I Share My Husband of 15 Years With a Second Wife – Trolls Say I’m ‘Brainwashed’
A WOMAN has hit back at trolls who called her “brainwashed” for allowing her husband to have a second wife.
Jamie and Kevin have been together for fifteen years and share three children and one grandchild.
During a lull in the marriage, the couple began exploring separately and Kevin met Lacee.
Jamie and Kevin subsequently rekindled their relationship and also added Lacee to the mix.
On Mondays and Tuesdays Kevin sleeps with Jamie, and on Wednesdays and Thursdays he sleeps with Lacee.
During the weekend the trio takes turns.
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Lacee said she had never been in a polyamorous relationship and didn’t know if she could “get behind” another woman in a relationship.
However, since she met Kevin when he was separated from Jamie, she fell in love with him as an individual before entering the group dynamic.
Lacee is also a big fan of Jamie and Kevin’s kids, saying they are exactly “the kind of kids I wanted.”
The trio have made their relationship public on social media, hoping to educate people about polyamory.
However, they have been subjected to severe trolling online.
“We experience judgment in all facets of our lives simply because we live our lives unapologetically,” Kevin shared Love does not judge.
Some of the harshest comments they’ve received include saying they have no self-love and that Kevin loves Lacee more than Jamie.
They have even seen parents cover their children’s eyes when the three of them walk down the street.
“I get judged on social media because I’m looked at as the person who couldn’t let go,” Jamie admitted.
“People are so focused on the three of us that they forget that we are a family,” Lacee added.
What is polyamory?
Polyamory is the practice of having romantic relationships with more than one person at a time, with the knowledge and consent of all parties.
It can refer to relationships where one person has multiple partners or spouses, or where all parties are in a relationship with each other, for example in a group.
According to You governor6.8% of people in Britain have been in a polyamorous relationship.
Jamie and Kevin said their three children are very accepting of their parents’ unconventional relationship.
The kids said they see many positives about having an extra parent, but added that it can be difficult to explain the dynamic to their friends.
Jamie and Lacee said they often get jealous of each other, but they can work through their jealousy.
Kevin added that he would never consider adding another woman to the relationship as he is now “100% satisfied”.