I sleep with a married man – we fuck bar-loos, but I don’t see a problem

A WOMAN has revealed she is sleeping with a married man and sees no problem with it.

The single woman explained that she continuously had sex in the bar’s bathrooms with the cheating man.

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But while her friends freak out and make her feel like a monster, the confused woman explains that she doesn’t know how to feel.

The anonymous woman shared her confession on the website via social media r/adultery thread on Reddit.

The woman wrote under the username @sassysades2 and titled her post “Sleeping with a married man.”

She then confessed: “So I work in a bar and we have obvious regulars who come in almost every day. Or very often.

“There was one, we’ll call him Menard. Menard came in, was friendly, gave a good tip and made conversation.

“I heard he got married and recently had a baby. A few weeks later he added me on Facebook, which isn’t surprising because a lot of regulars at this bar do that.

“So I’m drinking with a friend and Menard messages me and asks what’s going on. He then goes to the bar where we are and he and I end up fucking in the bathroom of the bar.

“I have no idea where this came from. The next Every day we start hooking up and now we have been having sex constantly for the past month.”

The Reddit user explained that not only does she have sex with this dad, but she also meets him without fucking.

She added: “We don’t talk about his wife, we hang out without having sex but it’s nothing emotional. Like almost friends with advantages but he is married.’

Not knowing how to feel, she continued, “And all my close friends and family are just driving me crazy.

“I guess I just don’t know whether to feel like I’m a terrible person.

Four warning signs that your partner is cheating

Private investigator Aaron Bond from BondRees revealed four warning signs that your partner may be cheating.

They start taking their phones everywhere

In close relationships, it is normal to know each other’s passwords and use each other’s phones. If their phone habits change, they may be hiding something.

Aaron says, “If your partner starts changing his password, taking his phone everywhere, even around the house, or if he gets defensive when you ask to use his phone, this could be a sign that he’s not being faithful. “

“You should also look at how they put their phone down when not in use. If they look at the phone with the screen facing down, they may be hiding something.”

They start telling you less about their day

If partners cheat, they may start avoiding you. This could be because they feel guilty or because it is easier for them to lie to you.

“If you feel like your partner suddenly starts avoiding you and stops wanting to do things with you or stops talking about their day, this is another warning sign.”

“Partners often avoid their spouses or tell them less about their day because cheating can be difficult, remembering all your lies is impossible, and it’s an easy way to get caught,” says Aaron.

Their libido changes

Your partner’s libido can change for a variety of reasons, so it may not be a sure sign of cheating, but Aaron says it can be a warning sign.

Aaron says: “Cheaters often have less sex at home because they are cheating, but occasionally they may also have more sex at home. This is because they feel guilty and use this increase in sex to hide their cheating. You may also find that your partner will introduce new things into your sex life that were not there before.”

They become negative towards you

Cheaters know that cheating is wrong and for them it will feel good. This can cause tension and anxiety within themselves that they will have to justify.

“To release the tension they feel inside, they will try to convince themselves that you are the problem and out of nowhere become critical of you. Maybe you didn’t walk the dog that day, do the dishes, or do a book read. Book to your children before bed. A small problem like this can now feel like a big problem and if you experience this, your partner may be cheating,” Aaron warns.

“I like to believe that I am a good person who is sincere, caring and kind.

“But they make me feel like a monster. Side note: I’m single, so I’m not cheating on anyone personally.

REDDIT USERS REACT

Reddit users were stunned by the woman’s confession, with many flocking to the comments to share their thoughts – but there was a clear divide.

One person said: “You sound proud of yourself. You may be single and haven’t made vows to his wife, but a decent human being would have stopped this before it went any further.

You’re definitely not a bad person. He’s the one who took the vows, right?

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Another added: “You should know that if you tell enough people you will get negative feedback.”

A third commented: “I’d say you’re not a bad person at all. It’s 100% in him current not to have sex with anyone other than his wife.

“He made that decision just as much as you did, except he has baggage, you don’t. I don’t think you have anything to feel bad about.”

While someone else wrote: “You’re definitely not a bad person. He’s the one who took the vows, right?’