Jackson’s musical career, as she became – of one group – an elder stateswoman of grungy thrash guitar. During a 1988 appearance on the WFMU radio program “The Hound,” Jackson plugged in her guitar and let it rip; the result sounds less like a performance than like a wild animal unleashed in the studio. In an interview, Jim Marshall, the show’s host, described Jackson’s playing as “some of the meanest, filthiest rock ‘n’ roll guitars I’ve ever heard in my life.”

She headlined colorful, now-defunct New York City rock clubs such as CBGB, the Lone Star and the Lakeside Lounge, as well as Maxwell’s in Hoboken, NJ. She usually played solo, but occasionally local musicians supported her, including Brooklyn band The A-Bones. “There were no rehearsals,” Miriam Linna, the band’s drummer, recalled in an interview. “It was just, ‘Let’s go!’”

Susan M. Clarke, editor and publisher of Cornfed magazine, added, “I can’t imagine anyone knew what to do with her. I’m surprised they didn’t have her committed.’

Offstage, Jackson was down-to-earth, but correct and deeply religious. She didn’t swear, and she drank nothing but milk or water told Roctober magazine in 1993. Falco recalled saying that doctors had put her on an “all-meat diet,” and Kenn Goodman – whose Pravda Records released her album “Live in Chicagoin 1997 – said in an interview that when Jackson traveled (always in her yellow Cadillac; she didn’t like airplanes), it was with “her own steak, her own milk and giant jugs of tap water from Memphis” because she didn’t . I don’t trust any other species.

Nancy Apple, a close friend and acolyte, said that when Jackson went grocery shopping, “she wore white old lady gloves—not for fashion; she always said, ‘I don’t want to touch any of that money!’” When she got home, Jackson took all the bills she received in change, washed them in the sink and hung them on clothespins to dry.

Eccentricities aside, what Jackson did on stage was truly astonishing. Watching archive footage of her performances is a harrowing experience. During a 1995 concert in Memphis, Jackson described her music from the stage as “from barnyard disaster to classical.”

There was an unbridled ferocity to Jackson’s playing, almost as if she was fighting with her guitar to give her what she wanted. Her compositions – mostly instrumentals – may not be terribly unusual, but what she did with them, in her urgent, raw and unapologetically abrasive way, was. Jackson didn’t just break guitar strings when she played. She broke pickaxes.

Intonation didn’t seem to matter to her. Neither does keeping time: In one interview, she said, “I’ve found that the faster I play, the more accurate I become.” Form and melody also seemed largely beside the point. Instead it was all attitude, attack, rhythm, speed and noise.

She “felt comfortable,” said Marcus Natale, a bassist who worked with her — she made no impression, made no concessions and never seemed to have been anything less (or more) than exactly who she was. , her performances are a testament to the electrifying power of ragged, unmanicured music.

“This isn’t a masterpiece,” she wrote on the sleeve of one of her records, “but it might be bad enough that you’ll like it.”

Jackson died of pancreatic cancer on October 14, 2004 in Memphis. She was 81.

In her music, and in everything she set her mind to, Jackson was nothing but determined. “I was never confused about what to do while I was here,” she said in 1999. “If I think about it, I do it.”

Howard Fishman is a musician and composer and the author of “To anyone who ever asks: the life, music and mystery of Connie Converse.”

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Aboriginal elder views council’s abolition of ‘Recognition of Country’ as a ‘racist attack’ – but they hit back and reveal why the move was made https://usmail24.com/the-astonishing-reason-councillors-voted-remove-acknowledgement-country-aboriginal-elders-slam-racist-htmlns_mchannelrssns_campaign1490ito1490/ https://usmail24.com/the-astonishing-reason-councillors-voted-remove-acknowledgement-country-aboriginal-elders-slam-racist-htmlns_mchannelrssns_campaign1490ito1490/#respond Thu, 30 Nov 2023 04:30:08 +0000 https://usmail24.com/the-astonishing-reason-councillors-voted-remove-acknowledgement-country-aboriginal-elders-slam-racist-htmlns_mchannelrssns_campaign1490ito1490/

An Aboriginal elder has called a regional council’s decision to dump Acknowledgments to Country before meetings and in official correspondence “racist”. However, councilors who voted in favor of abolishing the tradition have hit back, saying their intention is now to recognize every elder, regardless of their cultural background, rather than singling out those who are […]

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An Aboriginal elder has called a regional council’s decision to dump Acknowledgments to Country before meetings and in official correspondence “racist”.

However, councilors who voted in favor of abolishing the tradition have hit back, saying their intention is now to recognize every elder, regardless of their cultural background, rather than singling out those who are Aboriginal.

Northern Areas Council, 200km north of Adelaide, passed the official motion to drop the ceremony earlier this month.

But Ngadjuri elder Parry Agius said he “did not know” why the ceremony had been removed from council proceedings.

‘[I’m] the feeling that Ngadjuri people are not wanted in that place, in that region,” Aguis told ABC Radio on Wednesday.

Ngadjuri elder Parry Agius (pictured with SA Prime Minister Peter Malinauskas) said he ‘didn’t know’ why a Welcome to Country had been removed from council proceedings

‘The reason behind recognition is really about recognizing that there were Aboriginal people before the area was colonized.

“There are Aboriginal people who now want to come back to the region for work, play, fun and reconciliation, and now that approach is being tempered.”

Mr Agius emphasized that although a recognition of the country may occasionally appear ‘bland’, its significance should not be underestimated.

The motion to ‘remove the recognition of the land’ was initiated by Councilor Hank Langes and seconded by Councilor John Barberien. Although it was passed, only five voted in favor and four against.

“Our ancestors are in that space and by actually acknowledging the statement, our ancestors connect with that statement and with the people who make that recognition,” Mr. Agius said.

“So it’s not lost, that relationship still exists.”

Adnyamathanha elder Vince Coulthard also calls the move to dump the recognition a “racist attack.”

“It is absolutely disgusting that the council that represents the interests of the council’s electorate simply cannot recognize First Nations people,” he said.

In the photo: Cr.  John Barberien

In the photo: Cr.  Hank Langes

The motion to abolish the ritual was initiated by Councilman Hank Langes and seconded by Councilman John Barberien, but the vote was not unanimous.

“I don’t think there’s any room for reconciliation anymore when things like this happen.”

However, Cr Langes has defended the decision, telling Daily Mail Australia it was “not a racist attack” and instead an attempt to include all races.

“I wanted to recognize every elder, regardless of race, who has made this country what it is today. That’s all I ever wanted,” he said.

‘We will discuss this further at the next council meeting, where we will thank everyone.

“I agree that we need to acknowledge the past, but not just for one race.”

Mr Aguis said that while the welcome may feel 'bland', it was essential to the council's relationship with indigenous ancestors and elders (Photo: A welcome ceremony to the country)

Mr Aguis said that while the welcome may feel ‘bland’, it was essential to the council’s relationship with indigenous ancestors and elders (Photo: A welcome ceremony to the country)

Cr Hank Langes (left) said his motion to remove the welcome was not a racist attack, but instead an attempt to recognize everyone who has made Australia what it is today

Cr Hank Langes (left) said his motion to remove the welcome was not a racist attack, but instead an attempt to recognize everyone who has made Australia what it is today

The decision comes after the overwhelming defeat of Voice to Parliament and growing criticism that Welcome to Country is being overused in Australia.

South Australians surprised the Yes campaign by voting overwhelmingly against including a Voice to Parliament in the constitution, with 61.47 percent voting no.

All ten federal voters also voted against.

A second South Australian council votes to stop reading a Welcome to Country at the start of each meeting.

Playford Council, located in Adelaide’s northern region, decided on Tuesday evening to end the practice of verbally reciting an acknowledgment of land.

Instead, they have chosen to place an ‘inclusive’ recognition on their website. In addition, they will reserve oral recognition for special events, such as the swearing-in of council members.

Councilor David Kerrison, who tabled the motion, said reading out an acknowledgment of the land at each meeting “went overboard.”

“I listen to the younger generation going to university and colleges – it is read before every talk,” Sister Kerrison said.

‘I think it has gone a bit too far and is not in balance for me.’

The Northern Areas Council - which is 200km north of Adelaide - says its departments are on the ancestral lands of Ngadjuri and Nukunu traditional owners

The Northern Areas Council – which is 200km north of Adelaide – says its departments are on the ancestral lands of Ngadjuri and Nukunu traditional owners

An acknowledgment of the land and welcome to the country is seen as an opportunity to show respect for indigenous culture and traditional owners.

By incorporating the ritual into meetings, gatherings and events, it reminds Australians that they live and work on Aboriginal and Torre Strait Islander lands, Reconciliation Australia said.

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Facing Financial Ruin as Costs Soar for Elder Care https://usmail24.com/long-term-care-facilities-costs-html/ https://usmail24.com/long-term-care-facilities-costs-html/#respond Tue, 14 Nov 2023 10:12:33 +0000 https://usmail24.com/long-term-care-facilities-costs-html/

Margaret Newcomb, 69, a retired French teacher, is desperately trying to protect her retirement savings by caring for her 82-year-old husband, who has severe dementia, at home in Seattle. She used to fear his disease-induced paranoia, but now he’s so frail and confused that he wanders away with no idea of how to find his […]

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Margaret Newcomb, 69, a retired French teacher, is desperately trying to protect her retirement savings by caring for her 82-year-old husband, who has severe dementia, at home in Seattle. She used to fear his disease-induced paranoia, but now he’s so frail and confused that he wanders away with no idea of how to find his way home. He gets lost so often that she attaches a tag to his shoelace with her phone number.

Feylyn Lewis, 35, sacrificed a promising career as a research director in England to return home to Nashville after her mother had a debilitating stroke. They ran up $15,000 in medical and credit card debt while she took on the role of caretaker.

Sheila Littleton, 30, brought her grandfather with dementia to her family home in Houston, then spent months fruitlessly trying to place him in a nursing home with Medicaid coverage. She eventually abandoned him at a psychiatric hospital to force the system to act.

“That was terrible,” she said. “I had to do it.”

Millions of families are facing such daunting life choices — and potential financial ruin — as the escalating costs of in-home care, assisted-living facilities and nursing homes devour the savings and incomes of older Americans and their relatives.

“People are exposed to the possibility of depleting almost all their wealth,” said Richard W. Johnson, director of the program on retirement policy at the Urban Institute.

The prospect of dying broke looms as an imminent threat for the boomer generation, which vastly expanded the middle class and looked hopefully toward a comfortable retirement on the backbone of 401(k)s and pensions. Roughly 10,000 of them will turn 65 every day until 2030, expecting to live into their 80s and 90s as the price tag for long-term care explodes, outpacing inflation and reaching a half-trillion dollars a year, according to federal researchers.

The challenges will only grow. By 2050, the population of Americans 65 and older is projected to increase by more than 50 percent, to 86 million, according to census estimates. The number of people 85 or older will nearly triple to 19 million.

The United States has no coherent system of long-term care, mostly a patchwork. The private market where a minuscule portion of families buy long-term care insurance has shriveled, reduced over years of giant rate hikes by insurers that had underestimated how much care people would actually use. Labor shortages have left families searching for workers willing to care for their elders in the home. And the cost of a spot in an assisted-living facility has soared to an unaffordable level for most middle-class Americans. They have to run out of money to qualify for nursing home care paid for by the government.

For an examination of the crisis in long-term care, The New York Times and KFF Health News interviewed families across the nation as they struggled to obtain care; examined companies that provide it; and analyzed data from the federally funded Health and Retirement Study, the most authoritative national survey of older people about their long-term care needs and financial resources.

About eight million people 65 and over reported that they had dementia or difficulty with basic daily tasks like bathing and feeding themselves — and nearly three million of them had no assistance at all, according to an analysis of the survey data. Most people relied on spouses, children, grandchildren or friends.

The United States devotes a smaller share of its gross domestic product to long-term care than do most other wealthy countries, including Britain, France, Canada, Germany, Sweden and Japan, according to the Organization for Economic Cooperation and Development. The United States lags its international peers in another way: It dedicates far less of its overall health spending toward long-term care.

“We just don’t value elders the way that other countries and other cultures do,” said Dr. Rachel M. Werner, the executive director of the Leonard Davis Institute of Health Economics at the University of Pennsylvania. “We don’t have a financing and insurance system for long-term care,” she said. “There isn’t the political will to spend that much money.”

Despite medical advances that have added years to the average life span and allowed people to survive decades more after getting cancer or suffering from heart disease or strokes, federal long-term care for older people has not fundamentally changed in the decades since President Lyndon Johnson signed Medicare and Medicaid into law in 1965. From 1960 to 2021, the number of Americans age 85 and older increased at more than six times the rate of the general population, according to census records.

Medicare, the federal health insurance program for Americans 65 and older, covers the costs of medical care, but generally pays for a home aide or a stay in a nursing home only for a limited time during a recovery from a surgery or a fall or for short-term rehabilitation.

Medicaid, the federal-state program, covers long-term care, usually in a nursing home, but only for the poor. Middle-class people must exhaust their assets to qualify, forcing them to sell much of their property and to empty their bank accounts. If they go into a nursing home, they are permitted to keep a pittance of their retirement income: $50 or less a month in a majority of states. And spouses can hold onto only a modest amount of income and assets, often leaving their children and grandchildren to shoulder some of the financial burden.

“You basically want people to destitute themselves and then you take everything else that they have,” said Gay Glenn, whose mother lived in a nursing home in Kansas until she died in October at age 96.

Her mother, Betty Mae Glenn, had to spend down her savings, paying the home more than $10,000 a month, until she qualified for Medicaid. Ms. Glenn, 61, relocated from Chicago to Topeka more than four years ago, moving into one of her mother’s two rental properties and overseeing her care and finances.

Under the state Medicaid program’s byzantine rules, she had to pay rent to her mother and that income went toward her mother’s care. Ms. Glenn sold the family’s house just before her mother’s death. Her lawyer told her the estate had to pay Medicaid back about $20,000 from the proceeds.

A play she wrote about her relationship with her mother, titled “If You See Panic in My Eyes,” was read this year at a theater festival.

At any given time, skilled nursing homes house roughly 630,000 older residents whose average age is about 77, according to recent estimates. A long-term resident’s care can easily cost more than $100,000 a year without Medicaid coverage at these institutions, which are supposed to provide round-the-clock nursing coverage.

Nine of 10 people said it would be impossible or very difficult to pay that much, according to a KFF public opinion poll conducted during the pandemic.

Efforts to create a national long-term care system have repeatedly collapsed. Democrats have argued that the federal government needs to take a much stronger hand in subsidizing care. The Biden administration sought to improve wages and working conditions for paid caregivers. But a $150 billion proposal in the Build Back Better Act for in-home and community-based services under Medicaid was dropped to lower the price tag of the final legislation.

“This is an issue that’s coming to the front door of members of Congress,” said Senator Bob Casey, Democrat of Pennsylvania and chairman of the Senate Special Committee on Aging. “No matter where you’re representing — if you’re representing a blue state or red state — families are not going to settle for just having one option,” he said, referring to nursing homes funded under Medicaid. “The federal government has got to do its part, which it hasn’t.”

But leading Republicans in Congress say the federal government cannot be expected to step in more than it already does. Americans need to save for when they will inevitably need care, said Senator Mike Braun of Indiana, the ranking Republican on the aging committee.

“So often people just think it’s just going to work out,” he said. “Too many people get to the point where they’re 65 and then say, ‘I don’t have that much there.’”

The boomer generation is jogging and cycling into retirement, equipped with hip and knee replacements that have slowed their aging. And they are loath to enter the institutional setting of a nursing home.

But they face major expenses for the in-between years: falling along a spectrum between good health and needing round-the-clock care in a nursing home.

That has led them to assisted-living centers run by for-profit companies and private equity funds enjoying robust profits in this growing market. Some 850,000 people age 65 or older now live in these facilities that are largely ineligible for federal funds and run the gamut, with some providing only basics like help getting dressed and taking medication and others offering luxury amenities like day trips, gourmet meals, yoga and spas.

The bills can be staggering.

Half of the nation’s assisted-living facilities cost at least $54,000 a year, according to Genworth, a long-term care insurer. That rises substantially in many metropolitan areas with lofty real estate prices. Specialized settings, like locked memory care units for those with dementia, can cost twice as much.

Home care is costly, too. Agencies charge about $27 an hour for a home health aide, according to Genworth. Hiring someone who spends six or seven hours a day cleaning and helping an older person get out of bed or take medications can add up to $60,000 a year.

As Americans live longer, the number who develop dementia, a condition of aging, has soared, as have their needs. Five million to seven million Americans over age 65 have dementia, and their ranks are projected to grow to nearly 12 million by 2040. The condition robs people of their memories, mars the ability to speak and understand, and can alter their personalities.

In Seattle, Margaret and Tim Newcomb sleep on separate floors of their two-story cottage, with Ms. Newcomb ever-mindful that her husband, who has dementia, can hallucinate and become aggressive if medication fails to tame his symptoms.

“The anger has diminished from the early days,” she said last year.

But earlier on, she had resorted to calling the police when he acted erratically.

“He was hating me and angry, and I didn’t feel safe,” she said.

She considered memory care units, but the least expensive option cost around $8,000 a month and some could reach nearly twice that amount. The couple’s monthly income, with his pension from Seattle City Light, the utility company, and their combined Social Security, is $6,000.

Placing her husband in such a place would have gutted the $500,000 they had saved before she retired from 35 years teaching art and French at a parochial school.

“I’ll let go of everything if I have to, but it’s a very unfair system,” she said. “If you didn’t see ahead or didn’t have the right type of job that provides for you, it’s tough luck.”

In the last year, medication has quelled Mr. Newcomb’s anger, but his health has also declined so much that he no longer poses a physical threat. Ms. Newcomb says she’s reconciled to caring for him as long as she can.

“When I see him sitting out on the porch and appreciating the sun coming on his face, it’s really sweet,” she said.

The financial threat posed by dementia also weighs heavily on adult children who have become guardians of aged parents and have watched their slow, expensive declines.

Claudia Morrell, 64, of Parkville, Md., estimated her mother, Regine Hayes, spent more than $1 million during the eight years she needed residential care for dementia. That was possible only because her mother had two pensions, one from her husband’s military service and another from his job at an insurance company, plus savings and Social Security.

Ms. Morrell paid legal fees required as her mother’s guardian, as well as $6,000 on a special bed so her mother wouldn’t fall out and more on private aides after she suffered repeated small strokes. Her mother died last December at age 87.

“I will never have those kinds of resources,” Ms. Morrell, an education consultant, said. “My children will never have those kinds of resources. We didn’t inherit enough or aren’t going to earn enough to have the quality of care she got. You certainly can’t live that way on Social Security.”

For seven years, Annie Reid abandoned her life in Colorado to sleep in her childhood bedroom in Maryland, living out of her suitcase and caring for her mother, Frances Sampogna, who had dementia. “No one else in my family was able to do this,” she said.

“It just dawned on me, I have to actually unpack and live here,” Ms. Reid, 61, remembered thinking. “And how long? There’s no timeline on it.”

After Mrs. Sampogna died at the end of September 2022, her daughter returned to Colorado and started a furniture redesign business, a craft she taught herself in her mother’s basement. Ms. Reid recently had her knee replaced, something she could not do in Maryland because her insurance didn’t cover doctors there.

“It’s amazing how much time went by,” she said. “I’m so grateful to be back in my life again.”

Studies are now calculating the toll of caregiving on children, especially women. The median lost wages for women providing intensive care for their mothers is $24,500 over two years, according to a study led by Norma Coe, an associate professor at the Perelman School of Medicine at the University of Pennsylvania.

Ms. Lewis moved back from England to Nashville to care for her mother, a former nurse who had a stroke that put her in a wheelchair.

“I was thrust back into a caregiving role full time,” she said. She gave up a post as a research director for a nonprofit organization. She is also tending to her 87-year-old grandfather, ill with prostate cancer and kidney disease.

Making up for lost income seems daunting while she continues to support her mother.

But she is regaining hope: She was promoted to assistant dean for student affairs at Vanderbilt School of Nursing and was recently married. She and her husband plan to stay in the same apartment with her mother until they can save enough to move into a larger place.

Over the years, lawmakers in Congress and government officials have sought to ease the financial burdens on individuals, but little has been achieved.

The CLASS Act, part of the Obamacare legislation of 2010, was supposed to give people the option of paying into a long-term insurance program. It was repealed two years later amid compelling evidence that it would never be economically viable.

Two years ago, another proposal, called the WISH Act, outlined a long-term care trust fund, but it never gained traction.

On the home care front, the scarcity of workers has led to a flurry of attempts to improve wages and working conditions for paid caregivers. A provision in the Build Back Better Act to provide more funding for home care under Medicaid was not included in the final Inflation Reduction Act, a less costly version of the original bill that Democrats sought to pass last year.

The labor shortages are largely attributed to low wages for difficult work. In the Medicaid program, demand has clearly outstripped supply, according to a recent analysis. While the number of home aides in the Medicaid program has increased to 1.4 million in 2019 from 840,000 in 2008, the number of aides per 100 people who qualify for home or community care has declined nearly 12 percent.

In April, President Biden signed an executive order calling for changes to government programs that would improve conditions for workers and encourage initiatives that would relieve some of the burdens on families providing care.

The only true safety net for many Americans is Medicaid, which represents, by far, the largest single source of funding for long-term care.

More than four of five middle-class people over 65 who need long-term care for five years or more will eventually enroll, according to an analysis for the federal government by the Urban Institute. Almost half of upper-middle-class couples with lifetime earnings of more than $4.75 million will also end up on Medicaid.

But gaps in Medicaid coverage leave many people without care. Under federal law, the program is obliged to offer nursing home care in every state. In-home care, which is not guaranteed, is provided under state waivers, and the number of participants is limited. Many states have long waiting lists, and it can be extremely difficult to find aides willing to work at the low-paying Medicaid rate.

Qualifying for a slot in a nursing home paid by Medicaid can be formidable, with many families spending thousands of dollars on lawyers and consultants to navigate state rules. Homes may be sold or couples may contemplate divorce to become eligible.

And recipients and their spouses may still have to contribute significant sums. After Stan Markowitz, a former history professor in Baltimore with Parkinson’s disease, and his wife, Dottye Burt, 78, exhausted their savings on his two-year stay in an assisted-living facility, he qualified for Medicaid and moved into a nursing home.

He was required to contribute $2,700 a month, which ate up 45 percent of the couple’s retirement income. Ms. Burt, who was a racial justice consultant for nonprofits, rented a modest apartment near the home, all she could afford on what was left of their income.

Mr. Markowitz died in September at age 86, easing the financial pressure on her. “I won’t be having to pay the nursing home,” she said.

Even finding a place willing to take someone can be a struggle. Harold Murray, Sheila Littleton’s grandfather, could no longer live safely in rural North Carolina because his worsening dementia led him to wander. She brought him to Houston in November 2020, then spent months trying to enroll him in the state’s Medicaid program so he could be in a locked unit at a nursing home.

She felt she was getting the runaround. Nursing home after nursing home told her there were no beds, or quibbled over when and how he would be eligible for a bed under Medicaid. In desperation, she left him at a psychiatric hospital so it would find him a spot.

“I had to refuse to take him back home,” she said. “They had no choice but to place him.”

He was finally approved for coverage in early 2022, at age 83.

A few months later, he died.

Reporting was contributed by Kirsten Noyes and Albert Sun, Holly K. Hacker of KFF Health News that is part of the organization formerly known as the Kaiser Family Foundation, and JoNel Aleccia, formerly of KFF Health News.

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John Amos, 83, has accused his adult daughter of molesting him just a week after she went public asking for $500,000, claiming he was abused by a “carer.”

Amos, who starred in Good Times, Coming to America and The West Wing, released a video on his son’s TikTok account earlier this week. It shows him lying in a hospital gown with his son, KC, standing by his bedside.

Amos is on the phone with a man believed to be an elder abuse attorney.

He says to him, “I am very capable. And I have great confidence in the doctors I have here in the medical staff my son has gathered around me. I feel very good about that.

In a video uploaded to his son KC’s TikTok account, Amos tells a lawyer over the phone that his daughter, Shannon, 56, is the person who “abused the elderly”

Amos with his daughter Shannon, 56. She claimed last week that he was fighting for his life in ICU and that the family now needed donations to help protect him

Amos with his daughter Shannon, 56. She claimed last week that he was fighting for his life in ICU and that the family now needed donations to help protect him

“My main issues are that before entering the hospital, I had some ongoing issues with my daughter, who I believe took advantage of me. She’d be the prime suspect if you did. I don’t know if that’s the right term or not.

“She is the one I would attribute my elder abuse to. It’s definitely a case of elder abuse.’

He explained that he was recently hospitalized with water retention and “a few other issues,” but said everything was “corrected or at least addressed.”

Last week, Amos’ daughter Shannon, 56, worried the beloved TV star when she claimed in an Instagram post that he was a victim of elder abuse at the hands of a carer.

Shannon Amos with her father John.  Amos told the lawyer on the phone that she was

Shannon Amos with her father John. Amos told the lawyer on the phone that she was “absolutely” taking advantage of him

Amos with his two children, Shannon and KC (right) and granddaughter Quiera Williams in 2008

Amos with his two children, Shannon and KC (right) and granddaughter Quiera Williams in 2008

“The past two weeks have turned our world upside down. My father, a victim of elder abuse and financial exploitation.

“We are working with the Colorado Bureau of Investigations and local authorities, determined to bring the perpetrators to justice.

“Legal assistance is crucial to securing their prosecution and protecting my father’s future. His home, looted, requires a safe place for his return,” she said.

She launched a GoFundMe page to seek $500,000 in donations, telling followers, “Every donation will be directed to a trust for my father’s care, legal fees, and aftercare.

“Help us win this battle, send love and awaken hope the day we can dance together again.”

It’s unclear how much was raised before the fundraising page was deactivated.

Shannon founded the GoFundMe on June 7, alleging that her father was a victim of abuse

Shannon founded the GoFundMe on June 7, alleging that her father was a victim of abuse

The page has now been removed by GoFundMe.  Amos says his daughter is

The page has now been removed by GoFundMe. Amos says his daughter is “the suspect” of elder abuse

Amos, shown in 2016, said he was recently hospitalized with water retention but that all his health issues had been

Amos, shown in 2016, said he was recently hospitalized with water retention but that all his health issues had been “corrected or at least addressed”

Amos is best known for his role on the 1970s hit show Good Times

Amos is best known for his role on the 1970s hit show Good Times

Three days later, Amos himself issued a statement through his longtime representative confirming that all was well.

He told TMZ he was not “fighting for his life” as his daughter had claimed and said he would release more information at a later date.

The Colorado Bureau of Investigations, which Shannon said she reported her concerns to, confirmed it had received a complaint and was investigating whether a crime had been committed.

Shannon has not yet responded to her father’s claims.

She and her brother, KC, are Amos’ children from his marriage to Noel J. Mickelson.

Amos was stunned when he heard about the GoFundMe his daughter set up and said, “These are his exact words.

“To all my fans, I want you to know that I am fine. I am not in ICU and have never fought for my life.

“First, I want the GoFundMe campaign about me to end immediately and then the money be returned to those who made donations.

“My son and I will release more information in due course,” he told People earlier this week.

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