It was no match for Sairah and William on this week’s Blind Date: ‘He was nervous when I arrived. He seemed disappointed

SAIRAH, 50

Divorced, without children.

Relationship history

I was divorced three years ago after 21 years of marriage, but was legally separated after 16 years. I’ve only had one real relationship since my divorce. Unfortunately, both of my exes were narcissists, so I’m careful who I date now.

Pre-date nerves?

I was excited, nervous and curious. I went for a smart-casual look that made me feel sexy.

First impression?

William was engrossed in his phone when I arrived, so I had a few seconds to assess him.

He’s attractive and has nice eyes, but not my type. I prefer slightly taller men.

It took me a minute to get his attention, so he was nervous when he looked up, and I got the sense that his initial, unfiltered reaction was one of disappointment.

Easy to talk to?

We got along well and connected on a few levels. I think we came to the conclusion early on that there was no romantic connection, but that just meant I could relax.

We’ve talked about toxic relationships in the past and discovered that we’ve both been deeply hurt, so we’re determined to find kinder, more positive partners.

We were very open and I felt like we understood each other. Despite coming from different backgrounds, we bonded over things like fitness and nutrition, his DJ business and my BollyX fitness classes, so it was a fun conversation.

Embarrassing moments?

The first meeting, because I had to break the spell on his phone to get his attention.

Did sparks fly?

Not really, but we had a great time. He talked about his ‘bad boy’ image; that people often assume the worst about him when he is actually kind and loyal. When he said goodbye he gave me a kiss on the cheek.

Would you like to meet again?

If he worked in Newcastle I’d come and say hello. We’ve exchanged numbers and sent messages, just not on a romantic level.

What do you think he thought of you?

I honestly don’t know. We’ve struck a chord about not wanting to mess around right now. I then sent him some warm messages telling him that he has a lot in store for him.

Would your family and friends like it?

People who really know me would know he wasn’t for me, but he’s a nice guy.

William, 51

Divorced with three children, aged 14, 22 and 29.

Relationship history

I got divorced three and a half years ago, after being married for twenty years. I’ve been on a few dates since then, but nothing major.

The feedback I always get is that I am flirty and look like a player. I can see it when I look in the mirror, but I am a sincere, loving man with a heart of gold. In reality, I am looking for The One.

Pre-date nerves?

A little, since I’ve never been on a blind date before, but I’m ready for anything, so I was excited too.

First impression?

To be honest, she probably wasn’t my type. When I like someone, my excitement level goes up a lot. That first impression is what seals it. Despite her sweet personality, I just didn’t get that feeling.

But I connected with her energy and warmth, so personality-wise there was an instant attraction.

Easy to talk to?

We never stopped talking and even went quite deep into how we overcame the trauma of difficult relationships.

I’m quite open and it was refreshing to share experiences with someone who has the same approach.

We share a positive view of the times ahead. On a lighter note, we both love EastEnders too. We are also both left handed and have similar personalities.

Embarrassing moments?

Not really, I’m happy to say.

Did sparks fly?

There was innocent flirting between us and easy jokes made back and forth. But I think we sensed early on that it wasn’t going anywhere. Our different lifestyles and career paths would keep us apart anyway.

Would you like to meet again?

Yes of course, but we both agreed that we would be better as friends than anything else. We messaged to check if the other person had gotten home safely, but we continued the conversation with the occasional chat about work.

What do you think she thought of you?

I hope she liked my personality and my openness and felt very comfortable with me.

Would your family and friends like her?

Yes, they would. She carries herself well and is a nice person. But I’m still searching for that elusive One.

SAIRAH’S VERDICT: 7/10

LIKED IT? He is down to earth, friendly and sincere.

REGRET? No.

COFFEE OR taxi? Coffee.

WILLIAM’S VERDICT: 9/10

LIKED IT? She is bubbly, warm and has a lot of energy.

REGRET? No.

COFFEE OR taxi? Coffee.