My husband had secret sex with 3 women – we were just married

LAYSA Miller, 31, from the UK, was stunned when she discovered her new husband Rodrigo had been sleeping with not one but THREE other women.

Now she has chosen to share her story with Fabulous:

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I stood in front of the mirror, smoothing my upper body as I turned left and right, looking at my reflection from all angles.

“One more to go back for,” I sighed as I pulled him off and threw him on the bed with the others. My 28th birthday was coming up and I had treated myself to a few new outfits.

I wanted to ‘keep’ a few items of clothing, but after trying them on at home, I decided to take a few more back to the store.

I folded the clothes back into the bag, grabbed my coat and walked downstairs. I got the car keys from the bin by the front door and went outside.

“The car is dirty,” I thought as I walked toward our black Chevrolet Prisma.

I’m going to find out…

Keeping the car clean was my husband Rodrigo’s job, but it looked like the car hadn’t been near a car wash in a while.

Rodrigo and I had gotten married a year earlier in our native Brazil, after two years of dating.

He worked in the pharmacy next to my house and when we met and started talking, the sparks flew immediately.

We found each other quickly and within six months we had our own place together.

I threw my shopping bags on the passenger seat and ran my finger over the dusty dashboard, making a mental note to clean the dashboard when I got back from returning my new outfits.

Four Red Flags That Your Partner Is Cheating

Private investigator Aaron Bond of BondRees revealed four warning signs that your partner may be cheating.

They start taking their phones everywhere

In close relationships, it is normal for people to know each other’s passwords and use each other’s phones. If their phone behavior changes, they may be hiding something.

Aaron says: “If your partner starts changing their passwords, taking their phone everywhere, even into the house, or acts defensively when you ask to use their phone, it could be a sign that they are not being faithful to you.”

“You also have to look at how they put their phone down when they’re not using it. If they put the phone face down, then they could be hiding something.”

They start telling you less about their day

When partners cheat, they may start to avoid you. This may be because they feel guilty or because it makes it easier for them to lie to you.

“If you feel like your partner suddenly starts avoiding you and doesn’t want to do things with you anymore, or doesn’t tell you about his or her day anymore, that’s another warning sign.”

“Partners often avoid each other or share less about their day because cheating can be difficult. It’s impossible to remember all your lies and it’s easy to get caught,” says Aaron.

Their libido changes

According to Aaron, your partner’s libido can change for a number of reasons, so it’s not necessarily a sign of cheating, but it can be a warning sign.

Aaron says, “Cheaters often have less sex at home because they’re cheating, but sometimes they have more sex at home because they feel guilty and use this increase in sex to hide their cheating. You’ll also find that your partner will introduce new things into your sex life that weren’t there before.”

They become negative towards you

Cheaters know that cheating is wrong and that it makes them feel good, but it can create tension and fear in them that they then have to justify.

“To release the tension they feel inside, they try to convince themselves that you are the problem and they become critical of you out of nowhere. Maybe you didn’t walk the dog that day, didn’t do the dishes, or read your kids a bedtime story. A small issue like this can now feel like a big one, and if you experience this, your partner may be cheating,” Aaron warns.

Later, when I got home, I walked into the kitchen, stood by the sink, turned on the tap and filled a bucket with water.

I carried it outside with great difficulty, dumped the water over the hood and started working on it with a sponge.

“That looks better already,” I thought, as I started on the inside.

After vacuuming the driver and passenger seats, I turned my attention to the backseat. I crouched down and vacuumed the upholstery and carpet.

At that moment the suction nozzle hit something hard in the footwell and I turned off the vacuum to get a better look.

A secret telephone?

I pulled back the mat and discovered a cell phone. Why was it hidden?

When asked for an access code, I took a chance and entered the series of numbers Rodrigo used on his usual phone.

I swiped to his WhatsApp folder and clicked it open.

My eyes widened in horror when I saw that Rodrigo had messaged three different women. As I scrolled through their chats, I saw their entire relationship described in detail.

Sexting… and more

From shady encounters to steamy phone calls, it was clear that Rodrigo was having sex with these women.

I felt bile rising in my throat, I clutched my stomach as I pushed open the car door, and I felt terribly nauseous on the street.

I wiped my mouth with the back of my hand, tears welling up in my eyes. I grabbed Rodrigo’s secret phone and walked inside.

Rodrigo was taking a nap, but I woke him up. “What the hell is this?” I said, throwing the phone at him and waking him up.

His face was a picture as he sat up and the sickening realization hit him.

The game was over and as Rodrigo looked at the secret disposable phone I had found hidden in the back of the car, I watched the color drain from his face.

No option to refuse

There wasn’t much he could say. He couldn’t deny it—he held the evidence in his hands. “Please give me another chance,” Rodrigo pleaded after admitting to seeing the women.

It was heartbreaking, Rodrigo’s betrayal had driven me to despair. But as I heard him apologize over and over again, it was clear that he wanted to give the marriage another chance.

“I don’t know if I can get over it,” he said. “I guess I just need some time.”

Rodrigo and I were apart for three months, because we took time to think about what we really wanted.

“Please don’t give up on us. I promise I’ll change,” Rodrigo pleaded.

Eventually I gave in and agreed to give him a second chance, but after that we were on and off again, desperately trying to make things work between us.

A clean slate

“I think we need a fresh start,” I said the following year. “A clean slate to begin again.”

Rodrigo agreed and we decided to move to the UK together and rekindle our marriage on the other side of the world.

But within less than a year, it became clear that it was all a car accident. “It’s over, Rodrigo,” I said. “We have to accept it. This time for good.”

Our marriage lasted only two years. The ink on our marriage certificate had barely dried. It was sad, but Rodrigo’s betrayal put me on the road to hell and now we are better off as friends.

Rodrigo said: “Unfortunately, that’s how it happened. She asked me if she could publish the story, I said yes.”

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