I’m 21 and I’ve slept with over 100 people – I’ve fucked in really bizarre places
A young woman has revealed that she may only be in her early twenties but she has already slept with more than a hundred people.
The 21-year-old confessed that she started having sex at the age of 17 and now, just four years later, has slept with men in various locations – including on a plane, in club bathrooms and even in a waterfall.
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The youngster admitted that she loves passion and enjoys attention, which is why she has taken so many men to bed.
Eager to open up and reveal all, the anonymous woman took to social media to share her story, leaving many open-mouthed.
Posting on Reddit, on the r/AMA thread under the username @SevenJumpingCats, the woman titled her post “I’ve slept with over 100 people.” I’m 21 and a woman.’
She then explained that she “used to feel beautiful” and sleeps with people to get “that same feeling.”
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The woman said, “I was considered one of the beautiful girls [in school] but personally I think my attractiveness is more than my face and body.
“I think I have charm and elegance. I show enough, but not too much.
“I flirt, but not so much that I seem desperate. I play just the right amount of hard to get, but not too much that it becomes annoying.
“I’m good with people. I talk with refinement to the right kind of men. I don’t really swear unless it’s in text.
“I think your body language and the way you carry yourself make you attractive. I’ve been with physically unattractive men, but when they have charm they suddenly become more attractive.
Not only this, but she also shared, “I am considered quite an attractive girl. I also believe that I portray a sensual, mysterious personality and it draws people in.
“I don’t do it on purpose, but I’ve told this to enough people to make it true. I was told, ‘I’m wanted.’
She then revealed that instead of just sleeping in bed, she has slept with men all over the world, as she confessed: “The craziest place I’ve ever had sex was on a plane (but it was a private place , so I’m not sure). if that counts), sometimes in club bathrooms, waterfalls, in a car, in a rice field (long story). I can probably think of more.
My boyfriend thinks I’ve only slept with about fifteen people
Reddit poster
“I slept so much because I liked the attention and I liked seeing how men acted around me. But I also enjoy sex.”
Despite this, she claimed: “Sex is just sex. You can have sex with anyone, but you can’t make love with anyone.”
When it comes to STDs, the woman emphasizes: ‘Never had one. I get tested every three months.
I’m not ashamed of the number of people I’ve been with. It happened and there’s nothing I can do to reverse it
Reddit poster
“It’s a pretty big fear of mine to contract an STD, but so far so good!!
“I guess I just got lucky.”
And as for her happiness level, she wrote, “I am happy. I certainly regret it, but on a daily basis I would consider myself lucky.”
Reddit users respond
Reddit users were stunned by the woman’s confessions and many flocked to the comments, eager to ask for more information about her sexual stories.
One person asked: “Have you quit? And if so, why?”
To this, the anonymous woman replied: “I stopped. I have met the love of my life and I don’t need anyone else.”
I’m moving on from it and now learning to love the attention of just one person
Reddit poster
Another asked: “Do you think it’s really important to know about the person you’re dating, or is it no one else’s? company as long as you are clean (and no army of children)?”
In response, she confirmed: “I think it’s very important. That’s why my boyfriend thinks I’ve only slept with about fifteen people.
Dealing with sex addiction
IF you, or someone you know, is dealing with sex addiction, here’s everything you need to know…
Seek professional help: Consulting a therapist who specializes in sex addiction can be very helpful. Cognitive behavioral therapy (CBT) and other therapeutic approaches can help address underlying issues and develop healthier coping mechanisms.
Join support groups: Connecting with others experiencing similar challenges can provide support and understanding. Groups like Sex Addicts Anonymous (SAA) provide a safe space to share experiences and gain insights.
Setting boundaries: Set clear boundaries to avoid triggers and situations that can lead to addictive behavior. This includes limiting internet use, avoiding certain places or ending unhealthy relationships.
Develop healthy habits: Participate in activities that promote well-being and satisfaction, such as exercise, hobbies or volunteer work. These can help redirect energy to positive outlets.
Mindfulness and stress management: Practices such as mindfulness, meditation, and yoga can help manage stress and reduce the urge to engage in addictive behaviors.
Education: Learning more about sex addiction can help you understand your condition and recognize patterns and triggers. Knowledge is a powerful tool in managing addiction.
Responsibility: Having a trusted friend or sponsor to check in with can provide accountability and support. This person can help you stay on track with your recovery goals.
Avoid isolation: Isolation can worsen addictive behavior. Try to maintain social connections and look for healthy relationships that provide support and companionship.
Set realistic goals: Recovery is a journey, and setting small, achievable goals can help you stay motivated and track your progress.
Medication: In some cases, medication may be prescribed to help manage the symptoms of sex addiction, especially if there are co-occurring mental health conditions such as depression or anxiety.
“It’s my biggest guilt, but I don’t think he would be comfortable with the real number. He’s only been with me and I know 15 is hard enough for him.
Meanwhile, a third asked: “Are you proud of yourself?”
The woman confirmed: “Yes. I am successful. Study medicine at university. Have a great relationship with my family and friends.
“I’m not ashamed of the number of people I’ve been with. It happened and there’s nothing I can do to reverse it.
“I’m moving on from it and now learning to love the attention of just one person.”
