I’m a sexy mom and I won’t stop wearing bikinis – women shame me but I don’t care
A HOT mum has revealed that women shame her for posing in swimwearbut she is proud to show off her bikini body.
Jen Ferguson, who describes herself as “not your typical mom,” often shows off her toned body online, but has since opened up about the negative reactions from haters.
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Like many women, Jen felt the pressure to look her best after the birth of her youngest son Atlas.
But since giving birth to her son, Jen has been working hard to lose weight and get in shape.
The mother of four posts a message on Instagram where she hits back at haters by wearing a Barbie pink bikini – while proudly showing off her slim body.
Jen wrote: “Guys, remember when I posted recently about how hard I worked on my postpartum weight loss? I lost 70 pounds by following a healthy diet and exercising?
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“Well, I got made fun of by a few women after I posted that!”
And that’s not all, Jen added: “The same group also ridiculed me for my past eating disorders, which I’ve spoken openly about to help others!
“I was so proud of the baby bumps that were showing and I am still proud of it.
“It doesn’t bother me that much, but my body clearly bothers them.”
Jen encouraged other women to feel confident in their own skin, continuing, “I just wanted to share this for any women, or men, who feel unworthy, or like they are never enough. You ARE enough!
“Never be ashamed to show your victories to the world! Real winners cheer for other winners!
“If you are proud of yourself, and if you love yourself, then I am proud of you, and I love you too!”
Jen candidly spoke about the long road she’s taken to feeling confident, as she admitted, “It took me five years of sobriety to become this version of myself, the best version of myself I’ve ever been, mentally and physically, and these women won’t do that. take that away from me!”
She apologized to the people she had hurt in the past and shared the following: “I will also admit that I have indeed judged people in the past when I was unhappy and/or very angry because they had hurt me.
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“I am so sorry if I ever hurt anyone!!! I haven’t been that person in a long time, thanks to a lot of therapy. That’s why I forgive these women.”
Referring to her extremely toned abs, she wrote: “Say hi to my bikini body because I’ll be posting in bikinis/whatever the FI wants all spring and summer!
“It’s not perfect, but at the same time it is because with this body I created two beautiful babies!”
SOCIAL MEDIA SUPPORT
The Instagram post, which was shared under the username @jenjferguson00has clearly come as a surprise to many, as social media users have responded en masse to the comments in support of the mother.
Someone said, “You look great, Mom, inside and out.”
You look amazing and you should be proud of all your hard work.
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Another added: “Sorry this happened to you. I think most of us would be happy with your body. You look amazing.”
A third commented: “Keep up the good work and keep telling your story!”
At the same time, someone else shared: “Haters gonna hate. You look amazing and you should be proud of all your hard work.”
JEN OPENED
Jen previously told Fabulous that since shedding the pregnancy weight, she’s back to “hot mom” status.
And while she always felt beautiful when carrying her baby, she confessed that “pregnancy is not for her.”
People will assume I’m a bad mother, without knowing that I’m an amazing mother.
Jen Ferguson
She explained: “I’m happy to be able to get my Botox, get my filler done, get all toned up again. I’ve lost the weight and am back to being a ‘hot mum’. Now I just have an extra child.”
Jen has had quite a few procedures over the years, the first being a breast augmentation in 2016.
She added: “Before the surgery I was literally flat. It just didn’t look right and I was insecure about my chest my whole life.
“A breast augmentation was one of the things that really gave me more confidence. It was a really good decision for me.”
Jennifer’s Cosmetic Procedure List
- Jennifer had her first breast augmentation in 2016
- Three years later she had her second breast augmentation, which increased her cup size to 34 DDD and 36 DD
- Since then she has had Botox, fillers and laser hair removal
- She also had surgery to repair her earlobes
She had her second breast augmentation in 2019, going from an A-cup to a 34DDD and 36DD.
Meanwhile, she’s also not shy about getting Botox and fillers, as she shared: “I get Botox all over my face. I get it in my jaw, my forehead, my crow’s feet, things like that.
“It’s not that I have a lot of lines because I’m 32, but I’m getting a little older. So we’re trying to avoid all that.”
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Although she gets Botox “almost everywhere,” she only has fillers put in her lips.
She added: “Obviously I do other things as well, like hair extensions, laser hair removal, facials… And I’ve had surgery on my ears to make my earlobes smaller, because they were stretched from the time I had my ears measured.
“I feel completely comfortable with it because it’s every man for himself. It’s my body. I’m very open and proud.”
But Jen admits there’s a downside to being so candid: she often gets judgment from people online.
The content creator opened up: “People will assume I’m a bad mom, and they won’t know that I’m an amazing mom. I put my kids first — all day, every day.
“I’m on social media, but I’m still a normal person and I’m with my kids all day, every day. I take care of them, change diapers and everything that goes with it.
“But they assume I’m a bad mother because of my appearance, which is nonsense.
“People can say the meanest things, but luckily I don’t let that influence me, because that’s their opinion.”
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