I recorded my husband’s text messages to his mistress and want to share them with the world

A FURIOUS woman has confessed she is about to make her husband’s conversations with his married mistress public.

“He’s convinced most people in his life that he’s a great guy,” she raged.

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The woman said their five-year marriage was “hell” and accused her husband of being both financially and mentally abusive.

She initially forgave him for his cheating, but was distraught when she realized he had not stopped.

“I forgave him for his infidelity about a year ago,” she further wrote Reddit.

‘I know he’s cheated before. I just don’t have any proof for it. The girl he cheated on is a girl he has been involved with for most of his adult life.

“She cheated on him with her husband and he clearly did the same with me.”

The woman revealed that she and her husband have continued to live together despite discussing plans to divorce.

She admitted that she had logged into his TikTok account without his knowledge to read conversations he had with his mistress.

“I have a screen recording of them expressing their love and desire to be together and making plans to go away together,” she said.

“I really want to post the screenshots so they can be released.

‘Would I be the bastard? What would you do?”

A stream of commenters admitted that they would get revenge on their partners by posting the screenshot.

“I would post them, but first change his password for the account and also your email address so he can’t delete the message,” one person said.

Another person advised the woman to post the recording and “play dumb” if he asked her about it.

“You don’t have to worry about what his family or friends think, or if they blame you, let people see his true colors and show theirs too,” they added.

However, others believed that the woman should wait to post the recordings as it could hinder the divorce process.

“Yes, the focus should be more on leaving this abusive idiot than seeking shame or revenge – not that he doesn’t deserve both,” one person said.

Four warning signs that your partner is cheating

Private investigator Aaron Bond from BondRees revealed four warning signs that your partner may be cheating.

They start taking their phones everywhere

In close relationships, it is normal to know each other’s passwords and use each other’s phones. If their phone habits change, they may be hiding something.

Aaron says, “If your partner starts changing his password, taking his phone everywhere, even around the house, or if he gets defensive when you ask to use his phone, this could be a sign that he’s not being faithful. “

“You should also look at how they put their phone down when not in use. If they look at the phone with the screen facing down, they may be hiding something.”

They start telling you less about their day

If partners cheat, they may avoid you. This could be because they feel guilty or because it is easier for them to lie to you.

“If you feel like your partner suddenly starts avoiding you and stops wanting to do things with you or stops talking about their day, this is another warning sign.”

“Partners often avoid their spouses or tell them less about their day because cheating can be difficult, remembering all your lies is impossible, and it’s an easy way to get caught,” says Aaron.

Their libido changes

Your partner’s libido can change for a variety of reasons, so it may not be a sure sign of cheating, but Aaron says it can be a warning sign.

Aaron says: “Cheaters often have less sex at home because they are cheating, but occasionally they may also have more sex at home. This is because they feel guilty and use this increase in sex to hide their cheating. You may also find that your partner will introduce new things into your sex life that were not there before.”

They become negative towards you

Cheaters know that cheating is wrong and for them it will feel good. This can cause tension and anxiety within themselves that they will have to justify.

“To release the tension they feel inside, they will try to convince themselves that you are the problem and out of nowhere become critical of you. Maybe you didn’t walk the dog that day, do the dishes, or do a book read. Book to your children before bed. A small problem like this can now feel like a big problem and if you experience this, your partner may be cheating,” Aaron warns.

“I agree,” another commented. “I might keep the evidence in my back pocket, but I would put my energy into getting separated from this horrible man.”

“I wouldn’t post it until the divorce is finalized,” said a third.

“As tempting as it is to expose him, move on. You would be surprised if people still refuse to take your side.”

“Get a divorce lawyer and hand over all evidence to them,” added another.

“This is not the time to ruin him socially, focus on getting what you want in the divorce and walk away from him.”

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