I made a list of rules for my fiancé’s bachelor party: he’s not allowed to talk to girls and has to bring me a present back, but people say we shouldn’t get married

A bride-to-be is dividing opinion after drawing up a list of ‘rules’ for her partner’s hen party.

Isabella Blount, 24, from Leicestershire, is getting married in Las Vegas in 2026 but has already drawn up a list of demands before her fiancé Max parties the night away at his stag do.

Izzy, who works in marketing, and Max got engaged last September while on vacation at DisneyWorld.

Goes to her TikTok account @isabellab212Izzy listed seven rules she wants her partner to follow during his bachelor party, including ‘no strippers’ and a ban on going to certain locations, such as Amsterdam.

She also wants Max to “video/picture everything” and bring her a gift back, explaining, “I’m not saying it makes up for anything, but I love gifts.”

She also wanted regular contact to make sure he was safe and added that he should not associate with members of the opposite sex, saying: “Girls are a no.”

Her video has now gone viral and has been viewed 1.8 million times, but people remain divided over whether her rules are too “controlling,” or if she’s just asking for basic respect from her partner.

Some people supported her requests, with one saying: ‘Honestly, you’re so real about this,’ while another commented: ‘Bachelorette parties should be seen as a getting married celebration, not a final ‘free’ party. night out’.

But others were more doubtful, as one commenter shared his own experiences, writing: ‘My fiancée’s bachelor party is a no-no this weekend. I just want him to enjoy his weekend because I trust him.”

One person objected to Izzy’s request for a gift, asking, “Bring a gift from a bachelorette party, like what exactly?” A hangover and the smell of regret?’

Another social media user said: ‘If a guy does this it’s controlling and oppressive,’ while someone else said: ‘If you don’t trust someone that much, is marriage really the best option?’

Izzy now insists her demands were a ‘joke’ and posted her updated rules, which still didn’t include strippers, some communication and returning a gift.

She told wedding planning website Hitched: “These ‘rules,’ as I called them on TikTok, are things we discussed when planning our bachelorette parties.

Izzy, who works in marketing, and Max got engaged last September while on vacation at DisneyWorld

Taking to her TikTok account @isabellab212, Izzy listed seven rules she wanted her partner to follow during his bachelorette party

The rules include ‘no strippers’ and a ban on going to certain locations, such as Amsterdam

Izzy and Max will tie the knot in Las Vegas in 2026 (photo after their engagement)

‘These are not all my actual views, and the word ‘rules’ was meant as a joke (he’s not a child!). I’d say they’re more setting the boundaries of things I’m not comfortable with him doing.

“The actual thing I told my fiance is ‘no strippers’ as far as I’m concerned this is disrespectful and I think a LOT of women agreed in the comments [of the video].

“The other big thing is communication. Me and my fiance live together and talk every day, so it would be unnatural not to talk even when we are apart. And especially because we just want to make sure that each other is safe and has fun!

“My fiance knew about the TikTok before it was posted because we both thought it was obviously a joke…. So now we just laugh together at the reactions. The gift thing was also meant to be funny, but I wouldn’t mind!’

Isabella says her fiancé “completely agrees and respects these things” and says that’s why they work so well as a couple.

People online remained divided over whether her rules were too ‘controlling’, or whether she was just asking for basic respect from her partner

Isabella says her fiancé ‘completely agrees and respects these things’ and says that’s why they work so well as a couple

Izzy said she didn’t expect such a response online because she usually makes TikToks just for her friends

‘The communication rule works both ways. He would also want to know that I am safe.

‘He doesn’t have to worry about the strippers because he knows the thought of them makes me uncomfortable. So you won’t find me at Magic Mike!’

She added that she didn’t expect the video to blow up like it did: ‘I usually make crazy TikToks for my friends to see, so I was shocked!

“I really think it’s revealed a huge talking point, and girls say they argue with their fiancés about the same things!” One of them even said they broke up with their partner after talking about strippers!’