I got the best revenge on my cheating boyfriend: I had a Regina George moment
A WOMAN has revealed she was devastated that her boyfriend had been cheated on but made sure she took the ultimate revenge to get him back.
The woman explained that after searching her partner’s laptop, she was surprised to find thousands of messages between him and a colleague.
But instead of bringing it up and getting into a huge argument, the anonymous woman decided to ‘help’ her husband with the renovation of his house, leaving him with a shocking surprise.
On a recent episode of the Closet Confessions podcast, we heard actress and online personality Coco Sarel and author and journalist Candice Brathwaite read a confession from an anonymous listener.
The public confession was titled “I let his mother know he cheated and then left.”
The woman then explained: “My ex-partner of two years cheated on me with his colleague.
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“They were both school teachers and I heard that his ex before me had ended things with him after seven years over the same affair.
“Two years later he tells me he is surprising me with a birthday trip.
“I’m staying with him for a few months before the trip, working from home while he’s at work and peeking at his old laptop that’s unattended.
“I snoop to find out where the birthday trip is but get more than I bargained for and find thousands of messages and facetimes to another woman. She works at his school.
“I best believe I was incredibly furious. I don’t let him know what I saw and long story short, we’re two weeks past the time I found out.”
But instead of letting his infidelity bring her down, she made sure to get her “little revenge.”
She continued: “It was time for some small revenge. He inherits a house from his grandpa, I am having him install a new kitchen, bathroom, carpet, new wiring etc.
‘One weekend he is at the football and I am busy renovating the house.
I printed a large file of messages, screenshots, nudes of both of them, and locations on maps
Anonymous confession
“No, you guessed it. I destroy and leave behind all the evidence.
“I printed out a large file of messages, screenshots, nudes of both of them, locations on maps.
“They had been together and he told me one thing, but he was with her.
“I pinned it all over the walls of the house, like Regina George when she loses the lot and lo and behold, the next person in the house was his mother.”
Four warning signs that your partner is cheating
Private investigator Aaron Bond from BondRees revealed four warning signs that your partner may be cheating.
They start taking their phones everywhere
In close relationships, it is normal for us to know each other’s passwords and use each other’s phones. If their phone habits change, they may be hiding something.
Aaron says, “If your partner starts changing his password, taking his phone everywhere, even around the house, or if he gets defensive when you ask to use his phone, this could be a sign that he’s not being faithful. “
“You should also look at how they put their phone down when not in use. If they look at the phone with the screen facing down, they may be hiding something.”
They start telling you less about their day
If partners cheat, they may avoid you. This could be because they feel guilty or because it is easier for them to lie to you.
“If you feel like your partner suddenly starts avoiding you and stops wanting to do things with you or stops talking about their day, this is another warning sign.”
“Partners often avoid their spouses or tell them less about their day because cheating can be difficult, remembering all your lies is impossible, and it’s an easy way to get caught,” says Aaron.
Their libido changes
Your partner’s libido can change for a variety of reasons, so it may not be a sure sign of cheating, but Aaron says it can be a warning sign.
Aaron says: “Cheaters often have less sex at home because they are cheating, but occasionally they may also have more sex at home. This is because they feel guilty and use this increase in sex to hide their cheating. You may also find that your partner will introduce new things into your sex life that were not there before.”
They become negative towards you
Cheaters know that cheating is wrong and for them it will feel good. This can cause tension and anxiety within themselves that they will have to justify.
“To release the tension they feel inside, they will try to convince themselves that you are the problem and out of nowhere become critical of you. Maybe you didn’t walk the dog that day, do the dishes, or do a book read. Book to your children before bed. A small problem like this can now feel like a big problem and if you experience this, your partner may be cheating,” Aaron warns.
Not only did she leave the evidence behind for him and his family, but she blocked them all.
She concluded: “I was long gone, with him and his family blocked on social media, with no contact.
“All he could do was try to call me without caller ID and leave voicemail messages.”
As a woman and as a mother, that is my worst nightmare
Candice Brathwaite
Clearly stunned by the confession, but impressed by the woman’s revenge, Candice beamed: “I think that’s great for you.”
But Candice was completely shocked by the situation, adding: “Incredible scenes.
“I hate to make it feminine, but as a woman and as a mother, it’s my worst nightmare to do that to another woman.
“What’s going on? If you don’t talk about an open relationship, someone’s head will be cut off, and not the woman’s.’