I’m an expert on kids and I swear by my simple trick that instantly calms toddlers

A CHILD expert has revealed a super-simple trick that will instantly calm an angry toddler.

So if you have a little one who cries, groans and responds all the time, then you’ve come to the right place.

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Dr Williams, a paediatrician and father of five from Utah, US, said people called him a ‘magician’ because of his trick that provides ‘instant relief from toddler tantrums’.

He claimed it’s “simpler than you think” and “will literally change your life.”

The clever dad wrote on social media that his trick is the “easiest and fastest” way to calm an angry child.

He claimed: “I use this on toddlers in my own clinic and their parents think I’m a magician, but actually it’s quite simple.

“When a toddler is upset and his feelings and emotions are getting bigger and bigger, I want you to whisper.”

Dr. Williams said that while he “doesn’t know” why whispering works, he did claim that it “quickly takes children out of their emotions.”

He continued: “I think something registers in their cerebellum that says, ‘Hey, we’re not in crisis mode here, everything is OK.

“I want you to let them know in a calm whisper that you are listening and understanding.

“And remember that tantrums at this age are a developmental process. Children are learning how to deal with new, big emotions without having the language to communicate what they want.”

Dr. Williams explained that while it can be frustrating to deal with tantrums, it’s important for parents to see and understand their child’s emotions.

The TikTok clip, which was posted under the username @tiktokkiddochas clearly caused quite a stir, as the video has already been viewed 774,500 times.

Parents were grateful for the advice and were happy to share it in the comments.

The best thing I’ve heard in a long time

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Someone said, “Thank you so much, I needed some help in this area.”

Another added: “Great advice! Thanks so much for the tip!”

Tips for Dealing with Toddlers

IF you’re struggling to control your toddler, here are ten tips you need to know…

1. Stay calm and patient
   • Take a deep breath and stay calm.
   • Patience is essential; toddlers are still learning to manage their emotions and behavior.
2. Set clear boundaries
   • Establish consistent rules and explain them in simple terms.
   • Be firm but kind when setting boundaries.
3. Offering choices
   • Provide your toddler with opportunities to promote his or her independence.
   • For example, let them choose between two outfits or snacks.
4. Use positive reinforcement
   • Praise good behavior and offer small rewards.
   • Recognize their efforts and achievements to encourage repetition of positive actions.
5. Create a routine
   • Structure and predictability help toddlers feel safe.
   • Establish consistent meal, nap, and bedtime routines.
6. Stay involved
   • Spend time with your toddler.
   • Read, play and discover activities together to strengthen your bond.
7. Be a role model
   • Demonstrate the behavior you expect from your toddler.
   • Use polite language, share your experiences and show empathy in your interactions.
8. Encourage communication
   • Help your toddler express his/her feelings with words.
   • Teach them simple phrases to communicate their needs and emotions.
9. Shifting the focus
   • When you see unwanted behavior, distract and shift the focus.
   • Introduce a new activity or toy to distract from the problem.
10. Ensure safety
    • Childproof your home to prevent accidents.
    • Keep a close eye on your toddler to ensure he/she is safe while exploring.

A third commented: “Best thing I’ve heard in a long time. I’ll pass this on to my girls, thanks.”

In addition, other parents were very enthusiastic about this useful method.

I learned this 20 years ago. It works!

TikTok user

One woman beamed: “That’s crazy you should say that because I just tried it and it worked 1000%!”

A second chimed in: “This absolutely works. I did this with my own children and when I ran a daycare. It works so well.”

While someone else said, “Yes! I learned this at a parenting conference 20 years ago. It works!”

What is a tantrum?

Tantrums are common in toddlers from the age of 18 months.

One of the reasons for these tantrums is that they want to express themselves, but do not yet have the necessary skills to do so. This frustration is expressed in a tantrum.

According to the NHS, this is also why tantrums are less common when a child can talk.