‘He invited another woman to participate in our table’: read our shocking – and very uncomfortable – blind date that shows what cannot be done
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Every week Femail asks two singletons to report their blind date. This time Cristina, 44, and Kamlesh, 52, to remind Their meeting and revealing or they clicked.
Cristina, 44
A year, no children.
Dating past?
My longest relationship was a five -year -old in my 1920s. We broke up because we were too young to get married and he went to the US to study.
A year ago I split from my last boyfriend because he too lived in another country. I am now actively looking for someone to share my life with.
Cristina’s longest relationship lasted five years in her 1920s
Pre-date nerves?
A mixture of excitement and fear.
First impressions?
While I was waiting, I knocked at the bar with a French girl and we really dropped it off. But when Kamlesh was aimed at us, he thought I had accompanied the French girl on her date with him.
When he realized that I was his date, he made a joke and asked her to join our table. It was uncomfortable and he seemed overwhelmed.
I thought he would have a fitter body construction, since he does a lot of sport. Yet he is a handsome man for his age and friendly.
Easy to talk to?
Kamlesh is an intelligent man, so we discussed many topics in three hours. We spoke about the impact of technology on children’s behavior, because I used to work with children with special needs and Kamlesh spends a lot of time with his nephews.
We both love the outdoors and he showed me photos of his last bike tour around Normandy. I told him about my last vacation in Vienna.
Candal moments?
There were two! Kamlesh continued to apologize because he was sweaty because he had done an intense training before our date.
Before the beautiful French girl left, she said goodbye and offered to take over the drink that I had left at the bar. Kamlesh was a bit surprised and noticed: “I see that you make friends very easily.”
Flying sparks?
I did not feel attraction and I would have known immediately if there was something. Even if a man is a bit nervous or anxious, I know if he is for me or not.
She was disappointed that Kamlesh did not compliment her appearance during their date
Do you see him again?
No. We have not exchanged numbers. I expected that he would ask for mine, but I understand why he didn’t do that – we just didn’t have that spark.
What do you think he thought of you?
That I am not his type. He said I had a relaxing presence, which was fun. But it’s good manners to compliment a woman with her appearance and he didn’t.
On the positive side, he was Gentlemanly enough to wait until my taxi arrived and we said goodbye to a kiss on the cheek.
Would your friends and family like him like him?
My friends would do because he is an intelligent, curious man.
Kamlesh, 52
Single for three years, no children.
Dating past?
I had a few long-term relationships my longest was in my late 1930s and we were together for five years. When I was younger, I was extremely focused on my career in it. Now my balance between work and private life is much better and my time is myself.
Kamlesh concentrated heavily on his career when he was younger, but now has a better balance between work and life
Pre-date nerves?
No, in general I am not the kind of person who gets nervous.
First impressions?
Cristina had made a friend while she waited for me to arrive and immediately introduced us.
I almost joked: “Is this three?” But in the end meets: “I hope you don’t come to us!”
Cristina found me as a personal, smiley woman and very well presented.
However, she wore heels and I was a bit worried that she would be visibly larger than me.
Easy to talk to?
Yes, we had many common loads. We are both analytical thinkers who physically take care of ourselves.
Cristina works in the wellness industry and when I said I hadn’t had breakfast, she wanted to know why. That led to an exchange of recipes, because we both enjoy cooking.
We have also touched our promotional history. Cristina is a calming company, which I liked.
Candal moments?
Not really. I liked that Cristina was very polite to the staff.
Flying sparks?
It’s hard to say; I mean, we were both pleasant and polite opposite each other. As you get older, you realize that there is a crossness about ‘chemistry’.
Cristina is an attractive woman, and when I was younger, I thought: ‘Nice! That’s what I want! ‘But I did notice that she was 6ft in her heels when I walked her to her taxi – I was certainly shorter than she was.
Kamlesh thought his date Cristina was handsome and smiley
See her again?
It would be nice to see Cristina again in a more natural environment. I did not ask how she felt that the date had disappeared because that would have been weird. I deliberately did not put her on the spot and asked her for her number. I didn’t want her to feel obliged.
What do you think she thought of you?
I’m not sure; I couldn’t get atmosphere from her. If I am not suitable for her, it is possible because she wants a larger guy. On the positive side, we agree that we are both critical thinkers with a lot in common. But does she want to jump in bed with me? I have no idea.
Would your friends and family like?
Certainly. Cristina is a very calming and attentive person.
Cristina’s judgment: 5/10
Do you like? The stimulating conversation.
Sorry? No, I had a good time.
Coffee or taxi? Taxi.
Kamlesh’s judgment:
Do you like? Cristina is smart and attentive.
Sorry? No, it was a nice afternoon.
Coffee or taxi? Coffee.
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