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MEET Pamela Madsen, a sexuality educator, author and advocate who has embarked on a mission to help women connect with their most erotic selves.
Pamela got married at the age of 19 and underwent a huge change after her 40th birthday. She slowly learned the power of touch through gay men – a journey that made her feel safe in her body.
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Now in her 60s, the dark-haired beauty is here to challenge ideas about how people should behave once they hit menopause.
“Oh my God, I was really having a good time and now you’re telling me to take a break?” chuckled Pamela, who best describes herself as “meno-playful, meno-curious and meno-hot.”
”My pussy doesn’t pause for anyone. My pussy says, ‘She turned 60 this year and she says, ‘I’m here’.”
Fashion-loving Pamela, who likes to wear sheer dresses without panties underneath, explained that she doesn’t wear clothes “to be invisible.”
Instead, her outfits are a call “to be seen, to express yourself, to be understood.”
The out-there pieces the sexuality coach has embraced haven’t come without their fair share of criticism, both in person and online – and in her eyes, that’s because “social media has really dulled people to social interaction.”
“Would you really say that to me if you were staring at me?” Or feel free to pop up on my page and say, ‘Nobody wants to see your fat a**.’”
The author hit back at the keyboard warriors and also had something to say to the trolls who slammed her wardrobe.
”Thank you for taking some of your precious time to comment my page and let me know your feelings about my fat ass, thank you.
“I’m at a place in my life where what I look like on the outside is what I look like on the side,” she inspired others an interview with StyleLikeU.
“If I’m not the right person for you, move on.”
But for Pamela, who wanted to be the “good girl” in her twenties, life hadn’t always been this way.
While she worked hard and fought for women’s rights, all her friends – ‘sex goddesses’ – were having affairs with everyone in the neighborhood, including carpenters, and Pamela felt like she was missing something.
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”I was on the road – and then I wasn’t.
”I was having a massage with a gay man […] and he tells me about these sexy massages to keep things alive with him and his man.”
Although Pamela and her husband of more than 40 years had a great sex life “and everyone got together,” she felt like her body had not been properly explored and that there was a flame inside her. was hidden. .
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Since cheating on her dear partner and having sexual intercourse with someone else was a big no-no, Pamela started exploring erotic massages ”with a happy ending”.
“If you’ve never been naughty, being naughty is wonderful,” she flirted at the camera and admitted that it had been a secret from her husband for months.
Now, decades later, and finally knowing her erotic body from the inside out, Pamela encourages women to “listen to their bodies.”
”We are so well trained to suppress our own excitement. We feel like it’s taking too long, we’re too big, we’re too much, we taste weird, we look weird.
”Fuck that, no, you don’t. You are sweet and you are beautiful […] and all vulvas are just orchids in the rainbow and they’re all different,” says Pamela, who thinks she’s “hotter than ever” now that she’s in her 60s.
