People are so angry about my controversial marriage rules – I don’t care
A WOMAN has left people furious after revealing the “controversial” decisions she made ahead of her wedding day.
Madeleine White admitted she had no idea her choices would upset so many people, saying: “I might turn into a bridezilla after all.”
Madeleine told TikTok that her first “divisive” decision was to have a wedding at a different location.
She said people accused her of being “selfish” because many people who could not afford to travel would be excluded from the wedding.
But she also said that “that’s exactly the crux of the matter.”
“We want to avoid the fair-weather guests who only come to watch the ceremony for an hour and get a free plate of food.
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“If people are spending money to come all the way to Europe to attend our wedding, they must really care about us.”
Another rule of Madeleine and her fiancé is that there are no speeches at the wedding.
“We’ll have my dad give a speech and Andrew’s dad give a welcome toast,” she said.
“And that’s it, finito, cut!”
Madeleine added that they will give their guests a dress code and tell them what to wear.
She said people criticized this rule, calling it “tasteless” and “selfish,” but she said she found it useful to have a theme.
“It’s more difficult and confusing if you don’t impose a dress code on people,” she said.
Madeleine’s video, which was posted under the username @madeleine_white, has likely touched many people, as it has already been viewed more than 2.5 million times on the video platform.
TikTok users rushed to the video’s comments section to share their thoughts.
Someone said, “Our problem with offsite weddings is that we always want to go but can’t afford it.
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“It would take at least a year to save up money to travel like this and that would mean no more family vacations.”
A second person said, “If I got married somewhere else, I would feel guilty that my friends and family would have to spend so much of their savings to go there.
“They care about you, but they’re not rich.”
A third person said: “The only problem with getting married in a foreign location is that it sometimes excludes people with health issues, like grandparents and people who don’t have a lot of money to travel.”
A fourth person added: “Most of my family couldn’t attend my cousin’s wedding because they couldn’t afford it.
“It was heartbreaking that we couldn’t go.”
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