I am married and have slept with 8 other women behind her back – most men do that

SOCIAL media manager Marvin Walters* admits to having multiple affairs, and here he tells Kirsten Jones why men cheat…

“It’s a fact that most men cheat.

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It’s just that some are better at hiding it than others.

A few years ago my marriage fell apart for a number of complicated reasons.

But cheating gave me the opportunity to meet like-minded women and satisfy my needs that I had not been satisfied for a long time.

I slept with eight women while married.

My excuse? I needed romance, intimacy, and passion in my life.

That was my choice, and my fault.

My wife doesn’t know that I’m having multiple affairs.

I only meet women when I travel.

I have too much respect for her to sleep with a local lady.

The risk of getting caught is far too great and the annoyance is simply not worth it.

I don’t want to humiliate or embarrass my wife. I just want a connection with someone else, away from prying eyes.

Why do I have affairs?

Because I’m looking for something I don’t have.

I’m probably one of the many stupid people who will eventually find out that they already had everything at home.

But it is too late for that now.

The truth is that for many men, cheating is often more than just sex.

‘TWO FOR THE TANGO’

It can be a meeting of both minds and bodies.

When you lie in bed and hold someone in your arms who truly wants to be with you and nowhere else, there is a beautiful connection and a feeling like no other.

Yes, it was a double whammy, because for me this feeling was not with my wife, and yes, that is a burden that I will carry with me for a long time, but it was the price I paid for it.

I’ve always expected more from an affair than just undressing in a hotel room

I’ve always expected more from an affair than just walking around naked in a hotel room.

I want a romantic connection, an emotional bond during the time I’m with them.

And let’s not forget: if a man wants to cheat, he needs someone to do it with.

Every adulterous man must have a willing “partner in crime.”

You need two people to tango.

I’ve never slept with anyone who didn’t want to be with me. It’s not all the man’s fault.”