I caught my husband having sex with his ‘favorite’ cousin – I was sleeping nearby
A WOMAN revealed the shocking discovery she made under her own roof.
She talked about the night she walked in when her husband was having an affair, but that wasn’t the worst part.
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In her Reddit afterthe unnamed user explained the unpleasant situation she found herself in.
The 39-year-old said she has been married to her husband for 15 years.
“My husband has never cheated on me, I would like to believe that,” she wrote.
The woman said she had no reason to distrust her 42-year-old partner during their relationship.
She explained that her husband is “the kind of man” who doesn’t flirt, which makes her confident in his faithfulness.
“We are happily married, have two children and have pretty good finances too,” she added.
However, things soon changed when her husband’s head was turned, and by someone she was sure she didn’t have to worry about.
“He has a favorite cousin and all that [their] Family members say they have been close since childhood,” she explained.
The Reddit user added that she was pleased with welcoming the 36-year-old into her home “as her presence makes my husband happier than usual.”
Not long after the cousin’s visit, the poster saw something that left her feeling “devastated.”
“Unfortunately, I woke up late at night and didn’t see my husband,” she explained.
Although the woman said this was not a strange occurrence, she decided to “go look for him” after using the restroom.
After noticing that his study was empty, she went downstairs to continue looking for him.
“I went downstairs, on my way to the kitchen, when I heard a subtle noise coming from the guest room,” she said.
“I ignored it and walked past it thinking [the cousin] I had a man over for a one night stand.
Four warning signs that your partner is cheating
Private investigator Aaron Bond from BondRees revealed four warning signs that your partner may be cheating.
They start taking their phones everywhere
In close relationships, it is normal to know each other’s passwords and use each other’s phones. If their phone habits change, they may be hiding something.
Aaron says, “If your partner starts changing his password, taking his phone everywhere, even around the house, or if he gets defensive when you ask to use his phone, this could be a sign that he’s not being faithful. “
“You should also look at how they put their phone down when not in use. If they look at the phone with the screen facing down, they may be hiding something.”
They start telling you less about their day
If partners cheat, they may start avoiding you. This could be because they feel guilty or because it is easier for them to lie to you.
“If you feel like your partner suddenly starts avoiding you and stops wanting to do things with you or stops talking about their day, this is another warning sign.”
“Partners often avoid their spouses or tell them less about their day because cheating can be difficult, remembering all your lies is impossible, and it’s an easy way to get caught,” says Aaron.
Their libido changes
Your partner’s libido can change for a variety of reasons, so it may not be a sure sign of cheating, but Aaron says it can be a warning sign.
Aaron says: “Cheaters often have less sex at home because they are cheating, but occasionally they may also have more sex at home. This is because they feel guilty and use this increase in sex to hide their cheating. You may also find that your partner will introduce new things into your sex life that were not there before.”
They become negative towards you
Cheaters know that cheating is wrong and for them it will feel good. This can cause tension and anxiety within themselves that they will have to justify.
“To release the tension they feel inside, they will try to convince themselves that you are the problem and out of nowhere become critical of you. Maybe you didn’t walk the dog that day, do the dishes, or do a book read. Book to your children before bed. A small problem like this can now feel like a big problem and if you experience this, your partner may be cheating,” Aaron warns.
“When I didn’t find my husband in the kitchen, I feared the worst, so I burst into the guest room and there he was, stark naked, having sex with [his cousin].”
The woman recalled how she “just stood there frozen” and didn’t know what to do.
She explained how the discovery made her wonder if my life had been a lie for the past ten years.
The woman added that neither her husband nor his cousin brought up the incident.
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“There is so much tension in the air, I am torn and confused,” she concluded.
Reddit users shared their thoughts on the cousins having sex in the comments section.
“I don’t know what to tell you, but the first thing I would do is find a good divorce lawyer,” one reader advised.
“Oh my god, I’m so sorry, what a horrible thing to walk into,” said another commenter.
“This probably started when they were kids. Can I be the first to say, ‘Ew, yuck, on multiple levels,'” a third person wrote.
