Sofia Vergara Is ready to date again – but with a few reservations.
Vergara, 52, appeared on the Today Show next Mel B promoting the 20th season of America has talent When the conversation focused on what she is looking for in a partner.
“I want to say the basic items, such as health and someone who loves me,” Vergara told Co-hosts Jenna Bush Hager And in Andrews.
“And someone long, handsome.”
But the modern family star did not stop there when she decided to touch the financial data.
“I want someone who has as much money as me or more, because if not, then it’s a nightmare,” she explained.
“They finally hate you.”
Relationship -expert Dr. Channa Bromley DailYMail.com told that Vergara is absolutely right.
During the today show, Sofia Vergara said she wants someone who earns as much money as her or more, otherwise it can be a ‘nightmare’
Vergara has an estimated Nettowaarde of $ 180 million and is said to have around $ 10 million per episode of America’s Got Talent this season
‘Why? Because deep down many men are socialized to see themselves as the financial providers in relationships, “she explained.
‘When that is disturbed, it messes with their sense of identity and self -esteem.
“It’s not just a matter of ego. It is biological, psychological and social. ‘
She said in situations where women make more than men, men feel that their masculinity is being threatened – as archaic as it seems.
“It’s not logical, but it’s deeply ingrained,” said Dr. Bromley.
“This often leads to resentment, which may not appear immediately but builds up over time.”
And you can usually see the warning indications early in the relationship.
Dr. Bromley said to look at drawing like jealousy masked as humor or any kind of passive-aggressive behavior about money.
Vergara and ex -armor Joe Manganiello were married for nine years before they decided to go their own way
“If a man digs about your financial success or becomes defensive about his role, even in the early stages, believe me, this is where resentment starts,” she said.
“If he can’t celebrate you, he is not the right partner for a relationship that is built on equality and growth.”
If you want to completely avoid this, she said, just like Vergara, that finding a man who earns right or more for you may be the key.
“But if you want a relationship where that is not a problem, you need someone who is safe in their own identity, someone who does not derive his sense of value from his salary,” Dr. Bromley.
Vergara currently has an estimated capacity of around $ 180 million, while her former man Joe Manganiello is appreciated at $ 40 million.
Vergara was married to Manganiello for nine years before they decided to go their own way.
Although the couple said several things about their split, Vergara stated that it had to be with the fact that she did not want to be a ‘old mother’ while Manganiello wanted children.
She revealed that when she was divorced for the first time, she panicked.
“I had something like:” I’m 52, what’s going to happen? Where am I going to find [someone]? “”
But quickly ahead that she is single for more than a year and a half, she said she feels much calmer about where she is in her life.
“I’m not really in a hurry anymore,” she said.
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