My husband sleeps with our neighbor and my best friend – they are both married

A WOMAN is devastated after discovering her husband cheated on her with two different people.

The mother-of-two revealed she discovered his secret while he slept, but he didn’t regret his cheating.

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On social media, she revealed how infidelity had been part of their marriage for some time.

She was deployed at work and the couple went through hardships during that time, causing her to message other men and send them explicit photos.

While she admits to betraying trust, she was adamant that she hadn’t met anyone in person, so it wasn’t nearly as bad as his actions.

After admitting to her affair, the couple discussed breaking up and he said he was seeing someone while she was away.

But when she got home, the couple decided to patch things up, or so she thought.

She decided to grab his Apple Watch when she discovered that the person he had seen was one of their best friends.

The 25-year-old said: “I couldn’t sleep last night and I took his watch to charge because he kept saying he kept forgetting to charge it because he wanted to wear it again.

‘Something inside me told me to watch and I wish I hadn’t. I tapped her name and started scrolling.

“The ‘I love you’ exchanges ripped my heart out. Plus, the way he talked to our neighbor sexually made me feel some way.

“These are both two women who are part of our daily lives to this day and now I feel betrayed.”

She decided to confront her husband in the morning and ask if he had slept with either woman, as he admitted to sleeping with both.

He responded that he planned to cheat after she sent explicit photos to other men.

Her husband said, “Yes. I told you that whatever you do, I would do it tenfold. You knew I was heartbroken.”

Now she was left devastated as her marriage seemingly fell apart.

Four warning signs that your partner is cheating

Private investigator Aaron Bond from BondRees revealed four warning signs that your partner may be cheating.

They start taking their phones everywhere

In close relationships, it is normal to know each other’s passwords and use each other’s phones. If their phone habits change, they may be hiding something.

Aaron says, “If your partner starts changing his password, taking his phone everywhere, even around the house, or if he gets defensive when you ask to use his phone, this could be a sign that he’s not being faithful. “

“You should also look at how they put their phone down when not in use. If they look at the phone with the screen facing down, they may be hiding something.”

They start telling you less about their day

If partners cheat, they may start avoiding you. This could be because they feel guilty or because it is easier for them to lie to you.

“If you feel like your partner suddenly starts avoiding you and stops wanting to do things with you or stops talking about their day, this is another warning sign.”

“Partners often avoid their spouses or tell them less about their day because cheating can be difficult, remembering all your lies is impossible, and it’s an easy way to get caught,” says Aaron.

Their libido changes

Your partner’s libido can change for a variety of reasons, so it might not be a sure sign of cheating, but Aaron says it can be a red flag.

Aaron says: “Cheaters often have less sex at home because they are cheating, but occasionally they may also have more sex at home. This is because they feel guilty and use this increase in sex to hide their cheating. You may also find that your partner will introduce new things into your sex life that were not there before.”

They become negative towards you

Cheaters know that cheating is wrong and for them it will feel good. This can cause tension and anxiety within themselves that they will have to justify.

“To release the tension they feel inside, they will try to convince themselves that you are the problem and out of nowhere become critical of you. Maybe you didn’t walk the dog that day, do the dishes, or do a book read. Book to your children before bed. A small problem like this can now feel like a big problem and if you experience this, your partner may be cheating,” Aaron warns.

The message had gone viral Reddit and hundreds of people took to the comments to share their thoughts.

One person wrote: “You’re both cheaters in each other’s eyes, what’s left to save? Just split up and try to be good co-parents.”

Another commented: “Do you think the first time you caught him was the first time he cheated? No.”

“This is always inexcusable. If you let him out he’ll just be better at hiding it. They always cheat again. Don’t say anything to him and talk to your divorce lawyer tomorrow. Good luck,” wrote a third.

Meanwhile, a fourth said: “You pack your bag and go stay with a friend. Get up early and talk to lawyers. The only solution.’

“It seems like his love for you died a while ago. Bad luck. Accept it and stay with him or leave,” a fifth claimed.

Someone else added: “I never understand how someone who is ‘heartbroken’ over being cheated on then turns around and sleeps with another married person out of revenge.”

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