I’ve never had sex with my husband or seen him topless, but I’m willing to wait
A WOMAN who married a prisoner has opened up about their relationship and sex life.
The 26-year-old revealed that she has never seen her husband shirtless, let alone slept with him.
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In her viral videoLorra (@lorraandjosh) told how she met her husband Josh, 21, who is currently serving a sentence for secondary murder in a US prison.
The TikToker started messaging the former drug dealer on a prison pen pal website.
After exchanging handwritten letters and poetry, she flew from Dubai to the United States to meet him.
Lorra revealed that she secretly married Josh just six months after her first post.
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However, the couple has yet to consummate their marriage and is only allowed to kiss during their gatherings.
She explained her views on intimacy within her marriage Excuse me my friend podcast.
Lorra told the podcast hosts that she hasn’t even seen her husband out of his prison uniform.
“I can send pictures, he can’t, so I always get so angry. I have to use my imagination so intensely because I haven’t even seen him shirtless, even that,” she said.
She explained that she can send photos of herself in lingerie, but prisoners cannot reply.
Lorra added that “phone sex” is the only form of intimacy she can enjoy with her husband.
However, she said the task is not without some awkwardness.
“You’re being recorded, so whatever you do on the phone, someone is listening,” she said.
As Lorra waits for Josh to serve the remainder of his seven-year sentence, she has come up with a creative way to combat her loneliness.
To feel her husband’s presence, the TikToker orders a small cuddly toy with his face printed on it.
She shared clips of her sleeping with the toy and carrying it around her house.
British prison brides
- Tracey Bottomley married double murderer Ernest Otto Smith in the US after meeting through a pen pal initiative in prison. Tracey, from West York, knew he had been given a life sentence with no chance of parole
- Rebecca Shortfrom Oxfordshire, told her family she was on holiday in the US in 2022. They didn’t know she married double murderer Manuel Ovate Jr, who was on death row
- Paula Williamson an actress who appeared in Hollyoaks and Emmerdale, married the infamous Charles Bronson in 2017 after they became pen pals
- Karen Charves married Kenny Richey in 2014 while on death row. He was convicted of setting a fire in 1986 that killed his ex-girlfriend’s two-year-old daughter. Karen and Kenny’s union did not last long and she claimed he was abusive.
- Naomi Wisefrom Essex, married Victor Oquendo, nicknamed Animal, while serving a 24-year sentence in a US prison. They split in 2022 but have now rekindled their romance
TikTok users shared their thoughts on the relationship in the comments section.
“I just want to know how bad you have to be to date a man in prison,” one viewer wrote.
“Your standards must be very low to marry a low life,” someone else said.
“You do what makes you happy and you don’t have to worry about what anyone else says, it’s none of their business,” said a third follower.
“People don’t understand that not everyone in prison is a bad person,” said another TikTok user.
