I lost my virginity to my sister – we had sex in our shared room for three years
A MAN has revealed he lost his virginity to his sister and then had a sexual relationship with her for three years.
While living in their family home, the siblings even came up with a plan in case their mother walked in and caught them doing the deed.
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Eager to speak out about the situation, the anonymous man took to social media to reveal everything, leaving many shocked.
Posting on Reddit, on the r/confessions thread, the man wrote under the username @Unnoticed101 and titled his post “I had a sexual relationship with my sister.”
He confessed: “I’m typing this for two reasons – the first reason is to go into more detail about it. I’ve shared this story with a few people here, but I haven’t gone into too much detail.
“The second reason is to talk this out of us. I talked to my sister about it and we both agreed that it would be good to finally share this secret with people, even if it is anonymous.”
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To give some context to the situation, the man revealed: “We grew up quite poor, our mother was single and our father was/is still out of the picture.
“We lived in a small mobile home with only two rooms, one for our mother and one for us.
“The room was so small, no joke it could only fit one bed (double if that matters) and a dresser.
“My sister and I ended up sharing a bed for a good five or six years.
“Anyway, one night when we were trying to sleep, I felt her butt rubbing against me (you can probably see where this is going).”
The man explained that “one thing led to another,” but they didn’t.
However, the next In the evening, things went to the next level.
He admitted: “The next night we ended up losing our virginity to each other.
We only did it when it was night and we had to sleep
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“That’s pretty bad, but what’s even worse is that it didn’t stop there because we had a sexual relationship for a good two or three years after that.”
The man explained that he and his sister would have sex in the evening, when their mother expected them to be asleep.
The law of incest in Britain
INCEST refers to sexual activity between close family members, such as siblings, parents and children, or grandparents and grandchildren.
- Criminal offense: Engaging in sexual activity with a close family member is illegal.
- Close relatives: Including brothers and sisters (full or half), parents, children, grandparents and grandchildren.
- Sanctions: Those found guilty of incest may face significant legal consequences, including prison time.
- Protection and well-being: The law aims to protect individuals and maintain the integrity of family relationships.
- Consent irrelevant: Even if both parties agree, it is still considered a criminal offense.
He added: “We only did it when it was night and we had to sleep.
“We had a whole strategy in place in case our mother came in, but that never happened.”
We both get sick and cringe because we were each other’s first
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Things came to a standstill when the family of three moved home, he continued: “We eventually moved to a nicer house where we got our own rooms, and then it just stopped.
“Every now and then we look back and we both get sick and cringe because we were each other’s first.”
Despite their sexual relationship, he confirmed: “Outside of that, we still have a healthy, normal brother-sister relationship.”
Reddit users respond
Reddit users felt rejected by the man’s confession, and many flocked to the comments to share their thoughts and advice.
You need professional intervention
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Not only did many call his actions “disgusting,” others also advised him to seek “professional help.”
One person said: “No bro, that shit is disgusting.”
Another added: “Seek help.”
While a third commented: “You need professional intervention.”
Dealing with sex addiction
IF you, or someone you know, is dealing with sex addiction, here’s everything you need to know…
Seek professional help: Consulting a therapist who specializes in sex addiction can be very helpful. Cognitive behavioral therapy (CBT) and other therapeutic approaches can help address underlying issues and develop healthier coping mechanisms.
Join support groups: Connecting with others experiencing similar challenges can provide support and understanding. Groups like Sex Addicts Anonymous (SAA) provide a safe space to share experiences and gain insights.
Setting boundaries: Set clear boundaries to avoid triggers and situations that can lead to addictive behavior. This includes limiting internet use, avoiding certain places or ending unhealthy relationships.
Develop healthy habits: Participate in activities that promote well-being and satisfaction, such as exercise, hobbies or volunteer work. These can help redirect energy to positive outlets.
Mindfulness and stress management: Practices such as mindfulness, meditation, and yoga can help manage stress and reduce the urge to engage in addictive behaviors.
Education: Learning more about sex addiction can help you understand your condition and recognize patterns and triggers. Knowledge is a powerful tool in managing addiction.
Responsibility: Having a trusted friend or sponsor to check in with can provide accountability and support. This person can help you stay on track with your recovery goals.
Avoid isolation: Isolation can worsen addictive behavior. Try to maintain social connections and look for healthy relationships that provide support and companionship.
Set realistic goals: Recovery is a journey, and setting small, achievable goals can help you stay motivated and track your progress.
Medication: In some cases, medication may be prescribed to help manage the symptoms of sex addiction, especially if there are co-occurring mental health conditions such as depression or anxiety.
