I’m having a steamy affair with my dad’s girlfriend
A man has revealed he is having an affair with his own father’s girlfriend, despite the fact his smitten father is about to propose.
The father has been in a relationship with the 29-year-old woman for two years, after the pair met online, but recently the woman has shown interest in the son.
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When the father is not there, the son says that the girlfriend, who is much closer to him in age, is flirting with him, and that they have now started a secret affair.
He explained that his mother died when he was a child, and that his father, who raised him and his two siblings alone, never entered into a serious relationship again.
But now that the children are all grown up and have left home, the father has found love again.
The son told Metro’s Agony Aunt: “I was happy for dad, even though she is closer to my age (22) than his, so I thought she was a bit young for him.
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“Anyway, they seemed happy, so I didn’t say anything. They have been together for two years now and my father is in love.
‘The problem is that lately she’s been flirting with me when Dad’s not around, and at a family party in August we ended up in a passionate altercation outside.
“Things got pretty intense that night and it wasn’t long before we started having an affair.”
The son said that his father often works outside the home, so it is easy for the son and the woman to meet secretly.
He said he knows it’s wrong, but he’s gotten caught up in the “thrill” of the situation.
However, he added: “Now my father has told us children that he wants to marry her, and asked us what we all think.
“I was stunned and immediately told her that our relationship had to end, but she got very upset and threatened to tell my father about us.
“I feel like no matter what I do, this will all end in disaster.”
The aunt’s response was that the man has no choice but to reveal the truth to his father.
Four warning signs that your partner is cheating
Private investigator Aaron Bond from BondRees revealed four warning signs that your partner may be cheating.
They start taking their phones everywhere
In close relationships, it is normal to know each other’s passwords and use each other’s phones. If their phone habits change, they may be hiding something.
Aaron says, “If your partner starts changing his password, taking his phone everywhere, even around the house, or if he gets defensive when you ask to use his phone, this could be a sign that he’s not being faithful. “
“You should also look at how they put their phone down when not in use. If they look at the phone with the screen facing down, they may be hiding something.”
They start telling you less about their day
If partners cheat, they may start avoiding you. This could be because they feel guilty or because it is easier for them to lie to you.
“If you feel like your partner suddenly starts avoiding you and stops wanting to do things with you or stops talking about their day, this is another warning sign.”
“Partners often avoid their spouses or tell them less about their day because cheating can be difficult, remembering all your lies is impossible, and it’s an easy way to get caught,” says Aaron.
Their libido changes
Your partner’s libido can change for a variety of reasons, so it may not be a sure sign of cheating, but Aaron says it can be a warning sign.
Aaron says: “Cheaters often have less sex at home because they are cheating, but occasionally they may also have more sex at home. This is because they feel guilty and use this increase in sex to hide their cheating. You may also find that your partner will introduce new things into your sex life that were not there before.”
They become negative towards you
Cheaters know that cheating is wrong and for them it will feel good. This can cause tension and anxiety within themselves that they will have to justify.
“To release the tension they feel inside, they will try to convince themselves that you are the problem and out of nowhere become critical of you. Maybe you didn’t walk the dog that day, do the dishes, or do a book read. Book to your children before bed. A small problem like this can now feel like a big problem and if you experience this, your partner may be cheating,” Aaron warns.
She said: ‘It’s clear she doesn’t really love him and blackmailing you like this is further proof that she’s a dirty piece of work.
“What does she hope to gain?”
The suffering aunt added that the son betrayed his father, but hopefully he can be forgiven in the end.
