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I didn’t know I was pregnant until I went into labor abroad… That’s when I learned the horrible truth about what had happened to me nine months earlier

by Jeffrey Beilley
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A first-time mother gave birth to a baby girl while visiting her family in Australia, without realising she was pregnant.

Andrea, from Port Stephens in New South Wales, said her cousin Gaby, 24, from Costa Rica, stayed with her for three months on her first trip abroad.

On the evening of September 13, four days before she was due to go home, she went into labor.

Andrea said Gaby had become pregnant after a night out in her home country, where drugs had been laced into her drink.

“It’s been a week of ups and downs for everyone,” she told Daily Mail Australia.

Gaby’s mother flies to Australia to help with the baby – who is called Anya Victoria – and Andrea has a GoFundMe to support the new mother.

“The donations will be used for travel expenses, baby supplies and support services for Gaby and the baby while they wait for the paperwork to be finalized,” she wrote.

‘The circumstances surrounding her pregnancy are, sadly, a story shared by many women around the world.

‘Nine months ago, Gaby was invited for drinks with friends, expecting a fun, carefree evening. Hours later, she woke up with no memory of the night, only to discover she had been drugged and abused.’

Gaby gave birth to a baby girl (pictured) while visiting Australia from Costa Rica, without realising she was pregnant after a night out where her drink was poisoned nine months ago

Gaby gave birth to a baby girl (pictured) while visiting Australia from Costa Rica, without realising she was pregnant after a night out where her drink was poisoned nine months ago

Andrea says her cousin is left with emotional and physical scars from that night.

‘In the months that followed, she tried to get her life back on track, unaware that the attack had resulted in a pregnancy.’

She had taken a morning-after pill after going out, because she suspected she had been assaulted. She had also taken a pregnancy test in the weeks after, which gave a negative result.

Andrea said that Gaby never looked pregnant, but that she always complained of being tired and that she preferred to stay at home.

“Gaby was having cramps that day and kept calling me,” she said.

‘I said I would be home soon. Later she thought she had wet herself, which turned out to be because her waters had broken.

“She was reading online while I was having a drink with my husband. Then she said, ‘I think I’m pregnant.’ So we called an ambulance.”

A urine test quickly confirmed the pregnancy.

Andrea stayed with Gaby in the hospital and said she was happy to be there for her niece.

She arrived at John Hunter Hospital in New Lambton Heights at 8pm on Friday and the girl was born at noon the next day.

Andrea said that despite the extremely difficult circumstances, Gaby wants to keep the baby, who doctors say is “very healthy.”

“Some people have made horrible comments to me like, ‘Are you sure that’s how it really happened?’ or ‘Are you sure she didn’t know?’ I find it shocking that in 2024 there is so much victim blaming,” she said.

Andrea called on the community in Australia and her native Costa Rica to support her cousin.

“No one should have to go through what Gaby went through… We can help her take the next step toward a better future,” she said.

“From the bottom of our hearts, thank you for your generosity, compassion and support. Every little bit helps, we can give Gaby the chance to start over, surrounded by the love of her family.”

WHAT IS A CYPTIC PREGNANCY?

A cryptic pregnancy (or stealth pregnancy) is when a pregnant person does not know that she is pregnant. In some cases, a person may not realize that she is pregnant until labor begins.

Most people realize they are pregnant somewhere between four and twelve weeks into the pregnancy. This can be because they have symptoms of pregnancy or because they have missed their period. A positive pregnancy test result can confirm pregnancy. With a cryptic pregnancy, there is nothing to lead someone to believe they are pregnant. This can be because they have no symptoms of pregnancy or are confusing pregnancy symptoms with a virus, or because their pregnancy test result was incorrect.

How common is a cryptic pregnancy?

Cryptic pregnancies are uncommon. Studies suggest that about 1 in 475 pregnancies remain undetected until about 20 weeks of pregnancy. About 1 in 2,500 pregnancies remain undetected until delivery.

Is a cryptic pregnancy visible on a pregnancy test?

You should still get a positive pregnancy test with a cryptic pregnancy. However, using a home pregnancy test correctly is the only way to get an accurate result. If you don’t use it correctly, you may get a false negative (meaning you’re pregnant but the test says you’re not). Make sure you follow the instructions on the packaging and wait a few days after your missed period to take a home pregnancy test.

If your symptoms do not match your home pregnancy test results, it is always best to have a healthcare provider confirm this with a blood test.

What are the symptoms of a cryptic pregnancy?

People with a cryptic pregnancy have the same symptoms as a normal pregnancy. The main difference is that the pregnant person is not aware that the pregnancy is causing their symptoms. For example, they may think that they are sick from eating certain foods or that they are tired because they need to sleep more.

Other symptoms include:

Missed Period: While most people know they are pregnant because they miss their period, this is not always the case. If your period is always irregular, you may not realize that you have missed your period because of your pregnancy.

Spotting or light bleeding: Some women experience light bleeding in early pregnancy and confuse it with menstruation.

False negative pregnancy test result: This means that someone is actually pregnant, but the test says she is not. If you do not use a home pregnancy test correctly, you may get an incorrect result. To be sure, it is always best to contact a healthcare provider to confirm a pregnancy.

Weight gain or bloating: Some people don’t notice that they’ve gained weight due to pregnancy. They also attribute their unusually bloated belly to eating certain foods.

Fetal movement: Most people don’t feel fetal movement until halfway through their pregnancy. If you have an anterior placenta, the placenta is at the front of your abdomen. This can make it harder to feel the kicks. In the case of a cryptic pregnancy, this can be the reason you don’t realize you’re pregnant.

Not Recognizing Pregnancy Symptoms: If you are very young or have a developmental disability, you may not be aware of common pregnancy symptoms, such as a missed period, tender breasts, or nausea.

Source: Cleveland Clinic

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