I’m a traveler and being glamorous is just one of the five strict rules I had growing up
A WOMAN from the traveler community has revealed the strict rules she grew up with.
Trewley Precious, from Britain, took to social media to share the long list of rules in her traveler household, from glamor to not being around men.
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She said: “One of the biggest rules in the house was that the girls always had to look glamorous and presentable at all times, regardless of her age.”
Trewley remembered her mother doing her make-up at the age of seven – and that’s not all.
She revealed that she also had acrylic nails done at the age of 11 and her mother even took her for a spray tan at the age of nine.
When Trewley was younger, curfews were also very important to adhere to and going out with friends at her council estate was not easy.
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The blonde beauty revealed that when she went out with friends, her parents would sit outside the garden and keep a close eye on them all.
She added, “They want to know your mother, your father, your grandparents, your aunt, where you live in this state, how long you’ve lived here and what your occupation is.
“They start interrogating you like they’re Old Bill.”
Trewley also revealed that she was not allowed to have a boyfriend or drink until the age of 18 (which is the legal age in Britain). When she went out with friends, her father would drop her off and pick her up and test her. breath to see if she had been drinking.
Boys were also not allowed in the house unless they were family.
She revealed that when her brother’s friends came over or her father’s, the women had to leave the room.
Trewley added: ‘The women, automatically, regardless of whether you’re in the middle of one filmIf you are sick on the couch, you automatically get up and ask if they want something to drink.
“If they say no, you leave. If they say yes, you make them a drink and then you leave. You can’t be in the same rooms.”
Last but not least, in the strict rules she had to adhere to, Trewley said her mother got up at 4am on Sundays to clean and all the girls had to get up at the same time to help.
She claimed that each Traveler household was different in the rules they imposed on their children.
Traditions in the Gypsy/Traveler communities
Nomadic lifestyle: Traditionally, many travelers lead a nomadic lifestyle, living in caravans and moving frequently. This mobility is a core aspect of their identity and reflects a deep commitment to freedom and independence.
Strong family ties: Family is central to traveler culture. Extended families often live and travel together and form a strong support network. Weddings and social events are important community occasions and strengthen family ties.
Different language: Many travelers speak Shelta, also known as Cant or Gammon, a distinct language that combines elements of Irish, English and other languages. This language serves as a cultural marker and as a means of private communication within the community.
Religious practices: The Traveler community often follows Roman Catholicism, with religious festivals and milestones such as baptisms, communions and weddings being particularly important. However, individual beliefs and practices can vary widely.
Unique parties: Events such as horse fairs and traditional weddings are important social gatherings for travelers. These occasions are characterized by elaborate preparations, vibrant dress and communal participation.
The clip has since gone viral with more than 470,000 views and 44,000 likes on her TikTok account @trewleyprecious.
People were quick to comment on their thoughts on her upbringing.
One person wrote: “Except I’m glamorous. These are really the same rules for me and I’m not even from a gypsy household.”
Another commented: “It’s true, I’m a traveler and I was eight when I got my nails done.”
“Do you think you will raise your kids with all the same rules, or just some of them,” wrote a third.
“Definitely rules that I wouldn’t impose on my children if you grow up with judgment or guilt and the men don’t? Because they have different rules, but yeah, I agree with that,” Trewley replied.
Meanwhile, a fourth said: “I think this is correct in my opinion.”
“This was soooo interesting,” claimed a fifth.
Someone else added: “This is so interesting, I love learning about other cultures.”
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