A WOMAN explains why her husband’s constant infidelity doesn’t bother her.
She revealed the arrangement she and her husband had made that benefited them both.
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In her afterReddit user Sugarspicemoney opened up about her laid-back attitude towards her husband’s affairs.
She explained that his infidelity bothered her at first, but that she has now gotten used to it and even benefits from it.
“I know this is against the norm because cheating is frowned upon and I used to think it was a bigger deal when I was younger but not as much now,” she wrote.
The anonymous woman indicated that she was not surprised by her husband’s behavior.
“I always knew my husband had a wandering eye, but overall he’s great,” she explains.
However, she said he often goes on weekend trips to destinations like Las Vegas.
“For these trips he always left some extra money for me and he always brought something back for me,” she said.
She said that these gifts are usually shoes, jewelry or bags.
The poster detailed the conditions for her husband’s cheating.
“It’s never the same person and it always remains one night,” she explains.
“He doesn’t take girls on vacation, he doesn’t have sugar babies, he only has one night stands.
“We don’t talk about it openly. It’s one of those things that I know is there, but I don’t talk about it unless there’s something that upsets me.”
She added that their own sex life is “great” and that there is “nothing wrong with it”.
“The main reason I don’t care so much about his occasional one-night stands is because I’m very well taken care of,” she revealed.
“He will arrange anything I want for me. If I tell him I want to go on holiday somewhere, he will take me.
Four Red Flags That Your Partner Is Cheating
Private investigator Aaron Bond of BondRees revealed four warning signs that your partner may be cheating.
They start taking their phones everywhere
In close relationships, it is normal for people to know each other’s passwords and use each other’s phones. If their phone behavior changes, they may be hiding something.
Aaron says: “If your partner starts changing their passwords, taking their phone everywhere, even into the house, or acts defensively when you ask to use their phone, it could be a sign that they are not being faithful to you.”
“You also have to look at how they put their phone down when they’re not using it. If they put the phone face down, then they could be hiding something.”
They start telling you less about their day
When partners cheat, they may start to avoid you. This may be because they feel guilty or because it makes it easier for them to lie to you.
“If you feel like your partner suddenly starts avoiding you and doesn’t want to do things with you anymore, or doesn’t tell you about his or her day anymore, that’s another warning sign.”
“Partners often avoid each other or share less about their day because cheating can be difficult. It’s impossible to remember all your lies and it’s easy to get caught,” says Aaron.
Their libido changes
According to Aaron, your partner’s libido can change for a number of reasons, so it’s not necessarily a sign of cheating, but it can be a warning sign.
Aaron says, “Cheaters often have less sex at home because they’re cheating, but sometimes they have more sex at home because they feel guilty and use this increase in sex to hide their cheating. You’ll also find that your partner will introduce new things into your sex life that weren’t there before.”
They become negative towards you
Cheaters know that cheating is wrong and that it makes them feel good, but it can create tension and fear in them that they then have to justify.
“To release the tension they feel inside, they try to convince themselves that you are the problem and they become critical of you out of nowhere. Maybe you didn’t walk the dog that day, didn’t do the dishes, or read your kids a bedtime story. A small issue like this can now feel like a big one, and if you experience this, your partner may be cheating,” Aaron warns.
“I don’t look at the prices when I go shopping. Everything I spend, I pay with his credit card, which he pays off and he also gives me a monthly allowance.”
The Reddit user explained that she had been with her partner since he was “completely broke.”
“I would like to have a faithful marriage, but if I had to choose between that and never having to worry about money again, I would choose the latter,” she said.
She added that she feels better now that she knows about her husband’s affairs.
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“It was the not knowing that hurt,” the poster said.
Reddit users shared their thoughts on the couple’s stance in the comments.
“If it works for you, keep doing it. As long as no one gets hurt, you don’t have to live by anyone else’s standards, just your own,” one reader wrote.
“If you’re not angry about it, it’s not cheating, it’s an open relationship,” someone else said.
“Some people choose money, status, comfort, etc. over love. I just can’t do that,” said a third Redditor.
