‘Narcissistic’ bride hit because he erupts with her extremely sick father ‘ – because he missed the bachelor party

An expectant bride was criticized after it was revealed that she had a ‘blowout’ row with her father after he had missed it the bachelor Party because he is extremely ill and awaiting a liver transplant.

The woman’s sister, who seems to be out of the US, went to the Reddit Wire R/Bridzillas to complain about the upcoming bride and her fiancé.

In her position she revealed that she may not attend the wedding about the behavior of the soon couple.

Her after Read: ‘My step sister has completely lost the plot. Background – Her fiancé has always come across as a controlling man, but we swallowed our feelings about this and gave him an opportunity and things were generally reasonable to the wedding. A few years ago he didn’t go to my husband and my father’s bachelor party either.

‘Her fiancé expected my very sick stepfather (I call him my father) who cannot work, drink, drive or endure the day without the help of my mother, to travel alone for hours for a suit and also to attend a bachelor party.

‘My mother called and let them know that he could not go by order of the doctor and received a very long message from the groom about how disappointed he is, how the family makes itself feel excluded, etc. etc. No consideration for his health, just about this could influence.

‘My sister then walked in with the aggressive messages and also had a blowout argument with my father on the phone about how they feel like outsiders, how jealous she is that my parents came to me for my recent birth and to help me with the baby. I had pre -eclampsia and eventually got a crash C section, spent a week in the hospital with my baby in the Nicu. My father was in bed all the time and my mother did everything.

‘I should be her bridesmaid, but I really can’t see how it will work. This is one of the worst arguments she has ever had with family. She is gone for years without talking to us before. I really think they just avoided not to make contact because they want my parents’ money to help pay for their wedding.

A bride was criticized after a huge row of her father because he did not go to the Bachelor party – because he is sick and awaiting a liver transplant (stock image)

The anonymous poster went to Reddit to share her dilemma about the uncomfortable situation with her upcoming sister

“In the meantime, my father is on the transplant list and can even die while waiting and she thinks it is good to cut him because my father could not go to a pack of/bachelor party.”

People went to the commentary part to share their thoughts, saying many who criticized the sister.

They wrote: ‘Textboek narcissists. Not even smart. I’m sorry you go through this, but I hope you get them away from them forever. ‘

Another added: ‘I am sorry to hear that your father is so sick and that your sister can only think of himself. To be honest, I think it is one thing if she was insensitive and was apologized/owned when it was brought to her attention, but this is clearly not the case. It is so sad how people can become such acorns about a wedding. Yes, it’s a big problem, but it’s not the center of the world of everyone. I swear that the more Bridezilla stories I hear, the more it convinces me to go to the courthouse when it’s time to get married. Send positive thoughts to you and your father! ‘

A third added: ‘There is usually a local place that your father could fit for a suit. And it sounds merciless to expect a sick man to attend a nearby bachelor party, let alone a distant distant. ‘

Countless commentators suggested that the poster could take this opportunity to lower contact with her difficult sister.

One of them said: ‘My best you and dad and dad have to use this great opportunity to cut the bride and her groom out of your life forever. You should all ghost the couple completely. They deserve each other. ‘

In a similar spirit, another added: “Time to reduce contact with these manipulating narcissistic people.”

And a further reddit user wrote: ‘I would stop. Would not even attend a gift. GA NC [no contact]. ‘

Some spoke to the father’s disease in more detail, with one that said: ‘Depending on what organ needs the transplantation, it can be a bad idea for your father to be near many people who might be sick and pass it on to your father. Probably something to discuss with his doctor. (My mother had a transplant and stayed away from people while she waited to be called, because if she had fallen sick 1. She could die, and 2. They could not do the transplant. ”

Another wrote: ‘I hope your father can get an organ, can he have a living donor? I am sorry that your exster (she does not deserve the title of sister, so ex -sister = exster it is) stop the wedding and you and your parents can concentrate on your family and the health of your fathers, that is what is important. Exster you and your parents are not allowed to treat this way and are rewarded with money for the wedding and not her either. ‘