I am a tantric sex coach and you can use ‘sex magic’ to manifest your goals
MANIFESTING a more satisfying life depends on how you position yourself — in the bedroom.
According to a tantric sex coach, if you can dream it, you can make it happen – as long as you do it the right way.
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MANIFESTING MISSION
According to Sarrah Rose, a tantric sex coach and founder of the AI app Elixr, it turns out that tips for having a good time with sex can lead to more success in general.
Rose, who spent ten years training in tantra and spending time with gurus in India, shared how to take your love life to the next level.
“Sex magic is a way of visualizing something you want in your life, especially during sex,” she told The US Sun.
She explained that the most significant breakthrough in the bedroom usually occurs at the pinnacle of intimate perfection: an orgasm.
This manifesting mindset is designed to align you and your partner.
“You and your partner can have the same goal,” she said.
“You may want to go on holiday together next year and you may express that through your sexual acts,” she continues.
This magic between the sheets uses sexual energy to manifest your core desires, but you have to be ready to take it to the next level.
“We achieve what we focus on and take action on,” she said.
“The trick is to work on personal growth first before trying sex magic. We often focus only on superficial desires and do not know what our true desires are.
“We also tend to sabotage ourselves, which prevents us from fulfilling our desires.”
THE GREAT PREST-‘O’ CHANGE-O
Once you have ‘healed’ the ‘wound’ that is holding you back, you can use your imagination to visualize your desires, even if you do it on your own.
“Keep imagining yourself getting what you want as your pleasure increases and you reach a climax,” she said.
Men can have multiple orgasms without ejaculation, and women can also have multiple orgasms all over the body.
Sarrah Roos
“The next step is to take action in your life to make this wish come true. Keep focusing until you achieve what you want,” she continued.
“The most important thing is that you do things that bring you joy, love and fun while you work toward your goals.”
Wave your magic wand
Her professional tips can also add extra fun anywhere.
“Full-body orgasms are very common in tantra,” she said.
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“It’s about feeling like you’re having an orgasm all the way down to your toes, fingertips, and the top of your head.
“Everything is electrified by that orgasmic experience.
“Men can have multiple non-ejaculatory orgasms and women can also have multiple full-body orgasms.”
BETTER BREATHE-LIFE IT
You can also warm it up by getting a high feeling without having to do anything.
She explained that better bedroom sessions start with our breathing.
“Tantra involves a lot of breathing exercises,” she said.
People hear tantric sex and immediately think of Sting talking about sex that lasts for hours. It can be that, and it can be tantric sex, but it is so much more than that.
Sarrah Roos
“By using our breathing we can experience different states of consciousness in which we feel more.
“It releases DMT, which makes it feel like you’re having a drug-induced experience even though you’re not taking drugs,” she continues.
And that’s not all that leads to even more exciting sex sessions.
Adding sounds can ‘enhance’ our sexual experience.
“A lot of people feel inhibited when it comes to sexual sounds,” she said.
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“It’s about noticing the sensations in the body movement from moment to moment and following the sounds so that they can grow and expand,” she continues.
“It can also help you grow deeper with your partner.”
YOU ARE WORTH IT
The tantric coach and entrepreneur knows that prioritizing our own sense of self-worth can lead to extra pleasure.
That’s why her approach and her Elixr app are based on self-love.
“When we are more in touch with ourselves and give ourselves what we really desire, we show up in a different way during sex,” she said.
And self-love goes beyond just longevity.
[Gen Z-ers] don’t want to be ignored, they don’t want one-night stands — they want a deep connection.Sarrah Roos
“People hear tantric sex and think of Sting talking about sex over several hours. It can be that, and it can be tantric sex, but it’s so much more than that,” she said.
“It’s about the intimacy and the deep connection and love that comes from the practices,” she added.
“It helps them improve themselves. It’s a mechanism for personal growth and an important part of the app.
“It’s about giving ourselves what we deserve, but a lot of people don’t talk about that and don’t really understand what it means.”
Rose wants you to remind yourself to take good care of yourself, just as you would take care of someone you love and care about.
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“We often have stories in our heads that we are not worthy or deserving. We try to jump through hoops to prove ourselves instead of being who we are,” she said.
KEY TO GEN-Z
Her app, which is specifically aimed at helping Generation Z find their dream partner, provides insight into their partner preferences.
“They don’t want to be ignored, they don’t want one-night stands. They want a deep connection and that’s what I’ve helped people achieve through tantric coaching,” she said.
“They are looking for stability and authenticity in a healthy, committed relationship,” she continues.
“We help you build a relationship that fits who you are and what you want. We also create a sex life that feels good for you.
“We are there for our members when they experience problems in their relationships.”
Her goal is also to reshape relationships and hopefully reduce unnecessary pain.
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