My boyfriend cheated on me with my aunt; she called me while they were having sex

A WOMAN revealed the affair her boyfriend had with her aunt right under her nose.

She opened up about the disturbing discovery and explained how they continued to harass her after she exposed the infidelity.

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In her afterthe unnamed Reddit user described the disturbing situation.

She revealed that her mother and aunt had moved in with her and her boyfriend.

According to the poster, her two family members regularly went out to get drunk with her boyfriend.

“At first I didn’t mind but then my aunt started getting too close to him and I didn’t like it. I told her to stop and she blew up at me and said she loved me and that I was a was delusional,” she said.

“I believed her, she was like my second mother and me and my ex were together for five years, I trusted him.”

But one day, while they were all drinking, the Reddit user’s aunt called her boyfriend to dance and he “packed her a**.”

She remembered how everyone told her it was nothing and brushed it off, but she wasn’t convinced.

“I pretended everything was fine and when he went to sleep I opened his messages on his phone [and] I saw everything,” she explained.

“How they laughed at me all the time, [saying] that I’m stupid and naive, that they slept together while I was working in my room.”

The woman said she “completely broke down” and decided to move.

However, her boyfriend continued to visit her, which upset her aunt.

“She sent me their nudes and sex videos and called me from his phone while she was having sex so I could hear her moaning,” the poster recalled.

The woman described how most of her relatives sided with her aunt, even her own mother.

“My birthday came and no one cared, not even my mother. She said she had no money for my birthday, but a day later… [she] threw a big party for my aunt’s daughter,” she said.

Four warning signs that your partner is cheating

Private investigator Aaron Bond from BondRees revealed four warning signs that your partner may be cheating.

They start taking their phones everywhere

In close relationships, it is normal to know each other’s passwords and use each other’s phones. If their phone habits change, they may be hiding something.

Aaron says, “If your partner starts changing his password, taking his phone everywhere, even around the house, or if he gets defensive when you ask to use his phone, this could be a sign that he’s not being faithful. “

“You should also look at how they put their phone down when it’s not in use. If they look at the phone with the screen facing down, they may be hiding something.”

They start telling you less about their day

If partners cheat, they may start avoiding you. This could be because they feel guilty or because it is easier for them to lie to you.

“If you feel like your partner suddenly starts avoiding you and stops wanting to do things with you or stops talking about their day, this is another warning sign.”

“Partners often avoid their spouses or tell them less about their day because cheating can be difficult, remembering all your lies is impossible, and it’s an easy way to get caught,” says Aaron.

Their libido changes

Your partner’s libido can change for a variety of reasons, so it might not be a sure sign of cheating, but Aaron says it can be a red flag.

Aaron says: “Cheaters often have less sex at home because they are cheating, but occasionally they may also have more sex at home. This is because they feel guilty and use this increase in sex to hide their cheating. You may also find that your partner will introduce new things into your sex life that were not there before.”

They become negative towards you

Cheaters know that cheating is wrong and for them it will feel good. This can cause tension and anxiety within themselves that they will have to justify.

“To release the tension they feel inside, they will try to convince themselves that you are the problem and out of nowhere become critical of you. Maybe you didn’t walk the dog that day, do the dishes, or do a book read. Book to your children before bed. A small problem like this can now feel like a big problem and if you experience this, your partner may be cheating,” Aaron warns.

Luckily, the woman got her happy ending, despite still having panic attacks about the situation.

“Six months passed and I met my current boyfriend, who is amazing, and he saved me from my family and my ex.”

Reddit users shared their thoughts on the situation in the comments section.

“I’m sorry you went through this. Your family and ex are horrible and you deserve so much better. I’m glad you found someone who loves and protects you,” one reader wrote.

“Sorry, but your family is sick. You should get a restraining order if your ex comes back to hunt you again,” said another commenter.

“You need to go to therapy. Your ex cheated on you with your aunt and everyone in your family blamed you. There is so much a person can take on their own,” said a third person.

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