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Tinder‘S’ Most Swiped Right Man ‘has finally found’ Love ‘ – after spending nine years in the app – and to collect 48,000 likes.

Stefan-Pierre Tomlin, 34, from Greenwich, LondonDownloaded the dating app for the first time in June 2015 after ‘wrestling to find love’.

But two years later, Stefan, who owns a matching company, Celebrity Love Coach, ‘became an addict’ – on average more than three hours a day by sweeping potential competitions.

He eventually earned the title ‘Mr Tinder’ in 2017, when it was revealed that more users – 14,600 to be precise – had swept right to him than anyone else.

Despite hordes of potential lovers, the male model has found ‘Never Love’ on any following dates – and he said he prefers finding those in the old -fashioned way, personally.

Stefan, who is also a trained pilot, has been open about his earlier relationships, who ‘never worked out’.

But he now admits that he has been ‘Left Love-Truck’ after a ‘partners’ evening from Soho, London, in October 2024, led him ‘Mrs. Right’ to find-financial manager, Vicky Batsford, 43, from Essex, who took his ‘breath away’.

The Meet-Cue was ‘unexpected’, but nine months later the couple became official and ‘beaten together’.

Tinder's 'most swiped man', Stefan -Pierre Tomlin (photo), 34, from London, found love after spending nine years in the app - and he immediately met his lady offline

Tinder’s ‘most swiped man’, Stefan -Pierre Tomlin (photo), 34, from London, found love after spending nine years in the app – and he immediately met his lady offline

Stefan, who owns a matchmaking company, met his girlfriend Vicky (photo), 43, from Essex, one night out

Stefan, who owns a matchmaking company, met his girlfriend Vicky (photo), 43, from Essex, one night out

Stefan said: ‘I wiped the right to her in real life. She immediately got my attention and everything was easy and of course with her.

‘At one point I received 40 games a day on Tinder and I had to dampen the app. Since then online dating has never really worked for me.

‘Meeting Vicky, I knew it would be different. She is organized, modest and saw me beyond the Mr Tinder. She is the perfect woman for me and I am completely forbidden now. ‘

Stefan was with friends on a ‘spontaneous evening out’ when he first met Vicky in October 2024.

After a nine -year -old stint, it came to Tinder who saw him more than 48,000 potential “makeers to choose from,” he claimed.

“She was wearing an appropriate black dress and looked super nice,” he said, adding to it, “we made eye contact and both smiled while crossing paths.

‘I knew I had to talk to her and we exchanged figures that evening. We soon became friends and things that came from there. ‘

Stefan said that Vicky had ‘no idea’ that he was ‘Mr Tinder’ when they met for the first time. It was only later that week, after they googled his name, she became aware and was freely ‘intimidated’.

Stefan downloaded Tinder for the first time in July 2015, after 'struggling to find love' - but quickly 'became an addict,' he said

Stefan downloaded Tinder for the first time in July 2015, after ‘struggling to find love’ – but quickly ‘became an addict,’ he said

The 34-year-old said he knew that things would be different with Vicky because she was' organized, modest and past the Mr. Tinder facade saw,

The 34-year-old said he knew that things would be different with Vicky because she was’ organized, modest and past the Mr. Tinder facade saw, “he said

The matchmaker said Vicky caught his attention during a night out - and then the few figures exchanged

The matchmaker said Vicky caught his attention during a night out – and then the few figures exchanged

“In the beginning it was a huge eye roll,” said Vicky from Essex. She added: “But I didn’t think about it in the beginning, because we were just friends.”

‘But after a few more drinks in the coming weeks, we talked more and I found him incredibly interesting. He soon skipped me. ‘

Stefan had used Tinder to go up more than 15 dates – four of which resulted in relationships during his spell of nine years.

But he ‘struggled’ to meet ‘one’ and admitted that among his 40 games a day would lead less than five percent to a conversation – that only deteriorated if he ‘shot to reprimand’ in 2017 and said it led to ‘non -authentic interactions’.

“My success with dating -apps plummeted after I became Mr. Tinder,” he said, adding, “It just became a game in which people” wipe me “only because of who I am.

‘So finding love in the old -fashioned way I trusted heavily on and I am chuffed to say that it worked.

“It was probably to my advantage that Vicky might not know who I was of the bat.”

Although Vicky admitted that there were ‘clear differences’ in who they are, she could ‘not be happier’ to call him her boyfriend.

Stefan said he used Tinder to go more than 15 dates - four of which resulted in relationships during his nine -year duration on the app

Stefan said he used Tinder to go more than 15 dates – four of which resulted in relationships during his nine -year duration on the app

At one point, the 34-year-old spent an average of three hours a day on the dating app

At one point, the 34-year-old spent an average of three hours a day on the dating app

Vicky said Stefan won her quickly and added: 'I found him incredibly interesting. He soon skipped me '

Vicky said Stefan won her quickly and added: ‘I found him incredibly interesting. He soon skipped me ‘

“We come from very different worlds,” she said, adding to it, “I am much more structured and disciplined – and he is a lot spontaneous.

‘But I think that creates a good balance and a reason why we work so well together. We are super happy. ‘

Earlier this month, Stefan and Vicky became official and they are planning to go together soon.

Stefan said that ‘the marriage is certainly in the future’ with Vicky – whom he said ‘really feels like the real deal’.

Based on his experience with the dating world, Stefan also founded an online matching site, Celebrity Love Coach, in 2021 – to help others find their other half – and has since set up 52 pairs.

“I have found my love and I have always wanted to help others find them,” he said.

‘The dating world always changes and it is easy to lose hope. But there is love for everyone who is willing to place themselves outside their comfort zone.

‘In the past I went out with models, nurses and idiots. However, things are now different with my new partner and we lead a stable life. It is something I’ve never had before. But I am willing to keep it as long as possible. ‘

The couple is planning to go together soon - and Stefan said the marriage is on the cards in the future

The couple is planning to go together soon – and Stefan said the marriage is on the cards in the future

After finding his match, Stefan now has a matchmaking - service - and has set up more than 52 couples

After finding his match, Stefan now has a matchmaking – service – and has set up more than 52 couples

It comes afterwards An influencer revealed a ‘hack’ that she claims that you get ‘better competitions’ on the popular dating appHinge.

Iman, from South England, has thousands of followers on Tiktok, where she often shares fragments from her dating life.

She uploaded a clip and claimed that she had found a way to ensure that people get the ‘best choice of the couple’ on hinge, which is available in the VK, Canada, India and Australia.

The maker of the content said the tip meant that the people she now gets are a ‘level’ of the profiles that she would usually see.

Iman told her followers to go to the Settings tab and scroll down until they see the ‘Remove or Pause’ tab.

The app then asks why the user leaves and gives them four options to choose from.

These include ‘I met someone’ ‘, I need a break of dating apps, “or” I’m not happy with my hinge experience. “

Iman says you have to choose the one who says: “I’m not happy with my hinge experience” to make the hack work.

She then said that there will be a pop-up that will say “What do you think of a new start?” The app then says that it will renew your feed while you hold existing competitions.

Iman said to continue and click on ‘try it’ and give it a few minutes before your hinge algorithm to reset itself.

“The kind of people you are shown is completely different and in my experience they have been better,” she said.

‘You can actually do it more than once, I did it twice in a row and it is like another hinge.

“Did I meet anyone there? No. But scrolling there is more pleasure. ‘

Some users thanked Iman for her tip, because they reported that they had better feeds as soon as they followed her instructions.

They noted: “Yes, it just did this and I have a lot of new people who actually live in the neighborhood and not on the East Midlands, where they were all from earlier!”

Another said: ‘Yes, it worked! Much better competitions. Thank you.’ A third written: ‘You are a genius! Tried, works completely! ‘

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