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Mate. Does it matter? Discuss women? Is mine enough?
These are the questions that ask so many of my male customers. And although some women are private that bigger is really better – sorry, guys! – It really comes down to personal preference.
From an anatomical perspective, the average vaginal depth is about 9.3 centimeters (only slightly less than four centimeters) at rest and somewhat extended during excitement.
Compare that figure with the average length of an erection, which is about 5.5 inches, and you might wonder why something bigger would be logical. Where would the extra centimeters go?
Nevertheless, some research indicates a connection between the greater size of a partner and an increased sexual satisfaction of women. And it is also true that a smaller than average member can be a lifelong source of sorrow for men.
So how can you make your modest endowed man feel like a king … while you also improve things for yourself? Here are my top tips …
How can you make your modest endowed man feel like a king, while you also improve things for yourself? Here are my top tips …
The 'Venste' Technology
Even subtle changes in your usual routine of positions can have a powerful impact on pleasure.
'Angling' is a method in which the hips rotate, increase or lower to use everything that your partner has to offer.
Some positions that encourage particularly deep penetration are on top of your partner while you are confronted opposite the opposite direction, rest your legs on either side of his shoulders while lying on your back, or bending one leg on the knee (the other that stays straight) with your husband at the top during the missionary.
A pillow or folded towel that is placed under your hips while lying on your back can also be useful.
Kegel -Exercises
One of the easiest and most effective ways for women to increase sexual satisfaction is by strengthening the pelvic floor (the group of muscles that support the bladder, intestine and vagina) with cones.
These relatively simple exercises can be performed at any time of the day – wherever you are – by sharpening the same muscles that you use to stop your urine flow.
You can practice them as often as you want, although experts tend to enter into three sets of 10 to 15 cones per day.
The result is stronger orgasms and increased excitement – so that your partner will hopefully also get the feeling that he is doing the right things in bed, whatever he packs.
Switch on from your contraception
If you use condoms, it is worth remembering that they are available in different materials and designs – all of which can change how intimacy feels.
Labels such as 'Ultradun', 'Elite' and 'ultra-sensitive' often indicate that the prophylactic is made of thinner material, resulting in a more intense and 'more complete' feeling for both parties.
One of the easiest ways for women to increase sexual satisfaction is by strengthening the pelvic floor with cones.
Try Toys!
Although bedroom toys are designed for men (such as rings and plugs) is often considered useful for preventing problems such as erectile dysfunction to induce bloodstream, it is worth remembering that increased firmness also improves size – making it appear and feels greater than normal.
Be consciously
A 2023 study in Denmark encouraged participants to be aware of each individual exercise during sexual intercourse, rather than concentrating on the overall sexual experience, discovered that couples were less concerned with the problems that had previously plastered their relationships.
The next time you and a partner become intimate, pay attention to the feeling of each movement while it happens. Adjust those movements from there and communicate, determine which holders are and where you can do without. The result can be transforming.
