I cheat on my wife with her best friend, I fall for her and have no guilt

A man has revealed he cheated on his “amazing” wife with her best friend.

He claimed it was a bit of an ego boost at first, but now he’s falling for the woman.

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But if that wasn’t bad enough, he admitted that he has “literally no guilt” about the situation.

Eager to open up, the man took to social media to share his infidelity, leaving many open-mouthed.

Post to the r/TrueOffMyChest forum on Reddit, under @throwaway19821108, the man titled his post “I’m cheating on my wife with her best friend and I think I’m falling for her.”

Sharing the context of the situation, he explained: “The whole thing is super f****d up.

“I have been married to my wife for seven years and together since 2006.

“For the most part, she is a wonderful, smart, funny and attractive woman.

‘She has four degrees and is a teacher at a local primary school.

“Most people think I’m crazy, even when I need to take a breather steam about her.

“She is literally untouchable when it comes to venting to my friends or family. That’s how highly everyone thinks of her.”

But despite his ‘attractive’ wife, the man admitted he struggles to stay loyal.

He added: “I can’t keep my dick in my pants.

“I’ve had several one night stands since I got married and I hate myself for those things more than anything.

“I slept with one of my best friends in January and we haven’t hung out since because we both feel terrible about it.”

The anonymous man then opened up about how he became closer to one of his wife’s best friends.

He continued: “My wife has two best friends, M and D. They live on opposite sides of a duplex.

“We have known M for many years and she came to live with us next door to D about eight years ago.”

The ego boost was nice, and my wife was a ***** at the time

Reddit poster

He went on to say that D had been single for a few years before he finally met a new man and got married for the third time at the age of 34.

He even explained that he had attended her wedding to R.

The man said: “We have been hanging out with D and her husband R a lot more since they got married.

“Some of it was convenience, since she lived next door to M and we were already hanging out with her and her new boyfriend, but we really enjoyed their company.

“They’re about the same age as us and like some of the same things.

“Slowly I started to realize how similar D and I are, to the point that others in our group of six pointed it out.

Four warning signs that your partner is cheating

Private investigator Aaron Bond from BondRees revealed four warning signs that your partner may be cheating.

They start taking their phones everywhere

In close relationships, it is normal to know each other’s passwords and use each other’s phones. If their phone habits change, they may be hiding something.

Aaron says, “If your partner starts changing his password, taking his phone everywhere, even around the house, or if he gets defensive when you ask to use his phone, this could be a sign that he’s not being faithful. “

“You should also look at how they put their phone down when not in use. If they look at the phone with the screen facing down, they may be hiding something.”

They start telling you less about their day

If partners cheat, they may start avoiding you. This could be because they feel guilty or because it is easier for them to lie to you.

“If you feel like your partner suddenly starts avoiding you and stops wanting to do things with you or stops talking about their day, this is another warning sign.”

“Partners often avoid their spouses or tell them less about their day because cheating can be difficult, remembering all your lies is impossible, and it’s an easy way to get caught,” says Aaron.

Their libido changes

Your partner’s libido can change for a variety of reasons, so it may not be a sure sign of cheating, but Aaron says it can be a warning sign.

Aaron says: “Cheaters often have less sex at home because they are cheating, but occasionally they may also have more sex at home. This is because they feel guilty and use this increase in sex to hide their cheating. You may also find that your partner will introduce new things into your sex life that were not there before.”

They become negative towards you

Cheaters know that cheating is wrong and for them it will feel good. This can cause tension and anxiety within themselves that they will have to justify.

“To release the tension they feel inside, they will try to convince themselves that you are the problem and out of nowhere become critical of you. Maybe you didn’t walk the dog that day, do the dishes, or do a book read. Book to your children before bed. A small problem like this can now feel like a big problem and if you experience this, your partner may be cheating,” Aaron warns.

“I’m not going to go into detail about that, but it’s shocking how similar we are on multiple levels.

“I’m not stupid. I notice that a woman likes me more than friends, even if she is married. I can pick up hints.”

He claimed that things progressed from there when his wife’s friend started sending him random text messages, as he shared: ‘When D started texting me here and there about random b******t outside our group chat in January or February, I knew what was going on.

“I was actually hoping it would die out, but again, I’m a piece of shit and just went along with it.

“The ego boost was Niceand my wife was a *****e at the time (not so much that she deserves a cheating husband, no one does).

The man continued that one thing led to another: “It didn’t exactly happen quickly, but over the course of a few months we now just want to spend an hour here and an hour there together.

I literally have no guilt about this affair. I know the path I’m on, and I don’t think I hate it

Reddit poster

“We’re all quite busy, so this is difficult.

‘It’s hard to explain why I love D so much. Just her gets me. Like, on a molecular level, and I, they. And we have recognized this.

“I honestly don’t know if I’ve ever felt the same way about A as I do about D.

“Some people might think it’s because it’s something new, but then again, I fucked one of my best friends and I’m not going to dwell on that.”

But the 38-year-old admitted that although he thinks about his wife’s boyfriend all the time, he doesn’t feel guilty about the affair.

He concluded, “So this is where I lose my mind over my wife’s best friend, who is on her third marriage and is probably a little unhinged.

Please divorce your wife, she deserves better

Reddit user told poster

“I’m constantly distracted just thinking about her.

“Previously I could barely look at myself in the mirror, but I literally have no feelings of guilt about this affair. I know the path I’m on, and I don’t think I hate it.”

Reddit users respond

Reddit users were left open-mouthed by the man’s confession and flocked to the comments to share their thoughts.

Many criticized the man for his actions and encouraged him to file for divorce.

One person said: ‘Divorce your wife so she can move on and find another man. Then you can both be happy.”

Another added: “Man at least and tell her she doesn’t deserve that.”

A third commented: “I feel like if you’ve cheated on her multiple times and you don’t feel terrible, probably just get a divorce, things will never be right.”

Meanwhile, someone else advised: “Please divorce your wife, she deserves better.”