My older boyfriend sent me a list of things I did wrong after sex

A WOMAN is left distraught after her boyfriend sent her a list of things she did wrong after sex.

The 20-year-old revealed that the list was sent to her after she lost her virginity to her boyfriend, who is 15 years older, adding that she now fears being intimate with him again.

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Take to Redditthe woman revealed that the sex was awkward and awkward, but said she expected it because she was very nervous.

However, when she woke up, the next One day she received a disgusting text message from her partner, with a list of criticisms.

The text read: “1. Be sexier. Don’t be so quiet. Moan and scream.

“2. Your main game needs A LOT of work. Look for it.

“3. Don’t be so awkward. You’re not a virgin anymore, so don’t act like it.

“4. You need to get better at shaving

“5. Don’t tell someone to stop if they get into it. It ruins the mood

“6. Let me try what I want. Don’t let me ruin the mood

“7. Don’t be shy. It’s not sexy.”

The woman said she “doesn’t mind” being told how to do things better because she knew she wouldn’t be great the first time.

However, she added: “I just don’t really like the way he did it.

“I would have preferred if I had told it face-to-face and in a softer way.”

“I felt blindsided by this text and now the thought of us having sex again makes me feel more self-conscious.”

The woman revealed she is now terrified that if she has sex again she will wake up to more text messages.

The post was flooded with replies, with many suggesting she should immediately break up with the 35-year-old.

One person said: “A 35 year old man with a 20 year old is already a red flag.”

A second person said: ‘You need to get rid of him immediately. Any man who knows you are a virgin and tries to shame you after doing it for the first time is doing it on purpose.”

A third person said: “Abandon this man immediately, this is awful.

“He’s trying to manipulate you by breaking your self-confidence.”