I caught my husband cheating in our car with our baby in the back – I’m furious

A WOMAN has been left in a state of rage after catching her husband having sex in the car with his mistress while their baby was in the backseat.

She revealed that they had been married for ten years and had three children together, but she knew he had been unfaithful before.

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She revealed that the first affair happened over two years ago and they broke up for a while to focus on themselves while they had relationship counseling.

During that time, they eventually had their third child and the couple worked together to repair their marriage.

She explains, “Until recently, my husband seemed very committed to fixing what he had destroyed in our marriage. He jumped through all the hoops, or so I thought.

“Believe me, I read the books and I followed the rules and I met all the demands. And he did everything he was asked.”

She admitted that she still struggled to fully trust him, but that she was working on it in therapybut she was feeling incredibly suspicious lately and couldn’t ignore her feeling.

The mother said: “It was like he was too Nice for me, too attentive, too willing to oblige for whatever I wanted or needed. That was actually the first thing I noticed. He was too good a husband.”

She said the change in character drove her crazy and ended up following him after he left home with their youngest.

It was then that she discovered a gruesome scene and realized that the affair with his mistress was back on.

“I followed him when he took our nine-month-old baby to do various household errands, under the guise that I could relax,” she added.

“I found him with the woman he cheated on me with earlier, her on top of him in the driver’s seat having sex… and our baby was in the backseat!”

In a fit of anger, she said she banged on the door to scare them and they both stopped having sex.

She then went to get the baby out of the car and drive home, but her husband stopped her and said it wasn’t safe for her to drive in the state she was in.

In an attempt to calm her down, he said: “The baby was sleeping in the rear-facing car seat and has no idea what’s going on. It’s no different than when we have sex in our bedroom while the baby sleeps in our room. “

She revealed that she went to her therapist after it happened, who tried to talk her out of her anger, as she revealed she wanted to “destroy his life.”

Four warning signs that your partner is cheating

Private investigator Aaron Bond from BondRees revealed four warning signs that your partner may be cheating.

They start taking their phones everywhere

In close relationships, it is normal to know each other’s passwords and use each other’s phones. If their phone habits change, they may be hiding something.

Aaron says, “If your partner starts changing his password, taking his phone everywhere, even around the house, or if he gets defensive when you ask to use his phone, this could be a sign that he’s not being faithful. “

“You should also look at how they put their phone down when not in use. If they look at the phone with the screen facing down, they may be hiding something.”

They start telling you less about their day

If partners cheat, they may start avoiding you. This could be because they feel guilty or because it is easier for them to lie to you.

“If you feel like your partner suddenly starts avoiding you and stops wanting to do things with you or stops talking about their day, this is another warning sign.”

“Partners often avoid their spouses or tell them less about their day because cheating can be difficult, remembering all your lies is impossible, and it’s an easy way to get caught,” says Aaron.

Their libido changes

Your partner’s libido can change for a variety of reasons, so it might not be a sure sign of cheating, but Aaron says it can be a red flag.

Aaron says: “Cheaters often have less sex at home because they are cheating, but occasionally they may also have more sex at home. This is because they feel guilty and use this increase in sex to hide their cheating. You may also find that your partner will introduce new things into your sex life that were not there before.”

They become negative towards you

Cheaters know that cheating is wrong and for them it will feel good. This can cause tension and anxiety within themselves that they will have to justify.

“To release the tension they feel inside, they will try to convince themselves that you are the problem and out of nowhere become critical of you. Maybe you didn’t walk the dog that day, do the dishes, or do a book read. Book to your children before bed. A small problem like this can now feel like a big problem and if you experience this, your partner may be cheating,” Aaron warns.

Vent to Reddit The woman received thousands of responses and everyone agreed that she should hire a lawyer parting it.

One person wrote: “He took the baby so you wouldn’t be suspicious because taking a baby to do that isn’t something anyone would think about. Get divorced. Been there. My baby from that scenario is now an adult. I am divorced. I don’t regret it.”

Another commented: “Jesus Christ the relationship is over. I’m so sorry.”

“Sis this is why we NEVER recommend getting back together with a cheater. They ALWAYS cheat again,” a third wrote.

Meanwhile, a fourth said: “That’s awful. I’m so sorry.”

“This is why we don’t stay with partners who cheat on us,” claimed a fifth.

Someone else added: “I literally got chills. I don’t know how you didn’t drag them both then and there.”

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