I’m cheating on my husband – I need to fulfill my fantasy of sleeping with handsome men
A WOMAN has revealed she cheats on her husband because he has no libido.
The woman explained that although her husband has a medical problem, her fantasies about sleeping with attractive men need to be fulfilled.
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In an attempt to express her feelings, the anonymous woman shared her confession on social media.
Post on Reddit, on the r/offmychest thread, the woman, who writes under the username @CowgirlZooey, titled her post “Why I Cheated on My Husband.”
She then got candid and explained the background to her situation: ‘Recently, after years of complaining about the lack of sex in our relationship, my husband agreed to see a doctor to see if there was a medical reason for his non-existent libido.
“After months and months of blood tests, brain scans and visits to specialists, it turns out that is a medical problem and we work with doctors to resolve it.
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“For years he denied that there was a problem and refused to see a doctor. He only did so after I came to him week after week crying because I need sex in my life and once every two months was not enough for me.
“I had trouble concentrating at work and imagined having sex with every slightly attractive man I met.
“I told him all this because we have an open and honest relationship. I told him that I don’t want to to have sex with someone else, I wanted to have sex with him, but since he wasn’t interested, my brain just went there.
“He said he understood. But since he was getting all the sex he wanted (and more), none of this was a pressing issue for him.
“I asked him if I could have a fuck buddy. He thought about it for weeks and finally said okay.
“When the day came that I was supposed to meet up with that f**k buddy for the first time, my husband texted me and said he had changed his mind. I told him I wasn’t going to do it.”
But the woman confessed that she had ignored her husband’s wishes and now, several months later, she is having a real affair.
She continued: “I did it anyway. And I’ve continued to do it (it’s been a few months now).
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“I’m not in love or lustful with this guy. He’s just satisfying a physical need.
“We have great sexual chemistry and the sex has never been less than amazing. But I cheat.
“And sometimes, late at night, when I’m exhausted, I just need to get it off my chest.”
REDDIT USERS RESPOND
Reddit users were stunned by the woman’s confession, with many taking to the comments to share their thoughts, many of whom were deeply concerned for the woman’s less-than-wise husband.
Four Red Flags That Your Partner Is Cheating
Private investigator Aaron Bond of BondRees revealed four warning signs that your partner may be cheating.
They start taking their phones everywhere
In close relationships, it is normal for people to know each other’s passwords and use each other’s phones. If their phone behavior changes, they may be hiding something.
Aaron says: “If your partner starts changing their passwords, taking their phone everywhere, even into the house, or acts defensively when you ask to use their phone, it could be a sign that they are not being faithful to you.”
“You also have to look at how they put their phone down when they’re not using it. If they put the phone face down, then they could be hiding something.”
They start telling you less about their day
When partners cheat, they may start to avoid you. This may be because they feel guilty or because it makes it easier for them to lie to you.
“If you feel like your partner suddenly starts avoiding you and doesn’t want to do things with you anymore, or doesn’t tell you about his or her day anymore, that’s another warning sign.”
“Partners often avoid each other or share less about their day because cheating can be difficult. It’s impossible to remember all your lies and it’s easy to get caught,” says Aaron.
Their libido changes
According to Aaron, your partner’s libido can change for a number of reasons, so it’s not necessarily a sign of cheating, but it can be a warning sign.
Aaron says, “Cheaters often have less sex at home because they’re cheating, but sometimes they have more sex at home because they feel guilty and use this increase in sex to hide their cheating. You’ll also find that your partner will introduce new things into your sex life that weren’t there before.”
They become negative towards you
Cheaters know that cheating is wrong and that it makes them feel good, but it can create tension and fear in them that they then have to justify.
“To release the tension they feel inside, they try to convince themselves that you are the problem and they become critical of you out of nowhere. Maybe you didn’t walk the dog that day, didn’t do the dishes, or read your kids a bedtime story. A small issue like this can now feel like a big one, and if you experience this, your partner may be cheating,” Aaron warns.
Someone said, “To me, there is no justification for going against your husband’s wishes in this situation. This will not end well.
“Your husband will eventually find out because of the feelings you develop for this other person. Sorry to be the bearer of bad news, but you are no longer with your husband because your needs are being met by someone else.
Whatever you do, please don’t let your husband know. Spare him the agony
Reddit user
“I wish you the best of luck in digging out the mess you have created.”
Another added: “I really don’t understand how you can’t feel guilty about this, although you have to know that he will find out eventually and he won’t be as cool about it as you are. Good luck, honestly.”
A third commented: “Whatever you do, please don’t let your husband know. Spare him the agony.
“There will be times when you feel like a horrible person for doing this to him and you think it would be best to be honest, but trust me, his world would be destroyed. Please don’t let him know.”
