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A FIGHT EMERGES between two sisters over one of them’s unusual choice of baby name.
The family feud contained some ugly words that would not be quickly forgiven or forgotten.
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DOUBLE THE BABY NAME DRAMA
Reddit user Drunk_schrum was stunned when she heard what baby names her sister had chosen.
She blamed her sister, who was fascinated by Japanese animation.
“My sister has loved anime for as long as I can remember, especially My Hero,” she said.
“We used to get along because of our love for anime, but lately it started getting annoying because she only talked about it,” she added.
Her sister, who has been in a relationship with her boyfriend for two years, recently discovered at her gender reveal party that she was pregnant with twins.
However, the party took a less festive turn when she announced the names she had chosen for the little ones.
It seemed no one was prepared for the unusual nicknames – Deku and Bakugo – that led to the chaos.
“I was surprised at first and then after the party was over, I took my sister aside and asked her if she was really going to name her twin boys Deku and Bakugo,” she said.
“I told her that these boys will have to carry these names for the rest of their lives until they can legally change them,” she added.
She had a few reasons not to believe it, including the fact that she believed that deku means “trash or something” in Japanese.
STIRRING THE BROTHER AND SISTER SPOT
After initially being rejected, she confronted her sister again a few weeks later.
“She got annoyed and yelled at me to mind my own business and that I was jealous of her because she was able to have a child,” she said.
She said she is a lesbian who is “happily married” to her “wonderful” wife.
Although her family also included two furry babies, a black cat and a German shepherd, they had no children.
“Yes, I am infertile, but for us it was never a problem because my wife and I never planned to have children,” she said.
In addition to the digging, she also had to deal with her sister’s boyfriend, who kept spamming her phone and telling her she was an asshole for bothering his girlfriend with the babies’ names.
She reminded him that she was only thinking about their future.
“I explained to him that those kids will be bullied in high school because of those names,” she said.
“He needs to remember that these children are going to be grown adults with lives of their own, not just pets or toys. Those names are going to affect their daily lives for 18 years,” she continued.
Yet nothing seemed to get through.
He continued to call her “horrible” names and insults.
He said his girlfriend could name her babies whatever she wanted because they were her children.
She couldn’t bring herself to respond, but she was the one being blamed.
“My parents are now asking me to apologize to my sister because they don’t want the family to fall apart. But I don’t think I was wrong,” she said.
She felt she was the one who “deserved an apology” for the way she was spoken to.
OTHERS ROADS IN
Most Redditors felt she was also treated badly.
“They weren’t the ones who grew up with strange names. Trust me, the kids will suffer at school, in their circle of friends, everywhere,” said one user.
“Send your mom sweetie Jake’s texts and go away. You tried, there’s nothing you can do,” said another
“The family will fall apart because these two can’t handle twins no matter what their names are,” they added.
“I hope there is a solution for the children. I think it would be great if they had an aunt who would understand them when they were bullied. But you tried and in the end it’s not your problem to solve it,” said another.
“Expect that you [nephews]; your sister seems like the type to have a mental breakdown as a parent. Stupid and mean is not a working combination in life,” added one user.
