TLC Reality stars Vanja Grbic and Josko Luketin opened up about their ill-fated relationship during Sunday's edition of 90 Day Fiancé: Before the 90 Days.
Josko eventually told Vanja that he regrets his actions in recording a sex tape of them without her consent, saying, “I'm terribly sorry – it's not something I'm proud of.”
'It was something I shouldn't have done. I violated your privacy, I violated your trust and I am deeply sorry. I couldn't find the words to describe how sorry I am. '
Josko, who works as a fitness trainer, said he regretted his actions [him] Awake many days. '
Josko, who appeared virtually out of a stream in Croatia, initially clashed with Vanja, leading them to the bombshell revelation about his behavior during their relationship.
Vanja, who works as a medical salesperson, said: 'Without my consent, without my knowledge, [Josko] My privacy violated [and] my body. '
Vanja Grbic and Josko Luketin clashed over their relationship during Sunday's edition of 90 Day Fiancé: Before the 90 Days, with Josko ultimately telling Vanja that he regretted his actions in recording a sex tape of them without her consent
Vanja said on the special that Josko was initially “proud of himself for doing it,” before his stated change of heart.
Josko, who told Vajna he was sorry about host Shawn Robinson's insistence, said he “did it to spice things up” in their romance.
He said at first he thought Vanja had been watching him by filming the sexual encounter: “In my head I developed a story about consent, but it wasn't there.”
Josko said he told Vanja “several times” that he regretted his actions in the incident, which he is deeply ashamed of.
Vanja said Josko had rattled her trust in men, which had been on a shaky foundation in the first place.
“It's heartbreaking because I give everything in a relationship and then the other person doesn't want to pursue things with me anymore,” Vanja said.
Vanja added that it was “very disappointing to know that I keep giving and giving and I understand this in return.”
Josko said on the special that “making the video” without Vanja in their romance was his only mistake in their romance.
Vanja said that Josko had rattled her trust in men, which had already been on shaky foundations
Josko, who said he apologized several times about his actions, virtually emerged from a stream in Croatia
Josko, who told Vajna he was sorry at host Shawn Robinson's insistence, said he “did it to spice things up” in their romance
“I really had good intentions for her,” Josko said. “It didn't work out, but I'm glad we tried.”
He said about Vanja: “She is beautiful, she is wonderful and I wish that she meets someone who will respect her and love her more than me and certainly more than” Božo Vrdoljak, who also portrayed her in the series.
Vanja said both men had “both been frustrating in their own ways.”
She said that “being intimate with someone… is a big deal” for her, which affected her emotionally in the aftermath.
“The fact that he got that for me, I don't want to say I want to take it back, but I wish I didn't,” she said as she cried.
90 Day Fiancé: Before the 90 Days airs Sundays at 8/7c on TLC.
