Expert reveals the meaningful signs of an abuser … while breaking down despise claims from the Diddy test

A psychotherapist has weighed up Clearlyis alleged abuse of Cassie Ventura – While the Blockbuster test of the rapper continues to shock the entertainment world.

Janet Bayramyan, who specializes in narcissism, said the Daily Mail that the accusations that have been leveled against him can often be seen in relationships such as theirs.

She said that the use of coercion, control, sexual and physical violence is often reported by victims to their therapists.

But she noticed the most important difference between Diddy’s alleged actions and that of most other abusers lies in the scale in which it took place.

It comes when R&B singer Cassie delivered horrible graphic testimonials who have physically and psychologically abused the Music Mogul for more than ten years.

The 38-year-old detailed regular strokes, blackmail, corrupt sexual acts and the medical toll they suffered as a result.

Bayramyan said that all abusers have one thing in common, and she has seen the same result from the current test.

Instead of anger, she explained that the desire for ‘control’ is the core of a lot of abuse. “Abusers believe that they have the right to dominate their partner’s emotions, body, time and decisions,” she said.

“Tools such as violence, sex, money and threats are used to force that check.”

She said in the context of Diddy, there seems to have been an aspect of career control over cassie, as well as financial, cultural and social power and influence.

In essence, he had enough power to make it difficult for people to believe her or to support her.

She continued: “He had the means to survive, intimidate and take revenge without an immediate effect.”

Bayramyan said that Cassie’s testimony about Diddy is an example of someone who was cared for – especially given that she was 19 and he was 37 when they met.

“She also describes experiences with regard to isolation, and limitations with whom she could contact and spend time,” she said.

‘This insulation is a common tactic that is used to increase the dependence on the victim of the abuser. There was also discussion about compulsory control.

“She described that she had to deal with forced sex, sex that was admitted and threats to expose the recordings if she didn’t follow what he said she should do.”

Bayramyan said it sounds like cassie trauma connected to Diddy.

When Cassie’s mother Regina took the position to testify against Diddy, she said he reportedly had threatened to leak sexual videos from Cassie to the audience.

Bayramyan continued: ‘Revenge porn, or the threat to expose private, sexual images or videos is a method for checking after breaking.

“It is meant to humiliate the victim and put pressure in constant silence and to follow their ‘rules’.”

“It can also prevent them from leaving the relationship and continuing to strengthen the dominance.”

She said for someone like Diddy – who has power, wealth and influence – threats that serve to intimidate victims in silence.

But if this kind of abuse not only starts at night. Bayramyan explained that most abusers reveal certain signs of abuse early on.

Some of these include love bombing, rapid dedication – such as early on exclusivity – jealousy disguised such as love, monitoring, criticism and a lack of respect for boundaries.

But only because these signs can be detected early in a relationship does not mean that abuse can always be ‘avoided’ or ‘escaped’.

Even in less serious cases, factors such as fear of violence, emotional attachment, shame and self -accusation, financial dependence, threat to a person’s livelihood and a lack of social support can lead to victims in their insulting dynamics.

And specifically in Cassie’s case, Bayrayman said it could have been all and more.

“Diddy was her boss, producer and partner,” she said. “He would have checked her finances and career opportunities.

“He was connected in almost every corner of the industry. He had legal teams, media power and publicists to protect his image. ‘

She said it could have meant that they have blackballed, smeared or did damage.

“This is what trauma therapists call a” closed system of electricity ” – there is no safe exit when the abuser controls every door.”

Diddy denies the sexual ex-girlfriend Cassie, who completed her evidence earlier this week, and a second non-mischievous woman.

He also denies racketeering. Diddy’s lawyers admit that he is a domestic abuser, after a clip of 2016 that he beat cassie in a hotel corridor in the world.