I’m a millionaire matchmaker – the red flag line you need to run away from as quickly as possible
A DATING expert has revealed the boundary that is a major red flag – and it doesn’t matter how promising the relationship seems.
Millionaire matchmaker Louanne Ward warned that if your partner says he doesn’t want to hurt you, it’s best to be prepared for a breakup.
“When someone says they don’t want to hurt you, what they’re really saying is that they think you have more feelings for them than they do for you,” she explained on Instagram.
The relationship coach explained that there would be no risk of hurting you if they were committed and “they saw you as future potential.”
The blonde beauty, who regularly shares expert advice her pagesaying that people who use this phrase are most likely “guilty” of making fun of someone, despite not sharing the same feelings.
“They may also say this because it makes them come across as a kind, caring person,” she said.
“They don’t have to feel bad because they warned you,” she explained the process behind the common line.
According to the love guru, when you hear this phrase, you should get serious and ask yourself what you are doing with this person.
”If they don’t see you as someone they want to be in a relationship with, they may end it at some point because they don’t have to say that if they have no intention of ending it.
“This person will eventually hurt you if you stay where you are,” Louanne warned.
On the platform, where Louanne has almost 30,000 followers, viewers could not help but agree.
“It’s just a ‘Get out of jail free card,’ as if to say I warned you.” You have only yourself to blame.
“That’s your red flag to get yourself out of their lives,” one woman agreed.
Another said the expert was “delivering truth bombs again” and the millionaire matchmaker laughed.
“That’s what I do… it’s better to be hurt by the truth than to be destroyed by a lie.”
The Perth-based Australian dating expert has more than 20 years of experience coaching and matching super-rich clients – and charges up to £8,170 ($15,000 AUS) for her services.
Four warning signs that your partner is cheating
Private investigator Aaron Bond from BondRees revealed four warning signs that your partner may be cheating.
They start taking their phones everywhere
In close relationships, it is normal to know each other’s passwords and use each other’s phones. If their phone habits change, they may be hiding something.
Aaron says, “If your partner starts changing his password, taking his phone everywhere, even around the house, or if he gets defensive when you ask to use his phone, this could be a sign that he’s not being faithful. “
“You should also look at how they put their phone down when not in use. If they look at the phone with the screen facing down, they may be hiding something.”
They start telling you less about their day
If partners cheat, they may avoid you. This could be because they feel guilty or because it is easier for them to lie to you.
“If you feel like your partner suddenly starts avoiding you and stops wanting to do things with you or stops talking about their day, this is another warning sign.”
“Partners often avoid their spouses or tell them less about their day because cheating can be difficult, remembering all your lies is impossible, and it’s an easy way to get caught,” says Aaron.
Their libido changes
Your partner’s libido can change for a variety of reasons, so it might not be a sure sign of cheating, but Aaron says it can be a warning sign.
Aaron says: “Cheaters often have less sex at home because they are cheating, but occasionally they may also have more sex at home. This is because they feel guilty and use this increase in sex to hide their cheating. You may also find that your partner will introduce new things into your sex life that were not there before.”
They become negative towards you
Cheaters know that cheating is wrong and for them it will feel good. This can cause tension and anxiety within themselves that they will have to justify.
“To release the tension they feel inside, they will try to convince themselves that you are the problem and out of nowhere become critical of you. Maybe you didn’t walk the dog that day, do the dishes, or do a book read. Book to your children before bed. A small problem like this can now feel like a big problem and if you experience this, your partner may be cheating,” Aaron warns.
The love wonder has highlighted all aspects of dating and being in a relationship – from seven popular warning signs to look out for, five questions to ask before every first date, and four signs your significant other is losing interest.
When someone loses interest in you, the first thing you may notice is that they may not call you back as quickly as they used to.
“You may also have noticed that they’ve turned off the morning and evening text messages you’re used to, they may not be spending as much time with you, and the sex has probably fallen off a cliff, too.”
She explained that this can happen for a variety of reasons, but she suggested that if you are faced with this problem, you should start by evaluating the relationship.
Louanne said: “Look at your relationship now and what it was like when you first met.
“Did you fall into the trap of playing married couple and house too soon?”