My husband cheated on me with his own brother while I was in the same house
A WOMAN revealed the truth about her husband’s infidelity was even worse than she expected.
The woman noticed love bites on her partner’s chest that she had not given him, and was shocked to find out who had.
In her Reddit afterthe unnamed user detailed the events that led to the shocking revelation.
She described the time since learning about her husband’s disgusting behavior as “pure hell.”
The poster stated that she and her husband had been together for a total of eight years and married for five years.
One day, while visiting her sick mother, the woman left her husband at home.
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She pointed out that the timing of the visit was a good fit as her husband planned to celebrate his brother’s birthday while she was away.
“I wished them a good time and hoped they would have fun,” she said, adding that she “didn’t think much about it.”
However, she decided to return a day earlier than she had originally planned, hoping to surprise her husband.
“I walked into our house and heard noises, sex noises,” the Reddit user wrote.
“I kind of brushed it off because I thought it was just him pleasuring himself and watching porn.”
However, twenty to thirty minutes later, his husband came downstairs and turned “white as a ghost” when he saw her.
“He’s staring at me, stammering and looking guilty,” the woman recalled.
“Not even two minutes later, his brother comes downstairs, and he has a hickey on his neck.
‘ He greets me stiffly [and] tells him to run back home to his girlfriend.”
The poster noticed that her husband and his brother were acting strangely and did not even say goodbye.
When she confronted him about the strange interaction, she described his response as “very evasive.”
Four warning signs that your partner is cheating
Private investigator Aaron Bond from BondRees revealed four warning signs that your partner may be cheating.
They start taking their phones everywhere
In close relationships, it is normal to know each other’s passwords and use each other’s phones. If their phone habits change, they may be hiding something.
Aaron says, “If your partner starts changing his password, taking his phone everywhere, even around the house, or if he gets defensive when you ask to use his phone, this could be a sign that he’s not being faithful. “
“You should also look at how they put their phone down when not in use. If they look at the phone with the screen facing down, they may be hiding something.”
They start telling you less about their day
If partners cheat, they may start avoiding you. This could be because they feel guilty or because it is easier for them to lie to you.
“If you feel like your partner suddenly starts avoiding you and stops wanting to do things with you or stops talking about their day, this is another warning sign.”
“Partners often avoid their spouses or tell them less about their day because cheating can be difficult, remembering all your lies is impossible, and it’s an easy way to get caught,” says Aaron.
Their libido changes
Your partner’s libido can change for a variety of reasons, so it may not be a sure sign of cheating, but Aaron says it can be a warning sign.
Aaron says: “Cheaters often have less sex at home because they are cheating, but occasionally they may also have more sex at home. This is because they feel guilty and use this increase in sex to hide their cheating. You may also find that your partner will introduce new things into your sex life that were not there before.”
They become negative towards you
Cheaters know that cheating is wrong and for them it will feel good. This can cause tension and anxiety within themselves that they will have to justify.
“To release the tension they feel inside, they will try to convince themselves that you are the problem and out of nowhere become critical of you. Maybe you didn’t walk the dog that day, do the dishes, or do a book read. Book to your children before bed. A small problem like this can now feel like a big problem and if you experience this, your partner may be cheating,” Aaron warns.
Her husband said he and his brother had an argument, but she kept pressing him for details.
“He eventually gives in and says Marcus cheated on his girlfriend and the woman he cheated with escaped through the window when they heard my car,” she said.
The woman said she was still suspicious, but also worried about Marcus’ girlfriend, who was a close friend of hers.
She also shared her confusion about why Marcus, who lives alone, invited a woman to their home.
The woman then noticed that her husband began to act “very quiet, reserved and nervous.”
“When my husband took a shower, I went after him to wash my face and noticed that he too had hickeys on his chest that he tried to hide when he saw me,” she said.
“I feel sick and decided to search his phone.”
However, the messages she discovered on her partner’s phone were far worse than any affair she could have imagined.
“I still read the conversations between him and his brother when my husband gets out of the shower,” she said.
“The conversations are explicit, the reality hit me like a ton of bricks.”
Her husband tried to explain away the flirty messages as “just a joke between brothers.”
That night, however, her husband broke down and revealed “everything” to her.
“He has an on-again, off-again relationship with his brother. They started having sex over a decade ago,” she explained.
The woman shared his suspicions that her estranged in-laws had disowned their sons because of their inappropriate relationship.
“I haven’t slept since last night and I don’t know what to do. I can’t look at my husband and I don’t know if I should tell all this to Marcus’ girlfriend,” she said.