My sister confessed to having an affair with my fiancée before his death

A FURIOUS woman felt rejected when she discovered her sister had had an affair with her fiancé before his death.

The 25-year-old revealed that her fiancé, 27, died in a car crash just months before their wedding.

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Since his death, she has been drinking herself to sleep and staying in bed not talking to anyone.

The devastated woman said her friends had to convince her to go out after staying in her home for almost four weeks.

“But when I got home and walked into the living room, I saw my sister (22F) in my wedding dress, with music playing in the background as she looked at herself in the mirror with obvious tears running down her face,” she said, continuing to write Reddit.

“When she immediately noticed me, she shouted at me to get out, but I stuck to my guns and refused until she explained herself.

“Then she broke down and told me that before my fiancée’s death, she and he had had an affair and that they were planning to run away together before the wedding.”

The woman said her sister was desperate to explain more, but she ran to her room and had a panic attack.

“I feel sick even writing this, to be honest, I don’t want to look at her,” she said.

“I don’t want anything to do with her and all I’ve done is cry all day. This year has honestly been the worst of my entire life and I really don’t know what to do.”

She described her fiancé and sister as “very close” before his tragic death.

Many commenters shared their condolences and tried to convince the woman that her sister was lying.

One person said she might be ‘in love’ with her fiancé and had fantasies of them being together, while another suggested she just wanted attention.

“You said they’ve gotten friendlier and that’s normal when you’re about to become family,” said one Redditor.

“Maybe he honestly believed that was all there was to it.

“Maybe he didn’t even notice that she had feelings for him because his attention was focused on you and not her. And I think that’s what all this is.

“She’s jealous that you got what she wanted, so she’s trying to hurt you and ruin your memories.”

Four warning signs that your partner is cheating

Private investigator Aaron Bond from BondRees revealed four warning signs that your partner may be cheating.

They start taking their phones everywhere

In close relationships, it is normal to know each other’s passwords and use each other’s phones. If their phone habits change, they may be hiding something.

Aaron says, “If your partner starts changing his password, taking his phone everywhere, even around the house, or if he gets defensive when you ask to use his phone, this could be a sign that he’s not being faithful. “

“You should also look at how they put their phone down when not in use. If they look at the phone with the screen facing down, they may be hiding something.”

They start telling you less about their day

If partners cheat, they may avoid you. This could be because they feel guilty or because it is easier for them to lie to you.

“If you feel like your partner suddenly starts avoiding you and stops wanting to do things with you or stops talking about their day, this is another warning sign.”

“Partners often avoid their spouses or tell them less about their day because cheating can be difficult, remembering all your lies is impossible, and it’s an easy way to get caught,” says Aaron.

Their libido changes

Your partner’s libido can change for a variety of reasons, so it may not be a sure sign of cheating, but Aaron says it can be a warning sign.

Aaron says: “Cheaters often have less sex at home because they are cheating, but occasionally they may also have more sex at home. This is because they feel guilty and use this increase in sex to hide their cheating. You may also find that your partner will introduce new things into your sex life that were not there before.”

They become negative towards you

Cheaters know that cheating is wrong and for them it will feel good. This can cause tension and anxiety within themselves that they will have to justify.

“To release the tension they feel inside, they will try to convince themselves that you are the problem and out of nowhere become critical of you. Maybe you didn’t walk the dog that day, do the dishes, or do a book read. Book to your children before bed. A small problem like this can now feel like a big problem and if you experience this, your partner may be cheating,” Aaron warns.

Others told the woman she should find out for herself if her sister can’t provide “the receipts” for her claims.

“You can always go online and check his details through his mobile provider,” one person said.

“If you have his social media account details, check there too. However, I would definitely recommend setting some healthy boundaries with your sister.

“I would say that too, regardless of whether there are OPs [original poster’s] sister is lying or not, OP now knows her sister’s true nature and should stay far away from her after all this,” wrote another.

“Sister is toxic af [as f***k] and evil to do so. Remove those people from your life as quickly as possible.”

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