The “best friend” who held my hand at my husband’s funeral is committing a sick betrayal
A WOMAN has told of the shocking discovery she made about her husband after his funeral.
She revealed how he cheated on her with four different women during their marriage.
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In her viral videoTikTok user Shuany (@shaunygirl) explained the situation to her followers.
The mother of two told her audience that one of the women her husband had been seeing behind her back was her best friend.
“Now she held my hand at that funeral, she sat in the front with me,” she remembers.
“I really relied on her for support at the time, which, considering what she had done to me, was just more betrayal.”
While Shauny considered various forms of revenge, including hiring a plane with a banner detailing the affair to fly over her workplace, she ultimately decided to simply cut her out of her life.
“I messaged her and I said, ‘Don’t ever talk to me again’ and she just said, ‘I’m sorry,’” she explained.
As if this betrayal wasn’t bad enough, Shauny said her late husband’s phone revealed more than one affair.
She discovered that he had also been seeing a woman who lived “on the other side of town.”
Although the TikToker didn’t feel the personal betrayal because she didn’t know the woman, she did describe how she continued to hurt her even after her husband’s funeral.
“What she did was a shame, after his death she called herself his girlfriend,” she explained.
“She posted pictures of them on her social media, she wrote a personal letter about their relationship, how in love they were, and she personally delivered it to my address.
“She did everything she could to steal the grief. She couldn’t just let me grieve in peace. She couldn’t let me be the mother of my children. Besides, that’s just unforgivable.”
In addition to her best friend and the ‘mour thief’, Shauny’s late husband had also been sneaking around with the mother of their son’s classmate.
Shauny revealed that this woman worked as a hairdresser and even had her hair done on the day of her wedding.
She acknowledged that the woman had her own mental health issues, but added that these did not condone her behavior at the time of the affair.
Four warning signs that your partner is cheating
Private investigator Aaron Bond from BondRees revealed four warning signs that your partner may be cheating.
They start taking their phones everywhere
In close relationships, it is normal to know each other’s passwords and use each other’s phones. If their phone habits change, they may be hiding something.
Aaron says, “If your partner starts changing his password, taking his phone everywhere, even around the house, or if he gets defensive when you ask to use his phone, this could be a sign that he’s not being faithful. “
“You should also look at how they put their phone down when not in use. If they look at the phone with the screen facing down, they may be hiding something.”
They start telling you less about their day
If partners cheat, they may avoid you. This could be because they feel guilty or because it is easier for them to lie to you.
“If you feel like your partner suddenly starts avoiding you and stops wanting to do things with you or stops talking about their day, this is another warning sign.”
“Partners often avoid their spouses or tell them less about their day because cheating can be difficult, remembering all your lies is impossible, and it’s an easy way to get caught,” says Aaron.
Their libido changes
Your partner’s libido can change for a variety of reasons, so it might not be a sure sign of cheating, but Aaron says it can be a warning sign.
Aaron says: “Cheaters often have less sex at home because they are cheating, but occasionally they may also have more sex at home. This is because they feel guilty and use this increase in sex to hide their cheating. You may also find that your partner will introduce new things into your sex life that were not there before.”
They become negative towards you
Cheaters know that cheating is wrong and for them it will feel good. This can cause tension and anxiety within themselves that they will have to justify.
“To release the tension they feel inside, they will try to convince themselves that you are the problem and out of nowhere become critical of you. Maybe you didn’t walk the dog that day, do the dishes, or do a book read. Book to your children before bed. A small problem like this can now feel like a big problem and if you experience this, your partner may be cheating,” Aaron warns.
Finally, she revealed that her husband had also slept with his business partner’s daughter, who also happened to be married to a friend of his.
Shauny forwarded the incriminating messages between the two to the woman’s husband.
Despite her difficult circumstances, she said she has decided that “moving on is the best revenge I can have.”
Her TikTok followers shared their thoughts on the situation in the comments section.
“The way you come across already tells me what kind of woman you are!! You are amazing, oh and beautiful too!!!” wrote one impressed viewer.
“Classy lady, you handled all the betrayals with dignity. Keep your head up, what goes around comes around!!” another person agreed.
“You stayed classy and graceful to protect your children. Well done. It must be hard but you kept it up fantastically,” said a third commenter.
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