A good example of Elderspeak: Cindy Smith was visiting her father in his assisted living apartment in Roseville, California. An assistant who tried to bring him to do something – Mrs. Smith no longer remembers exactly what – let me help you, sweetheart. “
“He just gave her the look – under his bushy eyebrows – and said:” What, are we getting married? “” Lord, Mrs. Smith, who had a good smile, she said.
Her father was then 92, a retired provincial planner and a veteran from the Second World War; Macular degeneration had reduced the quality of his vision and he used a walker to make ends meet, but he remained cognitively sharp.
“He would not normally get icy with people,” said Mrs. Smith. “But he had the feeling that he was an adult, and he was not always treated.”
People almost intuitively understand what “Elderspeak” means. “It is communication with older adults who sound like a baby,” said Clarissa Shaw, a researcher of dementia care at the University of Iowa College of Nursing and a co -author of A recent article This helps researchers to document their use.
“It stems from an ageistic assumption of vulnerability, incompetence and dependence.”
The elements include inappropriate affection. “Elderspeak can check, a bit bossy, so to alleviate that message there is ‘darling’, ‘Dearie’, ‘sweetheart’,” said Kristine Williams, a nurse gerontologist at the University of Kansas School of Nursing and another co -author.
“We have negative stereotypes of older adults, so we change the way we talk.”
Or health care providers can resort to multiple pronouns: Are we ready to take our bath? There, the implication “is that the person is unable to act as an individual,” said Dr. Williams. “Hopefully I will not take the bath with me.”
Sometimes parent speakers use a louder volume, shorter sentences or simple words that have been collected slowly. Or they can take on an exaggerated, singing vocal quality that is more suitable for toddlers, along with words such as “jar” or “jammies”.
With so-called tag questions- It’s time for you to have lunch now, right? – “You ask them a question, but you don’t let them respond,” Dr. Williams out. “You tell them how to respond.”
Studies in nursing homes show how everyday such speech is. Then Dr. Williams, Dr. Shaw and their team video -recordings of 80 interactions between personnel and residents with dementia analyzed, they thought that 84 percent Had a form of Elderspeak involved.
“The majority of the Elderspeak is well intended. People try to show that they give it up,” said Dr. Williams. “They don’t realize the negative messages that come through.”
For example, nursing home residents with dementia, Studies have found a relationship Between exposure to Elderspeak and behavior that is jointly known as a resistance to care.
“People can turn around or cry or say no,” Dr. explained. Williams out. “They can close their mouths if you try to feed them.” Sometimes they push caregivers away or strike.
She and her team developed a training program named Chat (for changing talks), three -hour sessions containing videos of communication between staff and patients, intended to reduce the Elderspeak.
It worked. For the training, in 13 nursing homes in Kansas and Missouri, almost 35 percent of the time spent in interactions from Elderspeak; That number was then only about 20 percent.
At the same time, resistant behavior accounted for almost 36 percent of the time spent in meetings; After the training, that share fell to around 20 percent.
A study conducted in a Midwestern Hospital, again found in patients with dementia The same type of decline of the resistance behavior.
What is more, chat training in nursing homes was associated Lower use of antipsychotic drugs. Although the results achieved no statistical significance, partly due to the small sample size, the research team considered them ‘clinically significant’.
“Many of these medicines have a black box warning from the FDA,” said Dr. Williams about the drugs. “It is risky to use them with vulnerable, older adults” because of their side effects.
Now Dr. Williams, Dr. Shaw and their colleagues streamlined and adapted to chat training for online use. They investigate its effects in around 200 national nursing homes.
Even without formal training programs, individuals and settings can fight Elderspeak. Kathleen Carmody, owner of Senior Matters Home Care and Consulting in Columbus, Ohio, warns her assistants to address customers as the Lord or Mrs. or Madam, “Unless or until they say:” Please Betty please. “
In long -term care, however, families and residents can be concerned that correcting the way in which staff members speak can create antagonism.
A few years ago, Carol Fahy fiddled with the way assistants treated her mother in a supervised facility in the suburb of Cleveland, who was blind and increasingly became dependent in her 1980s.
Call her ‘sweetheart’ and ‘honey babe’, would be the staff ‘floating and COO, and they put her hair up in two tails on top of her head, as you would do with a toddler,’ said Mrs. Fahy, 72, a psychologist in Kaneohe, Hawaii.
Although she recognized the pleasant intentions of the assistants, “there is a falsehood,” she said. “It doesn’t take care of someone who feels good. It is actually alienating.”
Mrs. Fahy considered discussing her objections with the assistants, but “I didn’t want them to take revenge.” Eventually she moved her mother to another facility for various reasons.
But object to Elderspeak does not have to become an opponent, Dr. said. Shaw. Residents and patients – and people who come across elsewhere elsewhere, because it is hardly limited to health care institutions – can politely explain how they would rather be spoken and what they want to be called.
Cultural differences also play a role. Felipe Agudelo, who teaches health communication at Boston University, pointed out that in certain contexts a diminutive or term of affection “does not result from underestimating your intellectual capacity. It is an affection time”.
He emigrated from Colombia, where his 80-year-old mother does not take offense when a doctor or caregiver asks her for “still la pastillita” (take this small pill) or “mueva la manito” (move the little hand).
That is common, and “she feels that she talks to someone who cares,” said Dr. Agudelo.
“Come to a negotiating place,” he advised. “It doesn’t have to be a challenge. The patient has the right to say,” I don’t like being talking to me that way. “
In exchange, the employee must acknowledge that the recipient does not come from the same cultural background, “he said. That person can answer: “This is the way I usually talk, but I can change it.”
Lisa Greim, 65, a retired writer in Arvada, Colo, recently pushed back against Elderspeak when she registered for Medicare coverage.
Suddenly she told an e-mail, a mail order pharmacy started calling almost daily because she had not filled a recipe as expected.
These “gently bending” callers, apparently reading from a script, all said, “It’s hard to remember to take our medicines, right?” – As if they all swallow pills together with Mrs. Greim.
Annoyed by their suspicion, and their follow -up question about how often she forgot her medicines, Mrs. Greim told them she had filled before, she had enough stock, thanked. She would organize again if she needed more.
Then: “I asked them to stop calling,” she said. “And they did.”
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