I walked in on my wife cheating on me – I recorded it and now can’t stop watching

A MAN has revealed he caught his wife cheating and instead of confronting the situation, he secretly recorded it.

The father explained that after dropping his children off at his parents’ house so he and his wife could have a child-free date night, he was shocked to come home and discover his wife’s infidelity.

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Clearly stunned by what he saw, the man stood silently in his home collecting evidence.

Eager to tell what happened, the anonymous man took to social media to share his story, leaving many open-mouthed.

Posting on Reddit, on the r/outside my chest thread under the username @lostandcheatedon8, the man captioned his post “I recorded my wife cheating on me and I can’t stop watching it.”

He then explained how his life quickly turned upside down, as he shared: “A few weeks ago I decided I wanted to surprise my wife with a child-free night out.

“My parents live about an hour and a half away from us and I have arranged for the children to stay with them for a weekend.

“When I go to my parents, I’m usually gone until later in the evening. We spend the whole day there and leave around dinner time.

“This time I dropped off the kids and went straight home so I could surprise my wife and we could go out as soon as possible.

“I had made a reservation at one Nice restaurant and was hoping to go to a few places for drinks first.

“I left at 8:30 am and was back in our housing plan before 12:30 pm. As I drove into the street, I saw a truck parked in front of my house. I didn’t recognize it.

“However, I assumed it was someone who saw the neighbors because it is not unusual for someone to park in front of the door our house.

“I parked a few houses away, thinking I would sneak into the house and surprise my wife instead of pulling into the driveway and going into the garage.”

The man then crept through his home through the basement, but was stunned when he heard and saw his wife with another man.

He continued: “I went in through a cellar door. I was as quiet as possible, but as soon as I walked in I heard her making noises from the floor above.

“When I first heard it, I thought she was just alone and maybe having some personal time.

“I didn’t want to disturb her privacy and embarrass her, so I went back to my car and just went to the garage so she would know I was home.

“Then I heard a man’s voice. I immediately felt sick. My heart felt like it was going to explode out of my chest.

I felt like I was going to scream at any moment, but for some reason I just completely froze. This took several minutes

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“It’s hard to describe how I felt at this moment. I decided to go upstairs. I didn’t feel like confronting them, I just wanted to see what was going on.

“I moved slowly and quietly and went up the stairs. The door was half open.

“The kitchen was empty, but I could see they were in the living room. It was clear from the sounds what was going on.”

Clearly in disbelief, the man took out his phone to record the affair, adding: “There was no way I could look into the living room without them seeing me. I grabbed my phone and opened my camera app. I put my phone just around the corner of a wall.

“This part is so hard to write. I could see my wife with a man I didn’t recognize.

“I won’t go into detail about what they were doing, but I think you can figure it out.

Four warning signs that your partner is cheating

Private investigator Aaron Bond from BondRees revealed four warning signs that your partner may be cheating.

They start taking their phones everywhere

In close relationships, it is normal to know each other’s passwords and use each other’s phones. If their phone habits change, they may be hiding something.

Aaron says, “If your partner starts changing his password, taking his phone everywhere, even around the house, or if he gets defensive when you ask to use his phone, this could be a sign that he’s not being faithful. “

“You should also look at how they put their phone down when not in use. If they look at the phone with the screen facing down, they may be hiding something.”

They start telling you less about their day

If partners cheat, they may start avoiding you. This could be because they feel guilty or because it is easier for them to lie to you.

“If you feel like your partner suddenly starts avoiding you and stops wanting to do things with you or stops talking about their day, this is another warning sign.”

“Partners often avoid their spouses or tell them less about their day because cheating can be difficult, remembering all your lies is impossible, and it’s an easy way to get caught,” says Aaron.

Their libido changes

Your partner’s libido can change for a variety of reasons, so it might not be a sure sign of cheating, but Aaron says it can be a warning sign.

Aaron says: “Cheaters often have less sex at home because they are cheating, but occasionally they may also have more sex at home. This is because they feel guilty and use this increase in sex to hide their cheating. You may also find that your partner will introduce new things into your sex life that were not there before.”

They become negative towards you

Cheaters know that cheating is wrong and for them it will feel good. This can cause tension and anxiety within themselves that they will have to justify.

“To release the tension they feel inside, they will try to convince themselves that you are the problem and out of nowhere become critical of you. Maybe you didn’t walk the dog that day, do the dishes, or do a book read. Book to your children before bed. A small problem like this can now feel like a big problem and if you experience this, your partner may be cheating,” Aaron warns.

“I started recording it, I thought I needed a record of it for whatever I decided to do in the movie future. I was just standing there in my kitchen and watching all this happen on the screen of my phone.

“I felt like I was going to scream at any moment, but for some reason I just completely froze. This took several minutes.

“She eventually jumped off him and made a comment about going to the bedroom and they went upstairs. She even made a comment about how much time they had left.”

Not only did he record the crime to gather evidence, but he also looked into the stranger’s wallet.

The father admitted: “I walked into the living room and found the man’s pants. I grabbed his wallet and took pictures of his driver’s license.

‘I now know his name and his address. I’ve never met him. I have no idea how my wife knows him.

“I left the house the same way I came in. I went back to my car and cried like the pathetic man I am.

“I decided to watch the video to make sure it was recorded. I’ve watched it all.

“I’ll spare the details, but I was in my car for at least half an hour. I couldn’t drive to my parents to pick up the kids because I would have to explain why.

“I decided I would pull into the driveway, open the garage and pretend I was there to surprise her.”

The father then went back into the house, but explained that he had not confronted his wife about her actions.

Not only this, but his naughty wife tried to seduce him even then.

I could vaguely see the man sneaking down and toward the basement stairs, but I didn’t say or do anything

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He said: ‘I took my time getting into the house. I made a lot of noise. When I saw her, she was very nervous and asked me why I was home, etc. She had a bathrobe on and said she was just getting ready for a bath.

“I told her about my plans and she seemed excited. She poured us both a glass of wine and told us to play before we got ready.

‘I don’t think I talked much. She took me into the living room. I’m not proud of what I allowed to happen.

“I could vaguely see the man sneaking down and going to the basement stairs, but I didn’t say or do anything, I just let my wife continue doing what she was doing to me.”

But now, weeks later, the father has revealed that he watched his secretly recorded video at least ten times a day.

I feel like I’ve watched it at least ten times a day since I caught them

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He confessed, “Since that day, I have watched her video repeatedly. I can’t bring myself to make decisions about what to do next.

“She seems to know something is wrong with me because she has asked a few times if I am okay.

“I feel worthless and every time I hit rock bottom I watch that video again.

“I feel like I’ve watched it at least ten times a day since I caught them.”

Reddit users respond

Reddit users were stunned by the man’s confession and quickly flocked to the comments to share their advice and guidance.

Not only were many extremely sympathetic to the father, but others encouraged him to talk to a lawyer and prepare for a divorce.

Contact a lawyer and initiate divorce proceedings

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One person said: “I’m so sorry this happened to you. That was very traumatic. Do you have friends or family you can talk to?”

Another added: “It’s time to stop feeling down and time to take action. Protecting you and your children is the most important thing. Talk to a lawyer immediately.”

A third commented: “If you haven’t told her yet I suggest you talk to a lawyer first and prepare for the divorce.”

Meanwhile, someone else advised: “Please talk to a lawyer and go through divorce proceedings.

“For God’s sake, get your ducks in a row before you do this (make multiple copies of said video so she can’t tamper with it in any way) and DO NOT let her convince you to “work things out.”

‘She throws the book of excuses at you – ‘this was the only time’ ‘but the children’. Ignore all that and get away while you can.