I am a 70-year-old grandmother who uses dating apps every day after leaving my 34-year-old man I feel years younger (and have the best sex of my life!)

A grandmother who uses dating -apps at the age of 70 said she looks and feels for decades younger -and has the best sex of her life.

Tina Pemberton, a grandmother of three of Londonsaid she lives like a teenager again.

She fought well, dating and even split her sex life after leaving her 34 year old husband.

She feels that later in life sexual awakening her even made her look ‘timeless’ and feel.

“I live as a teenager,” Tina said. ‘I embrace every new thing and I don’t feel old at all.

“I feel timeless and I actually think I have become a happier person and I look better than 20 years ago.”

Tina said that the biggest surprise has again discovered her sex life, and how satisfying it can be.

‘They say you get older as you get older, but I met someone who knew exactly what to do.

‘He used lubricants and everything to give me a good feeling. It worked and I couldn’t believe it.

“I was on Cloud Nine. I hoped, danced, jumped everywhere – it really works. ‘

Tina, who once led a restaurant in Norfolk before he retired, said that every woman deserves to feel good, regardless of their age.

“You see women on the train and they look miserable and you think – I know what they need,” she said. Every woman needs that at some point. ‘

The grandmother is now on a mission to break the taboo around older women and intimacy.

Her openness about sex led her to become one of Lovehoney’s first ‘Queen Bees’ – a senior sex adviser on the new expert panel of a brand aimed at breaking the stigma around sex and aging.

Now she uses that platform to encourage other women to embrace their desires without shame.

She believes that society is far too fast to fire older women, especially when it comes to love, sex and dating.

“I just think it’s very stupid,” she went on.

‘People see your age on a dating app and don’t even consider going out with you.

‘Why do they think a person should change their feelings?

“Forget the wrinkles and think of the twinkles.”

After 34 years of marriage, Tina realized that something was missing and he made the brave decision to start again eight years ago.

“I left my husband and I came from the countryside to London,” she said.

“There was a large age gap – he was 18 years older – and suddenly it didn’t work.

‘I was full of energy, wild things and living in the country did not work for me.

“I really wanted to be active again instead of living my life as a pensioner.”

Tina ended her marriage, left her quiet life in Norfolk and moved to London to live with her 31-year-old son Josh.

She enjoyed nights in the theater and went out with friends when someone suggested that she was trying online dating.

“I started getting competitions and going on dates,” she said. “I had never been to dating apps in my life.”

But it didn’t take long before she was a busy social life and to tell many stories.

Tina said she had dated men older, younger and her own age – but they didn’t all impress her.

She said: ‘It was interesting to see how men of my age still play games.

‘I had not gone out since my 1920s and I was quite shocked.

“They don’t mature; They just expect the same things.

“A man met me and immediately grabbed my hand. I didn’t even know him. ‘

Some other Tina dates have been memorable for the wrong reasons.

“There was one with whom I spoke on the phone for a long time before I met him for a coffee,” Tina remembered.

‘When I saw him waiting for me, I just knew it was wrong – I didn’t even want to go there.

“I had nothing to say to him and I am a very talkative person. It was really embarrassing. ‘

Tina said there was one man who even set up his digestive problems during dinner.

She remembered: ‘We went to eat and he started talking about his bowel movements. I don’t really want to know.

“Constipation and this, that or the other – it really put me from my food.”

Tina has now had dozens of dates, but says that the most meaningful connections of the apps have happened.

She said: ‘Fond enough, the people I have had something to do with, did not continue with dating apps, but by people who have introduced us.

‘A few led to things and we went out once or twice. It is strange but exciting. ‘

Tina decided to register with Tiktok to talk about her best and worst dates and to encourage other older women to start dating again.

Some dates bruhered and others haunted her, but Tina said she learned not to take it personally.

She said: ‘Then I started to record my things last year, about bad dates and funny.

“I’m getting haunted. They can talk to me for a week and then disappear.

“It can be offensive, but I have grown that it understands and I am doing the same now.”

Tina is open to meet a special person, only on someone else’s timeline.

‘Maybe I don’t want anyone to get married full -time or again, but I would like to find a new lover – I don’t give that up. I know that when it’s right, it’s right. ‘

The 70-year-old hopes that by being open about her experiences, other women can also help to feel empowered.

‘Younger women are very inspired. They say, “I want to be like you at your age.”

‘My advice would be not to listen to someone you tell you that you are not going and have a good time and a sexual [relationship].

‘I try to break the taboo of older women who enjoy sex and have a love life. It is very healthy – it is very good for endorphins, good for everything. ‘

Tina said she doesn’t get slows down quickly. She added: ‘I would never have thought this would happen to me, and that is why it is so surprising.

‘I surprise myself every day and I think that’s the best. They say that good things come for those who wait. ‘