Alex Batty ‘was BRAINWASHED and had it rough’ while living in commune for six years after ‘being kidnapped by his mother and grandfather’, family say – as details emerge of the off-grid ‘alternative lifestyle’ he was immersed in

A British boy who said he was kidnapped and taken to a ‘spiritual commune’ by his mother and grandfather six years ago was ‘brainwashed’ while living with them, his family in England have said, as they prepare to be reunited with him within days.

Alex Batty, from Oldham, Lancashire, was just 11 when he did not return from a holiday to Spain with his mother Melanie, then 37, and grandfather David, then 58, in 2017. A picture of a luxury villa has now emerged, which Alex shared in 2017 saying he was ‘going on holiday’.

His grandmother and legal guardian, Susan Caruana, said in 2018 that she believed her daughter Melanie and ex-husband David had taken him abroad to pursue an ‘alternative lifestyle’.

Some of Alex’s friends on Facebook include people who appeared to live off-grid, practicing rituals, meditation and yoga, referring to ‘Gaia’, the Greek earth goddess, and promoting the building of ‘sustainable and abundant communities’ in Morocco and elsewhere.

Details are now beginning to emerge of the sort of life the teenager is likely to have led in the ‘itinerant commune’ he fled from in France, which was reportedly cut-off from mainstream society and had no schools. 

Alex’s aunt, Maureen Batty, 73, has told how relatives feared for Alex’s wellbeing after so long away from his family in Britain and outside mainstream education. Maureen said: ‘Alex has been brainwashed by the religion David was in.’ 

Ms Batty told the Mail: ‘Alex hasn’t had any education while out there, so we don’t know what he’ll be like when he comes home. [He] has had it rough. It is a mess. I’ve been told that Alex said that he had escaped and he didn’t want to lead that lifestyle. I just want to know the truth about what’s gone on.’ 

Speaking from the family home in Oldham last night, Ms Caruana’s overwhelmed husband Emanuel told the Mail: ‘We heard yesterday that he had been found. We’re now arranging via the police to see him and hope to in the next few days… We miss him very much. We’ve been hoping, praying he’d be found safe.’ 

Alex, now 17, fled the ‘spiritual community’ located in the foothills of the French Pyrenees and spent four days walking across the mountains trying to reach his grandmother in England. 

By some stroke of luck, Fabien Accidini, a chiropractic student from Toulouse, was driving along a road while delivering medicines in the mountainous region of Aude when he spotted Alex walking along in pouring rain at around 2am on Wednesday.

A freezing and exhausted Alex, who was carrying a skateboard, gratefully accepted Fabien’s offer of a lift and eventually told him of his extraordinary bid to leave southern France and get home to his family in England.

Alex should soon be returning home to England, French prosecutors said Thursday night, as an emotional Susan said she is ‘thrilled’ and in ‘shock’ that her beloved grandson has been found alive and well.

The relieved grandmother told The Times today: ‘I spoke to him this afternoon and it is definitely him. I was speaking to a boy when he was with us and now I’m speaking to a man. I’m hoping he will return next week. I wish we didn’t have the weekend upon us. It’s quite unbelievable when you don’t know if somebody’s dead or alive.’

Prosecutors say that Alex’s family have now confirmed his identity. ‘We confirm the identity [of Alex Batty]. Now he will return to Great Britain,’ Toulouse public prosecutor’s office told La Depeche. 

Alex said he had been trekking across the French Pyrenees for four days before Fabien spotted him – and one of the first things Alex did was message his grandmother from the student’s phone to say ‘I love you, I want to come home’. 

Fabien told the regional daily of the moment he discovered the teenager: ‘He was walking while the rain fell in heavy drops. The second time I passed him, I decided to offer to drop him off somewhere.

‘He was quite tall and blond, and dressed in black jeans, a white sweater and a backpack. ‘He also carried a skateboard under his arm and a flashlight for lighting. His attitude gave me confidence. He ended up getting into my van.’

He added: ‘During the first few minutes, he seemed a little shy. We tried to speak in French but I noticed that he had not mastered the language. I decided to communicate in English. When I asked him his name, he pretended his name was Zach, and then we continued chatting.’

Fabien continued: ‘We talked for over three hours! Very quickly, he gave me his real identity – Alex Batty – before telling me his story.

‘He said his mother kidnapped him when he was 12 years old. Since then he had lived in Spain in a luxury house with around ten people for three years,’ Fabien said. 

‘He arrived in France around 2021. In the middle of the weekend, he decided to leave his mother to join his family in England. He had been walking for more than four days.’

Alex told Fabien that he had been living with his mother and grandfather in a ‘spiritual community’ after they had kidnapped him. 

Fabien said Alex had told him that his mother was ‘a little crazy’ and ‘in some bizarre delirium when he was talking about spirituality’ but insisted that she had never imprisoned him and he could ‘leave when he wanted’. 

‘He had no animosity towards his mother but he really wanted to find his grandmother. He really missed his loved ones,’ Fabien said.

Fabien continued: ‘He was thirsty since he had been walking for several days, so I gave him some water.

‘When he explained his situation to me, I gave him my phone because he never had a means of communication.

‘He sent a message to his grandmother from my Facebook. Unfortunately she didn’t respond. Initially, Alex wanted to go to a big city to find help and go to an embassy. But finally, I explained to him that the gendarmes could pick him up.’

Fabien drove Alex to the commune of Revel, near Toulouse in southern France before the 17-year-old told police who he was. 

‘When he arrived, Alex seemed very tired,’ said Fabien. ‘He lay down on the ground.

‘After that, the gendarmes questioned us. They were trying to find out if it was really him. When they had confirmation, he was taken into care to spend the night in a home.

‘It’s Alex Batty, 100 per cent. When I saw the photos published by the English media, I absolutely did not doubt his words.

‘I think he’s a little stressed about all this. I hope he will be able to reconnect with his previous life and maybe one day we will see each other again.’ 

His grandmother, who was 62 at the time of his disappearance, said she was ‘thrilled’ that Alex had been found. 

Speaking from her home, she told The Sun: ‘I am so happy. I have spoken to him and he is well. He is currently with the authorities in France. It is such a shock.

‘I don’t know where his mum is. It is great news. I am just waiting for him to come home. I am thrilled.’  

Alex flew into Malaga airport in Spain on a pre-agreed trip with Melanie – who does not have legal parental guardianship – and David for a week-long stay in the Benahavis area, near Marbella on 30 September 2017.

But Alex, his mother and grandfather did not come back home as expected on October 8 2017, sparking a massive police enquiry into the boy’s apparent abduction. 

Alex’s heartbroken grandmother, who was 62 at the time of disappearance, said in 2018 that Melanie and David had previously lived on a commune in Morocco with Alex in 2014 as part of an ‘alternative lifestyle’. 

Susan, who has never given up hope she will be reunited with her grandson, said she believed her daughter and ex-husband had abducted Alex so that he could live an ‘alternative lifestyle’. 

She said at the time: ‘They didn’t want [Alex] to go to school, they don’t believe in mainstream school.’

Now prosecutors in south west France are certain that Alex, who is now 17, has turned up alone at a police station in the commune of Revel, near Toulouse, after a mammoth journey.

Alex, his mother and grandfather had been living between the departments of Ariege and Aude just east of Perpignan in southern France in tents and caravans pitched in the wilderness in recent weeks, reports La Depeche newspaper.

And last week, Alex decided flee the ‘spiritual community’ and his mother and grandfather in the rural foothills of the French Pyrenees.

Over several days, he hiked across mountains in the Pyrenees and crossed through several villages including Quillan, in the upper Aude Valley in southern France. 

After a gruelling few days hiking through the mountainous region, an exhausted Alex stumbled onto a road and by some stroke of luck was picked up by medical student Fabien on Tuesday evening.

Fabien, who said the boy could only speak English, said he called the police after quickly realising Alex’s situation was ‘abnormal’. The driver dropped Alex off in Revel, Toulouse, before the 17-year-old went to the local police station. 

Alex calmly told the shocked gendarmes how he had been living in a ‘spiritual community’ for the past six years and how he’s from the UK. 

At the time of Alex’s disappearance six years ago, Greater Manchester Police said ‘extensive enquiries’ led them to believe that Alex, his mother and grandfather left Benahavis and may have tried to head to Melilla in Morocco from the Port of Malaga.

Officers said they believed Alex was staying with Melanie and David who are ‘both at large’ and wanted in connection with his abduction. 

Recalling the day the trio were supposed to return home, Alex’s heartbroken grandmother Susan revealed that the trio had sent her a video of themselves saying why they had left the UK to live an ‘alternative lifestyle’. 

Susan said in 2018: ‘I got this message on Facebook and it was a YouTube video of the three of them.

‘They all spoke on it and Melanie said the reasons why they had done what they had done.

‘Alex said it was a million times better being with his mum and granddad. Obviously it hurt a bit but then my other concerns kicked in.

‘The reason I believe they have done this is because basically my lifestyle, my belief systems, are not what they agree with – just simply living day to day, how normal people do.

‘They didn’t want him to go to school, they don’t believe in mainstream school.’

On David Batty’s Facebook, he posted pictures about the Matrix and how the government is ‘destroying our lives’. He also wrote that ‘secret courts’ in the UK are ‘being used to steal children for profit’ 

Susan has never given up hope that she would be reunited with her grandson. 

On his 15th birthday, Susan pleaded with him to let her know he was safe and well in a post on Facebook. 

‘Happy birthday to my gorgeous 15 year old grandson. Alex please have some pity, I am broken. Please just give me a sign that you’re ok.

‘I think every day that you are in some far off place living the life that your mum wanted for you. All I want to know is that you’re still alive and well.

‘It’s been years of torture, my heart is broken. I love you so much I just need to know you’re ok. I hope I will see you again some day, I would give anything just for one hug. Grandma x’ 

Greater Manchester Police said in a statement released today that officers in Oldham are in contact with French authorities to establish the authenticity of reports that Alex was found. 

A spokesperson said: ‘This is a complex and long-running investigation, and we need to make further enquiries as well as putting appropriate safeguarding measures in place.’