I was madly in love until I found out my partner of 10 years had been engaged
A WOMAN has told how she found out she was the other woman and that the love of her life was already engaged.
The woman shared on social media the moment she found out her partner was getting married and the woman was hiding right under her nose.
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She revealed that the couple had been together for four years and “really believed he was mine.”
Earlier this year, on her birthday, he suggested making her “the happiest girl in the world.”
But her fairytale would fall apart, because she didn’t know that he had a fiancé for 9.5 years.
The couple decided to get engaged long-term and buy a house together before closing the deal, when she noticed cracks starting to appear.
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She said he thought it was strange that she was visiting his family because his mother was unwell. Now she sees it as a warning sign, but she decided to believe him.
They began planning their future together, set a date for the wedding and opened a joint savings account to save money for the wedding.
She said that during that time they spent most of their time together and were in a state of engagement. Then a form came back stating that the number of people living in his household was incorrectly filled in.
She decided to investigate and discovered that there was another woman living with his family, whose existence she had not known about.
When she confronted her partner with her question, she got no answer. On social media, she found photos of her fiancé and another woman together.
After calling the woman, she confirmed her “worst nightmare”: the couple had been together for years.
The other woman said the man called her a “crazy woman” and stalked him.
The woman was shocked by the revelations and had no idea how to continue with her life.
She hasn’t heard from her partner since the phone call and it turns out that he and the other woman have decided to stay together.
The post went viral on social media and has left hundreds of people stunned.
Someone wrote: “Then why did he propose as if he didn’t have to do all that?”
Another commented: “How can anyone have time to do something like that?”
“This should be a crime. I’m so sorry this happened to you,” wrote a third.
Four Red Flags That Your Partner Is Cheating
Private Investigator Aaron Bond of BondRees Reveals Four Warning Signs Your Partner Is Cheating
They start taking their phones everywhere
In close relationships, it is normal for people to know each other’s passwords and use each other’s phones. If their phone behavior changes, they may be hiding something.
Aaron says: “If your partner starts changing their passwords, taking their phone everywhere, even into the house, or acts defensively when you ask to use their phone, it could be a sign that they are not being faithful to you.”
“You also have to look at how they put their phone down when they’re not using it. If they put the phone face down, then they could be hiding something.”
They start telling you less about their day
When partners cheat, they may start to avoid you. This may be because they feel guilty or because it makes it easier for them to lie to you.
“If you feel like your partner suddenly starts avoiding you and doesn’t want to do things with you anymore, or doesn’t tell you about his or her day anymore, that’s another warning sign.”
“Partners often avoid each other or share less about their day because cheating can be difficult. It’s impossible to remember all your lies and it’s easy to get caught,” says Aaron.
Their libido changes
According to Aaron, your partner’s libido can change for a number of reasons, so it’s not necessarily a sign of cheating, but it can be a warning sign.
Aaron says, “Cheaters often have less sex at home because they’re cheating, but sometimes they have more sex at home because they feel guilty and use this increase in sex to hide their cheating. You’ll also find that your partner will introduce new things into your sex life that weren’t there before.”
They become negative towards you
Cheaters know that cheating is wrong and that it makes them feel good, but it can create tension and fear in them that they then have to justify.
“To release the tension they feel inside, they try to convince themselves that you are the problem and they become critical of you out of nowhere. Maybe you didn’t walk the dog that day, didn’t do the dishes, or read your kids a bedtime story. A small issue like this can now feel like a big one, and if you experience this, your partner may be cheating,” Aaron warns.
Meanwhile, a fourth said: “This is madness, I can’t believe people can live two lives like this!! So sad and I feel so sorry for you, sending you lots of love and I’m so glad it didn’t last longer.”
“What do men have time for?” a fifth wondered.
Someone else added: “This is bizarre, how someone can continue to live a double life for so long.”
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