Bride noticed ‘selfish’ about ‘loosened’ warning she gave to her bridesmaid for the wedding

A woman is described as ‘strange and selfish’ after he has told one of her bridesmaids not to become pregnant for the wedding.

The bridesmaid, which is considered in the US, revealed her dilemma in one after on Redditclaim that she was told that they ‘do not want anyone to look enormous’ in the photos.

Commentators were largely supported for the bridesmaid and agreed that it was an unreasonable request.

In a post entitled not allowed to get pregnant, she wrote: ‘I had a conversation with my husband about getting a baby … He brought it up because my clock taps.

“I said I might have been pregnant with the bride and she said I had to wait until after the wedding, towards the end of the year where” you shouldn’t “fashion.

‘I understand that she does not want me to look enormously on photos, but this trend to not allow people to become pregnant is so self -centered and seems like a common desire for today’s brides.

‘I am not friends with the other bridesmaids, so I have not spoken to her nor she and I feel that I can’t.

“I don’t want you to tell me how to do it, I just want to know opinions about this and whether anyone has had a similar experience?”

A bridesmaid (not depicted) has revealed in a post on Reddit that the bride (not depicted) told her not to get pregnant before the wedding (stock image)

To the commentary part, many were stunned by the bride’s requirement.

They wrote: ‘I am pretty sure that I decide to have a child and become pregnant is much more important in your life than the’ special day ‘of this bride. IMO, asking people to get their lives on hold, is really strange and selfish behavior. ‘

A second added: ‘Time to deliver the polite no. No way in hell tells someone else when I have to get pregnant. Brides go way too far. ‘

In a similar spirit, a third wrote: ‘The bride does not dictate this. Go pregnant if you want and if the bride wants to blow up a friendship about it, she was not your friend to start with and good advice.

‘My MOH was eight months pregnant and huge and I cherished every minute and her was swollen feet in a tight dress to support me. Because that is what friendship is. ‘

A further respondent agreed and added: ‘If a bride marries next month, this kind of behavior is so confusing for me.

‘I would be so excited if one of them was pregnant! And if they thought they couldn’t play the role, I would understand fun like WTF. They cannot dictate if you have a baby, do what is best for you! ‘

Following an assertive approach was the suggestion of a further reddit user, who said: “Tell her that you get pregnant if it is best for you and if it is not for her, you will be a guest, not a bridesmaid.”

“That is completely stupid, pregnant women are beautiful, why don’t have any of your wedding photos 🙂 Get pregnant when you want and can!,” Wrote another.

And a further poster agreed and noticed: ‘Girlfriend, you get one life. The choice to have a child is between you and your partner. Let a selfish fool have no power over you. And to be honest? Reconsider that whole friendship. Bride sounds loose. ‘

Referring to her own real experience, said a Reddit user: ‘I went to a wedding where the MOH was 7.5 months pregnant. She looked nice and nobody broke an eye! ‘

“She can’t dictate that,” wrote another. “To be honest, if I was, I would now stop just because she tried. ‘

And another suggested that the poster saved money by dropping the bridal party and saying: ‘A friend you say you don’t get pregnant because she is worried about the aesthetics of her wedding photos is not a real friend. Plan your family on your own schedule.- Maybe UU saves the costs of a bridesmaid dress! ‘