A groom has revealed that he wants to separate from his wife, just a few days after he walked through the aisle while he claims that she ruined the wedding day.
The married man, who is 44 years old, went to Reddit to complain about his 42-year-old woman shortly after saying 'I do' and explained that the big day was littered with problems, including an incident that completely broke his confidence.
On the thread, the new husband said that a black cloud was about his wedding day thanks to the serious actions of his wife.
He regretted that he now has the feeling that he 'married someone else' after his wife had changed her hair color two days before the big day.
He complained that she had left her 'normal neighbor girl' and together with her new hair color, she also had a 'revealing' dress that had stunned him. But it was a request that she did her guests behind the groom who really made him falter.
The Reddit poster complained that the dress of his bride showed her legs and cleavage and was too sexy to walk through the aisle.
He even thought that some male guests avoided her all night out of shame.
He wrote: 'On the wedding day she showed up with a pure lace dress that was too revealing and not a meat -colored lining.
A groom wants to separate from his wife, just a few days after he had walked through the aisle after she complained that she ruined his wedding day with an ugly wedding dress and new hairstyle (stock image)
'I could see her entire legs and her underwear (they were lace and not pure). I would rather she didn't wear her cleavage that she erupted. It was not necessary.
'I thought Sexiness was reserved for the wedding evening, not for our guests to see. I would have been good if I had been used to this her style, but I don't know what happened.
'Our friends and families (men) stayed a bit far away to avoid her and I think it is because they were trying to be respectful. The top of the dress was not pure, but her breasts almost turned out and she couldn't dance so happy and carefree if she always does it.
The groom explained that he knew it was a small detail and only a 'aesthetic dispute' that he would eventually forget, but he said it went into the values ​​of their traditional family.
While the dress and hair color were a shock, the new husband revealed what really upset was the discovery that his wife would have asked for money without his knowledge from guests.
The Reddit poster explained that they had previously agreed not to ask their guests for money – although he clarified that they received 'cash gifts and physical gifts' – but shocked that his wife was tired to establish a minimum costs.
He revealed that he only discovered the betrayal after her best friend had left the wedding because of pressure to give extra money.
The groom confessed that he had been disappointed because “the church missed part of the guests” and he felt a 'black cloud' hanging over them all day.
The groom also complained that he felt betrayed by his new bride after he discovered that she had asked for gusts of money without his knowledge (stock image)
He further said that the trust between him and his new wife was completely broken because he lost friends and people what he gave.
He added: 'I don't see how therapy can repair this. It's not just about my trust, but about how this person is a whole person, apart from the woman I thought I knew. '
On the Reddit -Thread the recently married man asked if it was reasonable to ask for a divorce, although he knew it would “destroy” her and said he wanted to submit at least a legal divorce.
He added that he felt that he could no longer go to sleep next to someone who was willing to take others' and said he felt betrayed.
And other Reddit users hurried to his defense with one writing: 'I would run if I realized that the idea of ​​my fiancé was about a wedding about submitting her bank account. A wedding should be a celebration of love. I have no opinion about her dress. '
Another said: 'Divorce or void statement. If she does things like this behind your back before marriage, think of the things she will do behind your back now that she has locked you up.
'A good basis for every relationship is built on trust, respect and clear communication on the absolute minimum and she has all violated three. Run to the hills. '
And it was noted: 'The clothing is not important, but lying and putting loved ones under money behind your back is an early indicator of how your life goes. Is this someone with whom you can spend the rest of your life? I think the answer is no. '
The Reddit -Post caused controversy, among others, users who hurried to give their own opinion about the situation with some façade cladding with the groom and others who encourage the bride to run to run
But others stood by the woman and criticized the groom before it hit the wedding dress of his new bride and encouraged her to run to the hills.
One person said: 'The money that is hasty is tasteless and worth separating. Hating her hair/dress is tasteless and it is worth separating from you.
“So maybe you should talk to two inadequate people about this, apologize together and do better.”
Another user wrote: “This poor woman is married to a complete monster.”
