I’m a traveler, people ask if girls can work – they can, but it depends where
A YOUNG woman from the traveler community has revealed the truth about whether the women can work.
Zoey, from Great Britain, took to social media to share her thoughts on the issue.
2
2
Taking care of family is a big part of being a woman in the Traveler community. Many choose to stay at home cooking, cleaning and taking care of the children while their partner goes to work.
But Zoey revealed times were changing.
In response to a comment asking if women would be supported by their families to continue going to school and work, she shared the modern way of life for people.
She said: ‘Years ago, traveling women would never work.
READ MORE REAL LIFE STORIES
“Traveler women stayed at home, looked after the children, cleaned the house, cooked for the men, cooked for the children.”
These days, however, Zoey revealed that it wasn’t common for women to stay home most of the day and that they did indeed go to work.
While many now help bring money home, she said there are still lines they wouldn’t cross.
Working at a bank or a post office wouldn’t be like that, she said, but they often work for themselves.
“But when a traveler girl works, it’s hair, makeup, selling stuff on social media, lips (aesthetic practitioners),” she added.
As she finished her video, she revealed that families would definitely support the women who started working and making money for themselves.
The clip has since gone viral on her TikTok account @zoey_pon with over 890,000 views and 33,000 likes.
People were quick to share their thoughts in the comments.
One person wrote: “If a traveling girl chooses to work too, does her husband help with chores etc because she doesn’t have much free time? Or is she still expected to do everything?”
Another commented: “Quite a few of the traveling ladies in my village have businesses. Mostly eyebrows and tanning salons. Good quality and good prices too.”
Traditions in the Gypsy/Traveler communities
Nomadic lifestyle: Traditionally, many travelers lead a nomadic lifestyle, living in caravans and moving frequently. This mobility is a core aspect of their identity and reflects a deep commitment to freedom and independence.
Strong family ties: Family is central to traveler culture. Extended families often live and travel together and form a strong support network. Weddings and social events are important community occasions and strengthen family ties.
Different language: Many travelers speak Shelta, also known as Cant or Gammon, a distinct language that combines elements of Irish, English and other languages. This language serves as a cultural marker and as a means of private communication within the community.
Religious practices: The Traveler community often follows Roman Catholicism, with religious festivals and milestones such as baptisms, communions and weddings being particularly important. However, individual beliefs and practices can vary widely.
Unique parties: Events such as horse fairs and traditional weddings are important social gatherings for travelers. These occasions are characterized by elaborate preparations, vibrant dress and communal participation.
“Some travelers have gone to college and gotten a degree. Nothing should hold you back. Education is freedom,” wrote a third.
Meanwhile, a fourth said: “I’m so glad someone is talking about the traveler life because I used to know nothing about the traveler community but now that I’ve watched your videos I feel so much more educated. Thank you.”
Fabulous pays for your exclusive stories. Just email fabulousdigital@the-sun.co.uk and put EXCLUSIVE in the subject line.
