I’m 28 and my husband is 55. I want to leave now that I’ve met an exciting younger man
A WOMAN has confessed she wants to dump her husband because of their age difference.
To the Closet confessions podcast, the 28-year-old revealed that her marriage to her 55-year-old husband was crumbling before her eyes.
Co-hosts podcast author and journalist Candice Brathwaite and actress and online personality Coco Sarel share their confessions and their online fans.
The woman confessed to the couple, revealing: “I just don’t know how to deal with all these feelings, I’m overwhelmed.”
She revealed that she and her husband had been together for five years after meeting when she was in college, and had two children together, but things did not work out.
The mum revealed that they hit it off straight away when they first met and loved how he treated her Nice constant gifts, and even moved her to Britain so they could be together.
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But fast forward to today, she says she met a younger man who is a true “gentleman” and much closer to her own age (33).
“So kind, so respectful, and we’ve talked every day. I’m starting to doubt everything, my marriage, my life. I feel like I need more adventure,” she said.
And that wasn’t all: the young woman said she desperately needed more romance and sex than she was getting in her marriage.
Whenever she and her husband were intimate, she revealed that she thought about the other man.
“It makes me go,” she admitted, adding that she hated her current life and wondered if she had married too young an age.
“I love my children, these two are precious, but I just don’t know anymore,” the mother continued.
Candice and Coco weighed in on the woman’s seemingly failed marriage, asking if she even wanted the marriage to work if she had already ended the relationship.
“Monkey bar swinging from one relationship to another next is harmful,” said Candice.
While Coco recommended staying friends with her new man while she focused on herself.
“You’re basically repeating what you did in college: you wanted to buy things, feel good, leave the country you were in,” Candice added.
Four warning signs that your partner is cheating
Private investigator Aaron Bond from BondRees revealed four warning signs that your partner may be cheating.
They start taking their phones everywhere
In close relationships, it is normal to know each other’s passwords and use each other’s phones. If their phone habits change, they may be hiding something.
Aaron says, “If your partner starts changing his password, taking his phone everywhere, even around the house, or if he gets defensive when you ask to use his phone, this could be a sign that he’s not being faithful. “
“You should also look at how they put their phone down when not in use. If they look at the phone with the screen facing down, they may be hiding something.”
They start telling you less about their day
If partners cheat, they may start avoiding you. This could be because they feel guilty or because it is easier for them to lie to you.
“If you feel like your partner suddenly starts avoiding you and stops wanting to do things with you or stops talking about their day, this is another warning sign.”
“Partners often avoid their spouses or tell them less about their day because cheating can be difficult, remembering all your lies is impossible, and it’s an easy way to get caught,” says Aaron.
Their libido changes
Your partner’s libido can change for a variety of reasons, so it may not be a sure sign of cheating, but Aaron says it can be a warning sign.
Aaron says: “Cheaters often have less sex at home because they are cheating, but occasionally they may also have more sex at home. This is because they feel guilty and use this increase in sex to hide their cheating. You may also find that your partner will introduce new things into your sex life that were not there before.”
They become negative towards you
Cheaters know that cheating is wrong and for them it will feel good. This can cause tension and anxiety within themselves that they will have to justify.
“To release the tension they feel inside, they will try to convince themselves that you are the problem and out of nowhere become critical of you. Maybe you didn’t walk the dog that day, do the dishes, or do a book read. Book to your children before bed. A small problem like this can now feel like a big problem and if you experience this, your partner may be cheating,” Aaron warns.
Now you want to feel good, sex, romance, it’s all attractive, but now you have to take some time.”
They also wondered if she would want to leave if the new man wasn’t on the scene.
While she complained about her husband being older, the two were quick to point out that he had always been older and that this shouldn’t come as a shock to her.